Being An Elder Sister Is Not The Easy Task

March 26, 2022

It's the Saturday morning (an weekend morning for me) and am in mood of long sleep because the past three days tired me a lot. But how's it possible at 7:15 AM my sister is on my head and asked me make her hairstyle. Because there is no holiday in her school. After making her hairstyle am again gone to sleep but at 7:45am again she woke me up and said now be ready to drop her school. Oops...... it's the difficult task but because as today my both brothers are not in home so finally I left my bed and gone with her to her school gate.

Now after returning from her school, am thinking that "Being a big sister is not the easy task"

As an elder with wanted or unwanted mood and sometimes unknowingly lots of responsibilities come on your head. I don't know when but as I grow I automatically take some of the responsibilities on my head.

Now matter how much am ladoo child of my home but from the childhood I have responsibility of my little brothers. Because we all are studying in one school. So it's my responsibility to go to the school together and also keep playing with them.

As am grow my responsibilities getting increased. Other people life spent in all time gossiping with their friends, but mine life rotating around calling and messaging my brothers that where are you right now.....? When will you come back home .....?

Let's see the example of yesterday that my little brother gone to Islamabad for one of her academy test but when I returned back from university I see his I'd card in the home. Then from the evening to morning my mind is just rotating his I'd card. But thanks God finally he received it in the morning hope so his test will be super easy and he will get good marks in it.

Being an elder sister/brother is not the easy task but I thought it's the cycle the love and care we got from our relationship is transferred to our siblings. No doubt am the big sister of my brothers and sister and fullfil all of their wishes especially my little brother and sister totally dependent on me,but there are my Khala Cousins who also treat me as child and fulfill my all wishes. So when am feel irritating from the responsibility of eldest I gone to my Grandma's house to become the little child and fulfill my all wishes.

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