"Words That I Mostly Hear: Sounds Like Being Judgement"

Sometimes in our lives we hear judgments, abusive words that a person should not say just because they are disgusted or angry.

We humans, have a tendency to be prone to judge whatever we see. There are times when it is not in what we say, but in our minds yes. When they ask, what do we think of them or maybe what is our point of view, don't our answers match their questions? It's not, right?

We have things that we often say in our minds but not to ourselves, things that we often hide from ourselves because we think it would be rude when said.

Allow me to share my experience whenever that I'm in a public places.

I have a habit of not listening and believing in others, I have a habit of not caring about the environment and not paying attention to what is going on around me. I often have my own world, when I get out of the house I don't lose the headset and max volume of music on my phone.

That is often wherever I am, even when I have someone with me I often just sidestepped, when my companions are noisy I often move away to be alone and quiet.

Is it weird? No, I just don't want to lose my mood because of the noise of whoever is with me.

Words That I Get To Hear EVERYWHERE.

"Are you having fun of being alone? It's not that great tho."

• It's fun when you are alone, Almost everything is quiet around you, you have nothing to think about and you have no problems. I'm often lonely when I'm out of the house, because inside the house they are often noisy, I don't have time to think about myself and I don't have time to think about things.

It's my escapes so that somehow everything would be light on my brain and mind, because when my environment is noisy I can't think correctly.

"You're pretty and cute but chubby, go on a diet so that anyone can like you."

• Are you not aware that chubby is the new sexy? I hear this a lot whenever I'm on outside. Welp, I'm a chubby person but atleast I am proud of it. I mean, I'm not ashamed to be in this figure. I'm a chubby-type person since I was a kid, and I can't do anything about this since it was inborn.

You already said that I was pretty and cute so you admitted it that I'm still cute even If I'm chubby 😂.

"Why did you switch to Office Administration? Are you planning to be a secretary in you whole life?"

• Hey, you're not the one who chose this major. I'm happy to be with this major, in fact learning steno is fun. It's actually fun, but I'm having a headache understanding their looks. I mean, what's wrong with this course? Is it invalid to be in this course?.

There's nothing wrong with this, you just being too judgemental because of what you think about being in a Office administration course.

"Do you think someone will love you? You deserved to be cheated"

• I'm happy and contended to the relationship that I have right now. Actually it's out of my idea to meet her out of nowhere, I just accidentally meet her at the groupchat and that's when I called her "Baby" 🤣. It's all started with a "Baby" word 🤣

This word is from my 2nd ex, like the heck how dare you to judge me and my relationship? As you can see I'm happy and contented, both of us was already contented into relationships that we are right now. I still remember this word clearly 🤣.

"You should learn how to cook, not everyone will cooked for you"

• I will not deny this, I don't know how to cook because I'm not used to it. But I'm still learning to do it if someone is willing to guide me, but atleast I can do all of the house choirs than nothing 🤣

I told my father before that I want to learn how to cook but he disagree, he's a ex-chef and he's the only one who always cooking inside the house. He also makes delicious experimental foods but sometimes a gross one, maybe he's a short tempered person but I love them even though they hate me 🤣

"You're not eating too much but still you're chubby"

• Eh? I'm not eating too much yes, But i can't do anything about this. I'm already chubby since I was born, it was already inborn. I'm trying to diet and it eas successful and sometimes it was not. Maybe it's depend on my metabolism already.

I'm chubby and I'm proud of it, is there anything wrong for being a chubby?

"Hey, I saw you going at the Obgyne, how many months are you pregnant?"

• Oh wait, I'm not pregnant and the reason why I'm going there is to have my checkup about my monthly period. I'm irregular and it's super bad for my health, so ask first about the reason why I'm going there before asking me if how many months was my tummy okay?

Okay. I'm pregnant for almost 20years, coming 21 years next year. I was wondering if it is a boy, or a girl.

Hi everyone! So I was wondering why there are people who loves looking outside than innerside. What I mean is, what's the point by saying their flaws if you have your own flaws too?

What's the point of guarding someone's life and watching over their lives if you have your own life?

I'm so pissed of right now because of that kind of people 😂, it's not my thing to correct someone, to guard them and to watch someone's life because I already had mine 😂 but yeah. I mostly hear them everywhere when I'm on the outside 🤣

Author's Note:

I'm not against with that attitude of yours, but my problem is that's already too much. Spreading fake news and spreading false alarm about someone life, what's the benefits of that? If I can only get paid by watching someone's life I'll do that everyday 🤣

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By:OfficialGamboaLikeUs