Why does man not value the living but shed tears for the dead?

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It's amazing that we don't value living people so much, but when they leave us, then we think of them more. In today's busy life, man has made himself the busiest. Due to which it is becoming very difficult for him to give time to relationships. And in everyday life, many of our relationships seem to complain to us. But man is also compelled because he wants to earn more money by working more time. But in this race of life, many relationships are waiting for us. And when a person has time, relationships are lost somewhere. And man has only memories associated with his relationships.

We are happy to see old photos of ourselves, but when they are in front of us, we don't see them as we like the picture.

Either man becomes preoccupied with making money or he distances himself from his family.

The Man goes out and tries to earn money to meet the needs of himself and his family. And when he gets too busy, the family starts to crave to spend time with him. And often it becomes a difficult time in his life because he wants to meet the needs and pleasures of the people. With money, he meets his needs but often his grievances remain. In such a situation, He should try to get him to spend half of his time earning money, so he should spend half of his time with his family and try to resolve their grievances.

Because our relationships with us are broken in the busyness of life, we still feel incomplete while we are alive.

The relations we have, If they left unmanaged, they can be left astray and lose the right path

Our relationships seem to be falling apart because of our busy schedules. If this distance continues to grow, they may turn to suspicion. It often seems to the family that it only makes money for us but does not love us. Because it is human nature that if love is not expressed in true words, it can lead to suspicion. And most people create suspicion by saying this You are a family just a burden on the earner. And often people fall prey to this suspicion. These misgivings should not arise so the earners should try to, In addition to your earnings, attention and give time to your family.

Yes, and it often happens that even in this world, some relationships are lost to us forever

It is often the case with human beings that living in this world, close relationships are gone forever. And the reason for this is often mistrust. Some relationships fall mistrust prey to someone while maintaining a good relationship with you.

As happened to me.

My dear Uncle who loved us so much. He and his family would gladly meet us and come to our house. And so we were going to their house and feel happy. But due to some engagements, our visits became less frequent. And that time, someone gets them mistrust from us. And then they become victims of suspicion. And that's why our relationship ended forever. When it was an unbreakable blood relationship. To this day, I am deeply saddened by this. That he never eradicated this suspicion from within himself and neither could we.

I've often seen friends break up like this. And I think that's because of the lack of interaction and become the victim of suspicion.

It is important to always remember those who are left behind because man has a lot of memories attached to them.

Over time, people often have to forget old memories, And it seems to be making his new memories.

But there are some memories after that which he cannot forget even if he wants to. Like the beautiful moment, he spent with his close relatives.

Like I always miss my grandmother. When she was alive she used to tell me about my childhood and her own youth and childhood as well. I loved sitting next to them and listening to them.

I always miss my Grandmothers, Grandfathers, Aunts, and Uncles. May Allah keep them happy in Paradise forever.

Many people leave their memories with us when they leave our lives.

By the way, the human brain is far behind the robot

Robots don't take a moment to forget anything and it takes years for the human brain to forget something.

Because maybe robots don't have emotions associated with memories.

But we human beings are full of emotions.

And it is important to value living relationships as much as possible so that there is no left after leaving them.

Life is too short and there is no trust in it.

No one knows when it will leave.

As long as we live, we have to live with our loved ones.

We have to do our best to keep them happy.

Because when we leave, only memories remain

Thanks,

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If the only prayer you would say is a silent thank you to God for everything he has blessed you with, it would sum up all the other prayers.

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3 years ago

I can't help but remember this song that I love to listen and sing. It's called "If I Die Young" by The Band Perry and my favourite line was.

A penny for my thoughts, oh no, I'll sell 'em for a dollar They're worth so much more after I'm a goner And maybe then you'll hear the words I've been singing Funny when you're dead, how people start listening.

And isn't it just true? When someone dies we went to their funerals and cry our heart out but when they're living we don't even visit them and have a smile with them.

When my father in law died, I have no regrets thinking I didn't do this or that because we have the best time altogether when he was alive. I love him the most!

Please if you have time you can listen to that song and tell me what you think.

https://youtu.be/7NJqUN9TClM

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4 years ago

true

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4 years ago

Okay My Sweety Friend, I will hear this song for your happiness. Live for your loved ones, And having one's own to survive. Both are very important to us. Thank you very much for reading my post. Always be happy.

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4 years ago

Friendship ends with money. I know a lot of people who fight only for money, inheritance ... brother hates brother

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But I don't think friendship is a friendship when it based on money. But often it still happens. Thank you for your precious time

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4 years ago

Nice Post

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4 years ago

Wonderful

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Thanks

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Nice

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Thanks

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4 years ago

Nuce post

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4 years ago

thanks

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Life is too short and there is no trust in it.

No one knows when it will leave.

As long as we live, we have to live with our loved ones.

We have to do our best to keep them happy.

Nice words! 👌

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4 years ago

Thank you, Dear, for appreciating my writing

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4 years ago

Yes, exactly. When they can understand the blankness. Then the value starts.

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4 years ago

Thanks for reading

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4 years ago

It is a natural thing being created by God for a human being. On the other hand, shed tears for the death occur due to the missing of that person that is died, because he is no more

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4 years ago

I'm really very glad to reading this post. No one is permanent.We all have to taste death one day. Reading your article reminded me of death again:( We will die but our memories will remain. Thanks for sharing this article with us. Keep sharing more please:)

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I'm really very glad to reading this post. No one is permanent.We all have to taste death one day. Reading your article reminded me of death again:( We will die but our memories will remain. Thanks for sharing this article with us. Keep sharing more please:)

Thank you very much but my intention is not to make you depressed by reminding you of death. Rather, in life, it is to value others and share happiness.

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You are most welcome 😊 I didn't feel depressed reading your article. There must be a day to die and that is the ultimate truth. So we should keep this in mind and move forward:)

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4 years ago

Yes Of course. Always be happy, And keep others happy too

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4 years ago

Absolutely dear.

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4 years ago

Thanks for reading.

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4 years ago

Most welcome 😊

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This is what happens to my husband Uncle, his wife just passed away recently. The uncle now keep posting meeting his wife was the best thing ever happened to him, it would be better if he told his wife all of those when she was still alive.

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This is what happens to my husband Uncle, his wife just passed away recently. The uncle now keep posting meeting his wife was the best thing ever happened to him, it would be better if he told his wife all of those when she was still alive.

Why this happens to most people. Instead of making people happy, Find happiness in their memories.

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4 years ago

many people in this world don't value others life but if they are no more then they will be thinking of them which is very very wrong

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4 years ago

but it's true. and thanks for reading

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4 years ago

Man does value the living but the fact that someone who's dead is no longer around and available pains a lot

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4 years ago

Yes, you are right. Thanks for reading

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4 years ago

This is sas but that's really happening now. We cry so ard when someone you know died, but when they still alive you didn't even bother talking to them, spend time and have a get together. We should always value our time into the most matter.

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4 years ago

Oh yea, I'll really like to support you dear friend, because, men don't really appreciate what a fellow friend did but when he/she is gone that's when they'll know how much good has been done

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4 years ago

This is a heart touching article and very true in all aspect. We tend to belittle things we see around us daily rather than cherishing it.

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The advancement of technology nowadays made the distance from connecting to our actual family and friends. We are all busy surfing the net rather than have a nice chat with the family over dinner.

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That's right, people used to sit and talk after dinner. And now we are stuck on your mobile. We will definitely give attention and time to our families.

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4 years ago

Nice written

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Thanks

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We always try ignore some person. But when she/he die then we become upset. And that moment we feel that we was wrong. But it was so late for that thinking. So in my opinion ignoring is more heart our self. So we never should ignore some one.

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4 years ago

Yes Dear, and Thanks for reading

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4 years ago

💓

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4 years ago

Actually we love from our heart.That's why they give us hurt and break our heart.They know our weakness.

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4 years ago

Some time

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4 years ago

That's one of the great article I have ever seen in read.cash. so beautiful dear

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4 years ago

Another well written piece! it makes e wonder how we can change that. Then I realized its literally as easy as treasuring/valuing those around you in your life XD

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4 years ago

you are right dear, Thank you so much

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4 years ago

nice article keep it up

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4 years ago

Thanks.

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Thanks k

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4 years ago

Good information dear

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4 years ago

Thanks

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4 years ago

That it happening in the reality, we often not care to people who surrounds us while they are alive but we miss them and we show love when they were gone. We must show are love while they are still here

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That is happening in the reality, we often not care about people who surround us while they are alive but we miss them and we show love when they were gone. We must show are love while they are still here

You're right we do it with people but we don't understand why we do it. Thanks For reading my article. Dear

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4 years ago

We should always show to our loved ones how much we care n love them for tomorrow's not sure n life is too short

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We should always show to our loved ones how much we care n love them for tomorrow's not sure n life is too short Man is perhaps the most valuable thing in the world. are his own relationship and the happiness of those relationships. And if they leave, he feels empty

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4 years ago

Yes

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4 years ago

Thanks for reading. Dear

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4 years ago

Welcome

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4 years ago

Tech has brought most of us farther apart. I remember growing up before everyone had cell phones. We constantly had family reunions, family trips and get togethers for holiday's and birthdays.

Now days we have too many innovations a.k.a distractions that keep us separated as a family and gaming with friends or solo, watching Netflix or any other streaming services or cable/satellite/digital/analog tv.

Every one used to love there neighbors like they love themselves and now the majority of people only care about themselves.

So when someone dies that you neglected or was distant with you feel guilty knowing that you missed out on so much together and what you will miss in the future.

Losing a loved one is difficult especially if you are really close.

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4 years ago

Of course, you have described the reality of today's life. We have come a long way from our old lives in today's new world. And we are reluctantly moving away from our close relationships. We must remember the old traditions as well, as we have new ones.

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4 years ago

I do believe that covid has also hurt those traditions with social distancing but it'll be a couple of years before we see that effect

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4 years ago

Yes, it's true.

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4 years ago

good question dear.....we have to share love until we are alive

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4 years ago

Thanks, Love Is Life. Love as much as we can in our little life

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yes

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