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Believe, and you will grow!

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 To be a champ, you need to believe in yourself even if no one will- Sugar Ray Robinson.

If you ask any successful person, they will tell you that believing in yourself is essential in achieving your goals and overall lifestyle.

You have no idea how much a change you will see in your life when you think and converse about what you want and plan how you will get there; it makes you happy, makes your life easier, and gives you total control.

Some people don't know how to believe in their abilities, and so many things may cause this, but one thing I noticed caused this is schools.

In school, we are taught that if we aren't in the top 1% of students, then we are garbage, and so many children have gotten used to this, and their minds are set that they are completely useless and there is no point in having confidence in their abilities.

These teachings are not the kind of thing we should be putting into children's minds; instead, we should build their self-confidence to believe in their ability to create their future.

If you destroy a child's self-confidence, you are ultimately ruining the future of both the child and society as we know it because children are the future, and we should never hurt them.

Believing in yourself is not a complicated process.

It would be best to focus on positive thoughts and emotions that will enlighten you on how to believe in yourself, and the best way to think positively is by having an optimistic mindset.

In every situation, instead of sulking and losing confidence in yourself every time things don't go as planned, look at things as experiences that happened because you needed to learn something from them, and use them to make your life better.

An optimistic mindset will always build self-confidence because you will always find good opportunities even when others see insufficient opportunities.

A pessimistic mindset will only tear down your confidence and esteem, which will prevent you from pursuing any dream you set to achieve due to lack of faith, fear, or your unwillingness to take risks. 

I am sure that a negative mindset is the most influential enemy that any human has, and it is vital to defeating it anytime it surfaces.

To defeat a negative mindset and emotions, you need to take responsibility for your life, including your actions, choices, reactions, and situations, accomplished by having good values.

Good values in life will determine your beliefs about the world around you and also yourself.

When you have positive values such as compassion, love, and generosity, you will find it easier to believe that people of this world genuinely deserve these values, and you will treat them accordingly.

Believing in yourself and choosing to be a good person will make your life more positive, and ultimately you will be more successful.

Let us try something first; who in your life do you perceive as a solid and confident person? It would help if you now took note of what they do and say their choices and the company they keep.

The principle of causality is based on cause and effect, which means that if you act in the same way as these healthy, confident people with positive attitudes, you will soon feel the way, see the same results, and enjoy the same experiences they do.

One of the hardest things to do is believe that you are an extraordinary individual and not the same as the person next to you.

Learn to believe in yourself, and incorporate your awareness into your attitude and personality; no one like you has unique contributions that we need to share with the world.

We all have our various skills, talents, and abilities, which makes us unique, and even if two people have a good voice, it doesn't mean they can sing the same way.

One significant key to having confidence is saying it, which means repeating it repeatedly to yourself until you start believing it; you can say it every morning or every night; what matters is that you say it.

You should have the courage to accept yourself for who you are even if you don't like how you are, or if you think you want to be someone else, consider everything, and you will find out you are worthy of having the kind of life you want.

Your beliefs determine your expectations.

When you have positive values, you will believe in yourself and become a good person.

If you believe yourself to be a good person, indeed, good things will happen to you.

Learn to believe in your abilities because you are the only person who needs to validate yourself; when you fail to do this, you will have no confidence.


Thank you for reading!

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Indeed, I will believe in myself and be a good person, very nice article you have God bless

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2 months ago

It always comes to us first, if we believe in ourselves then others will follow. The more confident we are to finish something even it is impossible will be possible. Look at a bigger picture, find the positive in a world full of negativity.

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2 months ago

yep.. only you can build that self confidence and you cannot rely on others with this one.

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2 months ago

True, no matter how hard the problem is , we should believe in our self we can do it. Always positive.

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2 months ago

Self believe is vital. We have to believe in yourself first before others can believe in us. We are all unique, with our good qualities and flaws. The sooner we love and appreciate who we are, the better.

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Even Twins are different, we all have something that makes us unique, and I believe we need to share them with the world. But the problem is most people don't have the confidence to share their talents or abilities.

So many people in this world have so many ideas that could change the world, but they prefer staying in the shadows to avoid criticism.

Thank you for dropping by McRonald, nice having you here.

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2 months ago

You are welcome. I appreciate you.

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2 months ago

We should really be our number one fan. No other person can believe on us if we don't believe in ourselves first. Believing in ourselves has this kind of our aura or vibe that would radiate and attract other people to believe in us too.

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2 months ago

Yeah, if you don't believe in yourself, who will believe in you? We should always love ourselves first before anyone can love us.

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2 months ago

That's why i love Muhammed Alli , his self confidence is second to known. He wins fight even before it begins.

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2 months ago

I am strong agree with you. Yes believe is weapon against all myth. When you believe in yourself that time no one can stop you. That time mericals happen. All celebrities who made world record only thing was common in them because they don't listen to anyone. Just followed their dream and achieved them.

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2 months ago

Self love and belief is the one sure fuel that doesn't burn off on time. People might stop believing in you but it takes a lot of giving up to stop believing in one's self

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2 months ago

Self confidence is really a life hack tool. I've had people say that you could sell anything if you attach confidence to it and make people believe in you. Trying once and failing can reduce one's self confidence but you just have yo keep trying and beat that voice that wants to slow you down.

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2 months ago

When the situation I am facing is near defeat I suddenly ask questions to myself, say bad words to myself and even more fo it i down to myself. There was a rime that I realized i was wrong. I realized that when myself is facing a hard rime then i myself should help me to overcome. I should be the one to first put strength and courage to grow as an individual. Therefore if we believe that we can do it then we can because we believe. I like your post friend.

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Wow, I am glad you overcame that; it is essential to know that if we don't believe in ourselves first, then no one will. Thank you for dropping by.

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2 months ago

It is very important for us to believe in ourselves and to encourage also our children to build their self confidence, so when they grow up, they could be stable and successful persons.

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2 months ago

Exactly dear, children are the backbone of society, that is why we need to build them up the right way.

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2 months ago

This is what is law of attraction is all about and it is actually true.. because I started to believe in and now am getting things or at least on the way to achieve goals.. amazing post

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2 months ago

I am glad it worked for you dear, keep on believing, and you will be able to do what you set your mind to.

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2 months ago

You have to Believe and trust your self, for you to achieve your success in the future.

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2 months ago

There are times i have questioned my abilities, but for the most part of my life, i have believed in myself

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It is normal to question yourself, but it is essential to believe that you can do anything.

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