Women & their temperaments…

It’s been said that women are hard to understand. One moment they are as good as a heavenly angel and the other moment they are as evil as a demon. What is about the temperaments that make them go to extremes? Obviously, it’s not like there is no woman with an average attitude of course there are many.
I have encountered many women with different temperaments and it sometimes gets hard to deal with every woman with the same attitude.

Type 1:

Some women are highly intellectual and patient. They are the ones who listen to the subject matter discussed in front of them and they are more a rational person. They try to understand the things said to them. They say things while keeping aside their ego. Being more open to possibilities gives them a positive attitude overall. They stay away from interfering in other people’s business. I think it’s one of the best qualities a woman can have. Because I have noticed, and you guys would agree with me that most women have this urge to poke their nose in every matter. So, to resist that urge is a great quality that I have seen very few women possess.

Type 2:

Then there is another attitude that I have seen often many women possess. They are high maintenance. They always like to keep a distance between themselves and the other person. They have this thing in their minds that they are all in all. They will often treat others as inferiors. Their major problem is the ego which often proves as a hindrance in developing successful and stable relationships. They have trust issues, they always have doubts about others, which never lets them commit themselves in a healthy relationship. Sometimes they would develop that sense of competition that leads to jealousy which never lets them see anyone above them. Well, I am not against competition. It’s a good thing to progress in life. But in most cases, it leads to jealousy and jealousy is never good for anyone. As what it does is it takes away the capabilities of a person and renders one useless. It’s something that I am saying out of the experience.

Type 3:

Let’s discuss another temperament of women. Some women are so self-centered that they don’t see or care for the needs of others. They want to be the guest of honor everywhere. They want to be given protocol and be respected even if they don’t deserve it. But when it comes to showing respect to others, they are reluctant. They don’t feel like doing it because in their point of view no one deserves to be respected other than them. In their difficult times, they will look up to people to help them out but when it’s time to help others they will step back by putting forward a lame excuse. Such women are mean and not ever appreciated by people other than those who are like them.

Type 4:

While some women have this inbuilt passion to help and act as a blessing for others, they are generous and straightforward. They would never let you feel low. Even if you have committed something wrong, they wouldn’t embarrass you. You will always find them as the light bearers in darkness. These are the women that when you feel low, they are the ones who will come to your mind. I have seen very few women like that. Maybe because good is always rare.

Final Thoughts:

Anyways, it’s true that not every woman can have a similar or good attitude just like not all the fingers are identical, similarly not every person is the same. We have got to accept women just the way they are. However, there are certain habits or behavior that are highly undesirable and unbearable, so those habits must be changed or else you won’t be able to enjoy a lifelong relationship with good people. You might end up attracting negative people and there is nothing worse than that.

Disclaimer:

Everything written in this article is a personal experience. It doesn’t mean to subject any particular person, gender or community to any sort of criticism.

Thank you for reading this article! Stay happy & blessed!

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