Many people are so desperate to want to get married and would not even try to make enquiry of who they want to spend the rest of their lives with. Is he someone staying forever with? Will I be able to have Joy with her?
One of the purposes of going into marriage is to think if you would last with him or her. Apart from character or attitude, you still need to know more about each other which is the background you both came from. What do they practice in your lineage?
Do they guarantee peace in their lineage? Apart from that, there is enough reasons to go into prayer to commit your marriage into God's hand but failure to do this, you miss it all.
This story would open your eyes to things you don't know. This is a true life story I heard some years back and I still keep it in my heart that everyday, I decide I must not be in a hurry to marry him until I know who he is, his family and tradition.
There was a man who had a wife and two children. They were happily married and sent their children to the best school in town. This wife never knew his family, so after the first child, she kept disturbing her husband to let her know his family. All he would say was that "very soon, you will know them".
They got married because the lady became pregnant for him when they were dating. The lady wasn't ready to abort it and so they both agreed to be together as couple. After the first child, then came the second child.
When the man saw he was always troubled and disturbed of his wife wanting to know his family. He decided to take her and the children to his home town. They set out in his car this morning and were traveling. It took them long hours to get to the village. They finally got there at night and so the car couldn't go forward, he packed it somewhere and they started to trek to their own house.
As they were going, the wife noticed something. There were snakes moving on the ground and the man was bowing as respect to them. The wife furious and shocked to what is happening, she couldn't ask any other question but was afraid. She took her Children firmly with her and the man was leading the way.
The snakes didn't hurt them because of this man. Till they got to their own hut, the snakes were greeting each other. They greeted the parents who are now in human form and the wife was happy that she got to see her husband's family except for the father who was dead.
Everyone was around and the man introduced his wife and children to them and they were so happy that their son had married and even with children.
After everyone had eaten and the man had gone to sleep, the wife was still not getting it. So the husband's mother came to her and they both were talking. It was then the woman revealed themselves to her. She told her they were snakes and her husband turned into a human form to go out there to look for a wife as he was the next to be crowned king after his Dad's demise.
The wife couldn't believe her eyes. She attempted to run away but she couldn't. That was how she lived with them in the hut as the man became king after his father.
Do you think it is everyone you see out there that are real?. I said in my previous post about reincarnation. Some people already died and are still living among us but how do we know them?
Some are sent from the spirit realm for their mission to be accomplished.
There was a lady in my department and living in my hostel. She is a Christian and one day, her father in the Lord came to visit her and as she took the man round our school. She got home that day and the man started telling her what he saw in our school. Different People physically but spiritually, some are animals with big horns on their head.
Only the ones God opened their eyes to see the secret would know what is going on in this world. Some aren't real. They might be walking with their legs physically but they are actually walking with their heads spiritually. We only need God to open our eyes to see what is going on.
If this lady had prayed to God, perhaps she wouldn't even have gone into the relationship with the man but many of us are in a rush to go into that Relationship with him or her and not minding who he or she really is.
God ordained marriage between a man and a woman and it is mandatory we seek His face before entering into that contract. Ask God to reveal who he or she is to you and you will know the right one for you.
Not every man or woman is real. Some are sent from the devil and we must be careful not to fall victim.
Thanks for reading
|July 27, 2021|
Despite these things we see every day, some people still walk blindly and carelessly into marriage. It is a forever journey that must be planned properly and part of the planning involves traveling with a suitable partner through God plans for us.