I am not a sexist, I think women should be handled with love (I do have a girlfriend btw). Yesterday I was reading an article who suffers more during a break up, I was surprised because I always had come up with that conclusion at least especially when I faced my first major breakup.
I won`t bore you with my boring love life but as you all guessed by now, its MEN! Back to my first breakup story, it took me about 3 months getting over it, recalling the memories at that time, it was hell, and I know how hell feels like. The days were blurry, the nights were darker and longer, I did not want to do anything, and the feeling was just like that of existential angst, feeling a lot of pain you can’t justify.
The research I read said that the main reason men suffer more during breakup is that they treat their wives as the pillar of their life. 38% of females on the survey said that they would choose their husbands as confidants when they had issues compared to 79% of males who choose their wives as confidants.
The solution is not that simple but I think our ancestors had it right, a male should have lots of male friends, he can trust and confide in, it’s even written in the Bible, Quran etc., get some male friends for God’s sake!! At least those you can talk to, let your girlfriend do other things so that when she will leave (she has a 50% chance of leaving if you live in United States) you will have solid ground to stand on.
I know male friendships are pretty weird because of the vulgarity that comes with it, the teasing that comes with it and the shoving but it’s totally worth it. It will make you physically and emotionally stronger.
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