A Paradigm Shift of my Work Experience in the Middle East! Enjoy the Process, not just the Journey

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In the Middle East, is it safe to work there especially if you're a woman?

What kind of culture does the country have? Is it absolute?

Would it be worth the time to work in an Arabian Peninsula without prior experience emerging into a diverse culture?


These were some of the questions I have ever asked myself since I passed the interview for that teaching job I have applied online bound for Doha. It was an experience of a lifetime. The struggle was real and I felt like giving up in 3 months! Not only the weather but mostly the people I have to deal with. The culture shock was an understatement.

The Desert Plan? Are You Kidding?

My friends were teasing me about my "desert" plan. We don't have the same road map right? Despite them being pessimistic, I chose to stay optimistic on the other hand.


What am I getting myself into?  I never had any idea what kind of people I will be dealing with.

My utmost determination to work overseas opted me submit my application and my CV online to those reputable schools I have thoroughly checked whether it's legit or not, yet God's plan was always the better than mine. Middle East opportunities are joke to my friends as it's not so cool working in the desert. It was lifeless if not dead. Wearing an Abaya and following an absolute law was crazy for them. NOT for me.

  • What about the FLIGHT?

As it was around Eid, our flight was quite exhausting knowing that we had three airports for a stopover.

The direct flight was out of the issue according to the staff in the agency due to the celebration of Eid in all of the GCCs. I thought it was okay but the timing was contradictory to what I was expecting. 

We reached Qatar around 11 pm on August 2, 2012, and the next day was of course our working day. Jet lag was out of the topic so forget about it. The moment we set foot in the Middle East, work was our only option. We never had the chance to rest even for a day just to recover from the long and tiring flight. 

  • How to maximize Day Off?

    Going out on a Thursday night was also very tiring because we felt like working 24/7! Worst when it's our Foundation Day in the school that we left around midnight with an hour travelled, reached our accommodation around 1 am, and needed to go back to school at 5 am! There was one time all of us apart from the driver was the only ones awake and he needed to give us a wake-up call as soon as we reached the school.

For three years a maximum of 4-5 hours slept were enough for me thus Friday would always be my lazing around, sleeping day! No wonder I weighed only 49.5 rounded off to 50 kg as I preferred to sleep than to eat. Or I was even doing half of both thus my colleagues would always describe me as petite if not "skinny!" Although some were able to manage going out to chill around, I loved the company of my pillows because it was my only time out. Maximizing my rest day so that by Sunday, I would be fully energized and start the week fresh.

  • Are You Determined Enough for your Dream?

Perhaps my strong will and determination helped me survived for three straight years without taking my 42 days holiday as my dream of buying that property and minivan were my goals at that time. Anyhow, survival to the fittest was what we fondly called with my best buddies at school. If you're the type of person who would give up right away, then, by all means, one month would be enough to stay!

The process of going there was a learning curve for me up until today. 

You see, when the agency from the metropolitan, an hour and a half flight from my city informed me that I needed to sign the documents before my flight to Doha and she explained they will only cater my visa application and other expenses bound for Qatar but NOT my stay in Manila. More or less I needed at least two weeks to process the authentication of my papers thus I have to stay there. There was no arrangement of my lodging from the agency itself hence opted to call my friend who has a beauty salon and asked whether I could stay for a couple of days.

To sum it up, I needed around 50, 000php all in all just to stay there and process my papers, my expenses, my share to my friend's place, etc!

The 50,000 php also include another medical exam that I needed to undergo which would be taken from my pocket. There were 5 of us who did the medical exam together likewise, fare going to and fro was also costly.

Where on earth am I going to get 50, 000 php?

I only have 5000 in my savings. I did not inform my parents as well because I know they won't allow me and won't support my plan abroad. So I sourced things out myself. I asked my friends and my relatives whether they could spare me an amount of money and had shown them a copy of my visa as proof that I got a job bound for Qatar hence I can assure to pay them in less than 6 months!

Unfortunately, all of them turned me down. At the back of my mind, two voices were telling me to GIVE UP and to GO ON! I always had sleepless nights thinking about giving up on my dream, yet I was never disheartened, my DETERMINATION was my constant companion at that time.

I CAN NOT and WON'T GIVE UP on my dream. That was my lifeboat."

My last resort was my mother's eldest sister whom I haven't spoken in years, and she just came to my mind, hoping that she would understand my situation. I took a trip to her place and on that day she was at work. Relieved I was given the chance to enter the school where she was teaching as I couldn't wait for the next day.

She was surprised to see me unexpectedly and at once I have shown her my visa. It seemed an angel heard my prayers that she said she will do her best to lend an amount of money with an interest. She has given me her blessing and a week after I spoke to her, she told me to come and take the amount necessary for my trip.


What's the Rationale?

Giving up is never an option to me. I have so many challenges overseas working with different people from all walks of life and respecting boundaries was an essential factor to have a harmonious relationship. In view hereof with being able to surpass that call of work abroad, I stay FOCUSED with my goal and never disheartened despite the challenges. It was an insane ride, rather than complaining, I diverted my thoughts into enjoying more the PROCESS, not just the Journey itself!

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There is nothing better than breaking paradigms and daring to dream by making... We are the ones who build our destiny...

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3 years ago

very well said, it is never an excuse not to dream higher regardless of those people who won't help us achieve it. I think we are just giving an excuse to ourselves the moment we acknowledge that we won't make it when in fact, the law of the universe would help us make our dreams turn into reality.

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3 years ago

The foundation of perseverance and courage is so strong. How I wish I was as brave as you are so I could go places too and start a new life not only for me but also to my family.

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3 years ago

Wow this is really impressive, I don't think I could have dealt with that lack of sleep! You have great perseverence!

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3 years ago

Even I could not imagine I managed to survive for three years knowing how 4-5 hours was more than enough to regain strength. Perhaps due to my determination to achieve what I wanted that I persevere indeed. Great day ahead.

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3 years ago

-Sissy you are a fighter..you are a role model..its not easy to live and work in another country but you overcome all the challenges! May God continue to bless you! Have a happy blessed Monday!🌷❤

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oh no this has been 6 days and I thought I have replied on this comment of yours sissy! Middle East was real battle of survival to the fittest. There was a time I had vertigo but with God's grace I managed to get up and worked the next day. There was no such thing as health or sick leave then. Jeez God has given me so much strength!

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3 years ago

Do not give up!!! Keep pressing forward.

Giving up should NEVER be an option. Congrats and keep soaring high.

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3 years ago

as long as we are breathing, life has to go on dear. Giving up is never an option no matter what.

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3 years ago

wow.. it takes a lot of money to get the job! i remember working in the UAE in dubai specifically, I had little sleep too and ended up having a health scare.. i went back to the Philippines after two years...

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