Life is really hard and this is no matter are you men or women because both of this gender need to face lot of thing in life . But women in this case is different because of their marry life.. From the beginning of life they need to choice out that will they do govt job first or marry first because there has deep meaning hidden.. I think now a days 90% girls study due to their society system but how many of them aim to do job in future? Less than 50%,right? Well, this number might be raised up to 95% too if they understand how much helpful job is in their life.. This is just not for some percent of girls due to their luck mind .. Usually boys think about their future life but is girls think the same expect their marry life in future? Let's talk about it today!
There has a words of security of our selves .. This is what girls should understand every time because they have less security in life of be a happy women in future but how? Well, such as a women studied till she is 23 years old and later get married with a boy .. but she do not know will she be happy there or not .. Infect she also know that how the boy's family member will treat here after marry .. Also some girls now a days thought that love marriage is one of the best decision in their life so they do not think about her life because they think they have their dream partner who will care them whole life .. But this is fully wrong because boy will be changed once they will marry with the girl ,he loved. Girls may do not believe this but this happen auto .. Boys usually much romantic before marry but after marry they got extra pressure which can make their behave different .. And this is the reality which girls should realized rather than depend on their bf who gonna marry them.. But this does not mean that all boys get changed after marry but the percent also low being a good husband after marry the girls he love. The boys start to be changed for different reason as well girls may get hurt in different ways too.. Such as women usually do house work whole day such as clean house, care child, cooking and different thing but at the end of the day if husband come home while say to his wife, what are you doing whole day at home? Looks like you are doing nothing whole day except sleep and eat. Will this makes you feel good? Also there might be different reason which lead you to get hurt due to you are just house wife in house . For this reason some time there can be held a quarrel with husband and wife which lead to divorce decision . And this is nothing to boy as they can easily marry again but girls? This kinda hard for them.
After divorce, girls will be back to her father house and this kinda burden for the girls father and mother if not they are financially strong .. Also this is not matter is their parents financially strong or not but the hurt and blame the girl will get from other people is kinda worst feeling ever .. And this is why some time girls decided to kill their own self .. But how to get rid of from this kind of situation and future? This is easy if girs want to have a secure life for their future . What they need to do is focus on their study since their young age to till now rather than focus on love because love is the only thing his destroy both girls and boys life..
As soon as . girls will start to focus on their study life then they should focus on their job life and especially the job should be govt job due to high respect and permanent job. Once a girl got the job then her future become secure without any doubt . Infect , her husband or husband family will not be dare to say something against her due to her job. Even if her husband family become worst than he could control then divorce will not her to be sad as she can lead her life with happiness due to her job. As like we boy want our freedom and secure future , then girls should have the same aim rather than be a house wife only . Because depend on other is how hard , only the house wife understand.. For better experience you should go near your house wife brother's and asked her " What you want to do first if you able to go on your early age time" .. I think she will surely answer like study hard and get a govt based job for secure future.
Once again, life is hard and the more you take it as hard way then the more you will get success . For girls no matter how long it takes to get a jobs because after job she can get married anytime while have a nice family for forever. But if a girls get married before job then her life will be remain unsatisfied and unsecured .. This is just my thought . But this does not mean yet that i will marry a girl who have job but i will marry a girl who have no job and she can use her full time in house work to care every thing . As like i have said above that only few percent girls will be happy with their marriage life is not they have skills to do job or have no job.
If you look to America based developed country then you can easily see that most their girls or boy do job due to their life security and they do not want to rely on some one only badly . But if you look to our Asia continent based country or South Africa continent based country then there only available this kind of story .. Girls get into marry without having job or the qualification and later they lead a sad life while be a burden of other. This is the time to change of girls life..
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Here in the Phil most women have work. And most also had work before settling down. Most but not always the case.
I like your insight regarding the matter. I think in some cultures though, it will not be easy.