Love Marriage Or Arrange Marriage

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3 years ago

Marriage is a very important human need and all religions give it the right to marry.

But most people think that we will marry the one we like and some of them think that we will marry the one that our parents like.

Similarly, some parents leave it for their children to marry as they wish and some parents decide for themselves that they will marry their children.

The benefits of love marriage and some issues

Love lives like a force inside a person and also gives him a feeling of happiness. Love is very important to human beings. When you love someone and someone loves you too, it becomes a love relation. And when a person promotes this love relationship, So he adds the person of his choice to his life, that is, marries him so that he can live with him all his life. If a person finds a truly loving life partner, what greater reward could there be for his life? By marrying for love, the two understand each other better. They are like two birds chirping together in a tree. They eat together and fly together to enjoy life.

Man marries for love, but it is also very important to maintain this marriage. Because if you can't handle it, your success will be a big failure. And in the eyes of other people, you will see everything of a failed man. If you bring your love into your life, under the pretext of your love, then all your life spend with love. Because true love is made by combining many things.

Your faith, trust, confidence, sacrifice, sense of responsibility all combined in love

When you marry your love you have to take care of all these things that along with love, you give him the rest of the facilities as well. When your mate needs trust, trust him or her, and don't let doubts get in the way. Because when you have given your life to Him, what greater faith can there be?

You must also be prepared to make every sacrifice for your life partner. Because there is nothing more precious in your life.

Your trust and faith build self-confidence in your life partner. His confidence in you grows as much as you give. And because of their trust and confidence, you treat each other as your best responsibility.

If you want to be alone for a while, your partner will not let you be alone. He will be with you like a shadow... just kidding

Arrange Marriage

You will need a lot of hard work for a marriage that now takes place without knowing each other without love. Because you made that marriage out of someone else's choice, you have to know a lot more about it. By the way, while living together, the habits and morals of each other are gradually assessed. But the personality will take some time to recognize the truth and then love it. And if you do not understand this person, then you will surely complain to your loved ones because of whom you have been included in your life. Because man gladly accepts his choice, but if there is a mistake in someone else's choice, He is immediately ready to complain. You have to think before you trust each other. Sacrificing for one another will also bring fear. Both of them will be waiting for the initiative to come from the other side, then I will respond. It is important to give each other time. So that a good reward may come to him. But not giving time will not achieve anything special.

I have always loved a love marriage

It feels great when the man wants someone and when someone wants him

In a love marriage, the man lived his life happily

The man had to do, his own choice

He can never blame anyone else

He maintains his relationship with complete honesty

His love grows over time

Whenever he thinks about the intensity of getting it

The joy of getting her he wants is always fresh

He always promises to be with her

For him, his relationship is the most precious

When we add someone to our life with all our desire, that love should never be allowed to diminish

You will all be told about your choice. Do you like the wedding of your love or arrange?. I'd love to know your thoughts.

Be happy yourself, keep others happy too

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Love marriage is far better than arrange marriage you can't even compare the two though i don't know the difference

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3 years ago

Of course love marriage 'coz if it's an arrange marriage then it's hard for you to work out the relationship

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3 years ago

Most people also face more problems with arrange marriage because there is no one who understands and knows them very well.

They can't think positively about their behavior and they don't like to know. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

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3 years ago

Yes and also I like to point out that it's very difficult to enter in that situation where you never know the personality of the person you are arranged with

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3 years ago

Interesting

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3 years ago

Nice article to make

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3 years ago

Wow .......... love marriage is the best two will really become not because they were forced to but because they want to

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3 years ago

Well in romance story I like arrange marriage because it feels exciting but in reality it's a bit scary if you don't know the person that you will marry. What if the person that your parents choose is just good at hiding his true colors. Like he just rich but a cheater. If the marriage didn't succeed you will just blame your parents. But if it's love marriage, you have a reason why you choose that person, and own decisions. If the marriage didn't get well then you don't need to blame the parents because that's your own decision to marry him. For me, marriage is not like a blind date that you are set up by somebody else. Marriage is sacred so you need to choose a man that you really love not because of pressure.

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3 years ago

I have seen a lot of people who get married to their parents' choice but keep blaming their parents for not being happy all their lives. Your thoughts seem me exactly the same, I prefer the same thing. That man should be responsible for his own decision. Instead of being chosen by others. And of course, parents should be preferred and happy that their children are happy all their lives, not that they are married to their parents' choice or their own choice. Thanks for reading, and sharing your thoughts. It makes me feel glad.

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3 years ago

I think marriage based on love is better than arranged marriage because if two people love each other, whatever challenge they may face they can face it together and those challenges will even make the bond stronger. While there are also succesful arranged marriage, but what if their love is not that strong to withstand the challenges that will comes along in their married life?

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3 years ago

When two people get married by liking each other, of course, they always support to stand with each other also in problems, but I am really amazed at people who add to their lives without understanding and liking each other and then stay happy. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Nice to Read

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3 years ago

The love marriage is better, at least you have known that person for sometime and can tolerate him/her

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3 years ago

Yes, it is much better. Thanks for reading my article.

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3 years ago

Interesting article dear. Thanks for sharing.

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3 years ago

Interesting article dear. Thanks for sharing.

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3 years ago

I will prefer arrange marriage because love before marriage isn’t accepted in my religion.

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3 years ago

Very fine

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3 years ago

I preferred to an arrange marriage i dont know why... Maybe because im torpe :πŸ˜‚

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3 years ago

Relly, People, whether they get married of their choice or the choice of their parents,

but play it happily and try to be the master of their own will without blaming anyone else. hope That's good for you because it's your choice. Thanks for reading my article and sharing your thoughts on the choice of marriage.

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3 years ago

I wouldn't say the other one is better than the other because it mostly depends from person to person. Sometimes, arranged marriage is more successful than love marriage, or vice-versa.

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3 years ago

This means that it is a matter of who is good and who is bad. Your parents may have made a very good decision for you too.

Of course, parents always want the best for their children but they don't know if that person is right or wrong and the children have to bear the loss. Instead, hold yourself accountable.

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3 years ago

Love marriage is I think better. You marry the person for love. While in arrange marriage although its exciting its reasons are uncertain. Maybe just on the drama or movies I watched but most of the reason is maarying for money.

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3 years ago

You mean, like, arrange marriages are all about money, not love. Sometimes it seems that people may take marriage as a business, That's why I always like love marriage because it involves your true feelings. You have no interest in money and profit. Love is everything to you. Thanks for reading my article.

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3 years ago

Maybe my belief about arrange marriage was influenced by watching dramas that's why. But I am not generally saying not arrange marriage was about money, I clarify. 😁

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3 years ago

Love is more than a just a feeling. Marrying someone you know beforehand is better in my opinion, because you know that person outside marriage or before marriage. Marriage is not a testing ground.

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3 years ago

yes, you are right. It is very difficult to know someone after marriage so it is better that you first understand it well and then incorporate it into your life. Thanks for reading my article. it is nice to read your thoughts.

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3 years ago

Three's nothing like marrying someone you truly love and understand

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3 years ago

Which three are you talking about? Please explain a little bit, maybe I will understand better.

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3 years ago

I'm not for an arranged marriage. You don't know the person. How without love? Maybe your natures are different, habits, interests. I'm for a love marriage.You don't like the same music, he doesn't like reading books, traveling ...

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3 years ago

Absolutely right because if the ideas and likes are not the same, life becomes very difficult. You can't run yourself too long according to anyone else. I think it becomes a compromise marriage. any way Thankyou for reading, It is great to see your ideas.

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3 years ago

This is an interesting subject, my dear.

Though the Arrange Marriage is exciting or full of surprises, in my opinion, I will still choose love marriage.

What if in an arranged marriage, we are the complete opposite of the one I'm going to marry? Although there are some cases that they work out, am I going to go risk that happiness of mine for someone else's happiness?

But even love marriages aren't really always happy. But at least you know the person beforehand. And there's already this feeling of love the reason you want to tie the knot.

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3 years ago

Thank you, Dear, It is true that we have to endure a lot in love marriage, but love also gives us the strength to endure. If we get angry with our loved one, he will celebrate us with great love and will value our anger. And most of the time I've seen, arrange married people. They don't care if their spouse is angry with them. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

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