Chitchat Over Dinner

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As I was writing this, I was smiling from ear to ear. I just remember my daughter and I's conversation over dinner. Her father was not with us when we had our dinner because he was still at their office having a meeting with his boss regarding the upcoming projects that would be given to him. 

Okay, moving on with the said conversation, we were savoring the food that was in front of us, which was roasted chicken that I bought outside the subdivision. Like I was saying, we were having a feast when my daughter suddenly said, 

"Ma, Sabrina and her girlfriend broke up."

"Why, I thought they were going to last because Sab really loved her girlfriend, right?" I can see it on her Facebook post. Why? What happened? 

"Sabrina told us that she doesn't feel it anymore." It's like there's no more spark whenever she's with her girlfriend. " 

"That's sad, but somehow good also because she can now focus on her studies."

Yeah, that's what she also told us, that they both had no time for each other."

No anak, she just doesn't love her anymore because if she did, no matter how busy they were, she would not break up with her. The love isn't there anymore. That's why. 

 "How about Lyka and Alyssa?"

"Baw Mama, matibay pa sa matibay yun. Lagi lang yun nag-aaway pero hindi yun maghihiwalay."(Those two will never break up, even though they often fight.) 

Then she suddenly said,

This part will be tagalog, pardon me for those english readers but I will try to put english version, hehe. 

"Ako kaya Ma, when kaya makafeel na I am tired na, that I don't love him na. That there is no spark between us na. "

Then she looked at me and we both laugh!

"Why anak, do you not like someone nowadays? "

"I have someone that I like Ma, si ano yung kinuwento ko sayo. "

"Eh what's the problem, he does not like you?"

"No, it's not like that. Feeling ko nga like nya ako eh. "

"Eh anong problema? "

"I could not imagine myself being with him. Parang di ko feel. Nakicringe ako." She said that with action lol!

And then we both laugh again! Lol!

Then I told her na she can have a boyfriend naman na. Basta lang na dito sya sa bahay ligawan and di yung malaman laman ko na lang na may boyfriend na pala sya na hindi ko man lang nakita ni anino ng guy. And I also told her na doon nya malaman na marunong rumespeto ang guy at sincere sa kanya. Ayoko nun magkakaligawan lang thru chat and then sila na. Where's the sincerity on that? Although meron naman talaga na sincere but still, iba pa din yung nililigawan or inaakyat ng ligaw sa bahay.

Then I told her,

"Anak, giving you permission to have a boyfriend doesn't mean na okay na sa akin na magkaboyfriend ka. Mas gusto ko pa din na makapagtapos ka mina ng pag-aaral before ka magboyfriend."

"I know Ma, lagi mo yan sinasabi sa akin kaya di ko nakakalimutan."

"And isa pa anak, what if mabuntis ka ng di ka man lang nakatapos, gusto mo ba matulad sa kababata mo?"

"Of course not Mama, gusto ko maenjoy ang life muna noh."

"Tama yan, saka tandaan mo to kapag ikaw nabuntis ng wala sa oras, di kita tutulungan sa pag-aalaga ng anak mo. Ginusto mo yan kaya matuto ka."

Then she laugh, lol! Kaloka, tinawanan lang ako!

"It will not happen Mama, like I always told you, ako yung magiging yayamanin na Tita/pinsan na tutulong sa mga pamangkin/pinsan ko."

"Good."

And we ended the conversation with a good laugh. ..

That's what I like about my daughter. Very open sya sa akin sa pagsasabi ng mga bagay bagay sa life nya. Ganoon lagi kasi sinasabi ko sa kanya. Na wag mahiya magsabi ng nararamdaman nya kasi di lang ako isang ina, kaibigan din ako.....

And so we both had a full stomach and a happy heart. That conversation made our meal so tasty.

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Date Published: June 4, 2022

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Very comfortable mag open up sayo yung daughter mo sis which is good..hindi nya maiisip na paglihiman ka...

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2 years ago

Pasalamat ako sis at talagang di sya naglilihim sa akin at di nahihiya mag open up ng saloobin nya.. We made sure kasi na sa bawat problema sa bahay,her opinion matters.

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2 years ago

Goods yun sis..maganda yung naging samahan nyo...

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2 years ago

Salamat sis..

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2 years ago

i am so glad you are open for this topic to your daughter. it means you are genuine care for her future relationship. a child needs guidance about this matter.

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2 years ago

Thansk Dennis

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2 years ago

When a good parents raise there children we can expect also a good attitude of them. And yes, I agree parents are the first molder of child's attitude.

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2 years ago

Thank you for saying that Natsu

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2 years ago

Hayst..sana ganyan mindset ni sister ko..kaya ayun, nabuntis na hndi pa grad. Tsk..kaya lage ko pinapa alalahanan yung two girls na hndi gumaya sa ate nla. Mganda rin yan te open kyo sa isat isa bout sa topic na yan..

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2 years ago

Di pa ba nanganak un kapatid mo Jane?

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2 years ago

Maganda iyan sis ang closeness ninyo ng anak ko. Sana ganun din kami paglaki ng mga kids ko. Huwag sana sila magbago ng closeness sa akin. Masya kase ang ganitong relationship sis.

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2 years ago

Nasa atin mga mother yun sis, kung paano natin palakihin mga anak natin..

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2 years ago

Kya nga sissy

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2 years ago

Hala ang ganda po ng relationship nyo with your daughter. Sobrang open, halatang napalaki nyo po na maging totoo. Sana all hahaha

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2 years ago

Di ko kasi naranasan yan noong bata pa ako kaya tinuruan ko sya na maging open sa akin..

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2 years ago

I love your closeness to your daughter talaga madams. And I like how open she is to you. I can't do that to my mom coz you know, nakakahiya ba. So mas better if ako lang nakakaalam . Sana di sya magbago, sana until she get old and she has problems that shes facing alone sana isipin pa rin nyang you are always there for her 🥳😽🤩🤩🤩

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2 years ago

Alam mo madam, lagi ko sinasabi sa kanya, anuman ang problemang kaharapin nya or anuman ang nagawa nya, I won't judge her, i won't nag.. Iintindihin ko sya kasi mother nya ako kaya wag sya matakot magsabi sa akin..

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2 years ago

That'd nice to know madam na you have an open relationship with your anakshie. She feels comfortable sharing things with you.

Ako kase when I was adulting, especially when I went to college, kina lolo ako nag stay so yung mga crucial na years na yon sa early adulthood, di ko na share kina mama kaya di ako ma open sa kanila. Even when I was working as CSR in Cebu and teacher in Davao.

Ngayon lang kami ngka close nong naging tambay na ako. At naging open-minded na rin. Hehe

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2 years ago

Same tayo madam, since bata pa pa lang ako eh nagjiwalay na parents ko, sa lola ako lumaki so talagang wala ako mapagsabihan ng nararamdaman ko. Yun yung naging guide ko sa pagpapalaki ng anak ko. I don't want her to feel the same when I was growing up.

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2 years ago

Nga pala, di na masyado nagpaparamdam ang bot madam no. 😬

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2 years ago

True madam, bakit kaya ang hina na ng kita sa noise, pati pa dito, aguy

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2 years ago

This is the kind of relationship ng mother & daughter na gusto ko balang araw kapag magkakaanak rin ako ate. Though okay naman kami ni Mama pero hindi ako madalas mag-open. Hihi pero lagi kong dala-dala mga bilin niya, kagaya ng bilin mo sa anak mo ate. And tama yan, ako rin dito ako sa bahay niligawan ng boyfriend ko ate lalo puro lalaki kapatid ko. Bawal talaga mabalitaan na nagpapaligaw sa labas ng bahay. 😁

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2 years ago

Try to open up to your Mama beh. Alam mo kaligayahan na namin mga nanay yun nag oopen up sa amin mga anak namin kasi we feel na you needed us pa...

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2 years ago

You have a good daughter because not all children share their deepest personality traits with their parents and she has an open attitude about it.

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2 years ago

Thank you,

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2 years ago

It's a beautiful mother-daughter relationship. I was happy while reading

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2 years ago

Thanks CryptoMan

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2 years ago

☺☺☺

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2 years ago

Sarap ng close kayo ng anak mo ano madam

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2 years ago

Oo Madam, isa sa advantage ng maagang nagkaanak, hehe..I mean para na lang kami magkapatid..

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2 years ago

Ang ganda ng ganyang conversation sa mother and daughter relationship. For sure, tawa ka talaga ng tawa ate. Haha. Ang light ng pagbabasa ko eh.

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2 years ago

Ay naku sinabi mo pa kaya napadami kain naming dalawa eh hahahaha

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2 years ago