Apology

First of all I want to apologize for the manner in which I wrote my last article. I might have been too emotional and wrote too much. Also I was being too explicit. The article was strongly worded and there were somethings I should have written. I was writing the article from a heavy heart and with a lot of pain in my chest. What happened yesterday in my country really shook me and the rest of the country. I pray that God will grant the families of the deceased the strength to bear this immense loss.

We should learn to say sorry anytime we've done something wrong. It is the right thing to do. Apology is important for you to maintain any relationship. When you are wrong you admit it and not allow your ego get in the way of mending your friendship or relationship. Apologizing is a great way of making a relationship to continue to exist and survive the test of time. Not everyone apologies and they think that it doesn't affect them when infact it does.

Today I want to talk about Apology and why it is important for you to apologize whenever you are wrong. Firstly it shows that you are a reasonable person. It shows that you're understandable and ready to listen. To learn and relearn new things. No one is perfect and the fact that you understand this shows that you actually care and want to improve on yourself.

Apologizing memes fences. If you've had a disagreement with your better half and you were in the wrong, the right thing for you to do is to apologize. No matter how long the fight is once you come to the fact that you caused it and that you're ready to move on and do better, you should apologize. This way the both of you can be on the same page and finally be in agreement. Nobody likes to fight expect you are a sick person. It happens once in a while and some times we can't stop it but no matter what we should try to reconcile.

Part of reconciling is recognizing your fault and apologizing. There is nothing wrong in apologizing. It doesn't make you look weak or less of a man. Not apologizing doesn't make you look as if you have balls rather it makes you look arrogant and proud and nobody likes a proud person. In one of my many articles I wrote about Pride, you can go and check it out for you to better understand what I mean.

Pride goes before a fall and not apologizing leads to a broken relationship. Arrogance and pride does not pay and it has never paid anyone before. It doesn't end well at all. There are times where you weren't even the one that caused to fight but you need to be 'the bigger person' and try to fix things between the two of you. The whole essence of today's article is for us to keep our relationships going and not to let it fall apart but if you are in a toxic relationship leave.

All in all do not be a terrible person. Do some good in this world and be a good person. Being a good person actually pays even though you've been told otherwise.