Day 28: Loving Someone

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June 13, 2022

Loving is someone's fear. I'm not talking about loving a family member or a friend. I'm about loving someone romantically. This may be due to the history of their love life. They may have been through traumatic experiences that lead them to develop trust issues and doubt about the power of love. Some people are products of failed relationships, failed marriages and the list goes on.

This just goes to show that loving someone isn't just about fairytales. For other people, it is their biggest fear. They have built strong and sturdy walls to protect themselves, barely allowing anyone to disturb their long-protected peace. Some of them grew bitter in life and love that they cringe whenever they see and witness a winning love story. Some of them even curse heaven and predict the fall of that winning relationship.

Our perceptions about loving someone vary. To some, it is a wonderful feeling-one which sways you like you are in a cloud-9. Loving someone is easy peasy for them. For others, it is tiring and sacrificial. Loving someone costs them a lot. But they still hold on and clinging on to that little hope.

Loving someone isn't all beautiful. Even God sacrificed for the sake of love. Sacrifice in the name of love is evidence that love dominates and makes the world go round just like money. It is essential. We can't fathom how a battered way stays under one roof with a drunkard husband. We can't comprehend how a woman wanted to get married to her boyfriend who's a cancer patient. Love is indescribable. Loving someone isn't something we can explain. It just happens and sometimes we don't notice it.

Loving someone feels like heaven especially if you fell in love with the right person in the right time of your life. We just have to wait for the right person and the right timing. Then, the sacrifices caused by loving would all be worth it. Sometimes, we just have to be willing to fall without parachutes. Sometimes, we need to stop working to make higher walls. Loving entails showing your vulnerable side. Loving entails accepting that we need someone to be with us. To add some color and hues in our already colorful life.

How about you? What's your take on loving someone?

Thanks for reading. Until the next read!

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Love moves in mysterious ways 🤣

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2 years ago

Being in love with someone feels good when we are also loved back. Rather than it being a one sided affair

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2 years ago

I agree. That is why we have to choose someone who loves us too.

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2 years ago

Love at times just happen, like me I keep asking myself so your seriously dating this person

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2 years ago

Hahaha super relatable.

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2 years ago

Loving someone is one of the best thing that we can ever do. But the worst decision if we choose the wrong person hihi.

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2 years ago

So choose wisely. Hahaha

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2 years ago

I am bitter when it comes to love because I often see my friends cry because of it. I promised that I won't fall in love and be stupid like them pero kinain ko lang din yung sinabi ko hahaha. Ngayon, I am with someone. Not a perfect relationship pero kung mahal mo kasi yung tao, parehas kayong mag-aadjust to fix the problems

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2 years ago

Hahahah Hindi talaga dapat magsalita ng tapos.

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2 years ago

hahaha lesson learned

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2 years ago

Sometimes when you love someone very much, you have to go through every heartache, every every pain and every tear. Because in the end it's not just how you love but how much you hold on. Love is full of sacrifices talaga sis.

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2 years ago

And we have to make sure our sacrifices are worth it because it is for the right person.

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2 years ago

Everything has risks including falling in love and being in love. It's always a rollercoaster ride. Nothing is perfect.

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2 years ago

Ah huh. Well said.

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2 years ago

Being inspired and being able to love someone will boost your confident and can strengthen your purpose in life.. Just like my parents and grandparents, they said that when they loved their partners , it felt like that the missing part in their soul has been filled.

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2 years ago

Wow. That's one of the many advantages of love.

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2 years ago

I hope God puts in your way someone who really loves you and you can feel it in every moment in every action he does for you. I am impressed that you are already on day 28

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2 years ago

Thank you so much Carolina!

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2 years ago

I actually don't think about it haha I believe I'll just know if this person is really what God gave to me hehe

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2 years ago

Awwww. That is a good point too.

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2 years ago

Loving someone is sacrificial. When you notice someone trying to love within their comfort then you would know they are not being genuine. Loving someone would cost you something. A lot of people don't understand this.

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2 years ago

Yeahhh. True love requires us to love beyond our comfort zones. Love that point Ola!

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2 years ago

I'm glad you love it. Thanks, my friend.

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2 years ago

I learned that loving someone comes easily when you are with the right person. I had relationships before my Fiancé and they failed because it wasn't TRUE love. My take on loving someone is that every moment with them makes the world a better place to be in.

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2 years ago

Wow. Great to hear that. Pain and sacrifices are really worth it if you're doing it for the right one.

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2 years ago

The base of love is trust and compromise.. even though it hurts, sometimes it is inevitable

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2 years ago

Ah huh. We have to make sure we suffer for what's worth it.

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2 years ago

People sometimes ask, "Why did you love that person?" but in reality, you never know why you love someone. You have no explanation other than a feeling for them.

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2 years ago

Yessss. Hindi mo ma pipinpoint ano ang exact reason

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2 years ago

If you love someone, you're ready to sacrifice and to be hurt.

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2 years ago

True!

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2 years ago

True mamsh. Love sometimes just happened that we didn't notice. It's only at the end we realized it that we feel different already.

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2 years ago

Ah huh.

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2 years ago

Loving someone is very perplexing to think; I do love someone, but I don't know why; it feels like love was designed to be abstract. But nowadays, if I will again fall in love with anybody else, I will love her for loving me.

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2 years ago

Awwww. That's sweet.

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