Marriage Is Not A Calling But An Activity

Marrying should not make you feel frustrated, it can lead to heaven or hell it can also lead to a lengthy life leaving or premature death base on your level of SUBJECTIONS to pressure in it, so marriage is not a calling but an activity, so no matter what pressurised you,

It equally yoke with an unbeleiver with the mindset of changing him/her later, men/women are quitly unpredictable beings, so forget the promises of yeilding to your own FAITH later and after marriage, don't marry out of your faith, by mare promising vision, wealth, destiny, physical look and etc, if all your friends are married, age outgrowing or parental/peers group pressure,

marriage is a choice or an activity not a calling but rather salvation because non was created determinantly to, with or for marriage but rather marriage was made for man's usages so it's either you choose to do it or may still choose not to, after all eunuchs were not today's definition to the unmarried but separation and sanctification from ancient, marry your friend not the other,

your friend must not have been the one you paradventure be sleeping with, seen on the streets everyday, talk to, known the family members or get gifts from, and don't also marry an angel to your mindset because the day, their humanity is displayed you may be tempted to walk out of that marriage I mean never see man/woman to be INFALLIBLE if you are a fallible one, your friend is one who still holds on,

no matter your several FALLEN times, It's the one who understands and love you for your natural self yet ready to always contribute to the PERFECT YOU without dominating or bewitching, manipulating or disware you from the reality of your personality and natural endowment, it's still the one standing by your side holding hands stronger during the stormy waves, winter, thunderstorms and rainy days to life,

it's one who is still there to open your eyes to the seemingly cloudsome future and still encourages, giving hopes of getting to there yet becarefull cause these kind of people may only have been a destiny helper so don't he tempted to manipulate them into marrying you, but let your both marriage to EACH OTHER happens naturally.

Andre don't also dump them when arrived, some of these destiny HELPERS to you or WONDERFUL FRIENDS are like major prophet, they help you succeed but you later dump them. They stand afar to watch you Merry and dance to your deepest doom, yes most of them are instigators to either RISINGS and also FALLINGS.