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You say yes, so never!

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Written by   147
1 month ago

Hello beautiful people!

I hope you all are doing fine amidst of the shortcomings and uncertainties we may feel day by day. Always remember that a positive life is a happy life. ✨


I've been seeing a lot of stories on Facebook and Instagram about relationships getting broken. It feels like it is so easy to end it with the person you spend years of your life with. I mean, is it really that easy and why?

I tried to look for at least 3 Reasons Why Relationships Fail (And How to Avoid Them). And it turned out to be; Non Acceptance, Poor communication, and Lack of Trust which I agreed as well. And with that, I tried to look as well for ways to avoid them. (These are my own opinion, you may agree and you may not.)

Never talk about the ex or past. We can't deny that some came from a past relationship before meeting the true love of their life. And accept that that person has been a part of their life too. But it doesn't give you the right to talk about them always and make comparisons. Never talk about them as much as you both could. Both of you may seem okay talking about it but for sure there will be something in your head that you are not and its not healthy. Past has taught you a lot and that's great, but always make sure that you are on the present and that's what you need to have your focus with.

Never make them feel restricted. Saying yes to your partner with what ever they wanted you to do is okay, as long as you agreed on it whole heartedly. However, sometimes what they wanted is against your will. For example; not wearing such kind of clothing, not allowing you to go with friends, and other things that you both may not agreed with. And with that, good communication is the best way to talk about what you both need to agree. And one more thing, instead of being to strict in what ever you wanted to do, you can instead support each other as long as it is both good for you two.

Never doubt on them. You say yes, so you should never doubt them. People will cheat if they really want to. Even if you'll be with them 24/7 they will still find a way to do so. The moment you say yes, means you trust your partner. And that is what you should do. It is okay to ask once in a while if how was the love going, but do not ask them almost day by day. They may feel that you are not satisfied with what you show them and that they will get to question themselves with such. Be confident enough. If ever they will cheat, it's not your lost anymore, it's there. They lost your trust.

I'm not a love guru or what, these are actually just based on what I saw and witness from the experiences of my friends. And truly they happen in real life. Love is indeed a gamble that you will never know whether you win or lose. But it is always a nice feeling to experience. Always remember as well a line from the song Till I Met You, "Love is not a game that children plays and no more than a game."


That's all for today beautiful people. If you have any thoughts about this, feel free to leave it in the comment section below. Let's interact. Stay safe always! Xoxo ✨☺️

- MissJo 💜

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Your article is spot on Jo. Definitely trust is the main thing and most important in a relationship. I trusted as much as I could. I never questioned anything. It is up to the other party to accept your trust and be loyal to you and honest or play with your heart.

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1 month ago

Will you still trust your partner even though he's showing negative signs? 😅

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1 month ago

Kaya communication is the key. 😆

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1 month ago

Very true. Many relationship end up with very low reasons also, lack of communication, understanding, trust and so on. I agree with your own opinion, a good partner will supposed to be the one to support and comfort their partner. Nice post po

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1 month ago

Thank you Lovelyfaith. ☺️ Communication is the key talaga ii.

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1 month ago

Aweee. The power of strong relationship are those aspect of love you've stated MsJo. Nothing else, nothing more God should be the center of everything💓

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1 month ago

True mamsh!

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1 month ago

Dati, ayaw ng partner ko na magsuot ako ng mga short shorts. But I explained to him na dito ako mas kumportable. I'm glad na naunawaan naman niya. Maganda talaga na may good communication ang bawat isa.

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1 month ago

Sana all ganyan, Yzza. Kasi in the first place, yan na yung nakasanayan mo. Pwede naman mag adjust pero dapat both of you talaga agree. Kaya communication is the key e.

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1 month ago

Dili nato malikayan na Mamsh. Ako, personally, I've doubted MGD many times, even before we came into our status right now. Samut na kung naa siya'y nabuhat nga kaduda-duda na jud.

Pero ang sabi nga, walang problema na hindi maayos sa magandang usapan. Better talaga kung pakikinggan niyonang side nang isa't-isa. :)

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1 month ago

Tru gyud mamsh. Communication is the key gyud ay.

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1 month ago

Gani mamsh.. Shudi mag-ikri-ikri kay arun ma-solve dayon ang problema..

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1 month ago

Ahhh love guru yarn? Saving this for future references😅

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1 month ago

No no no hahahaha

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1 month ago

This is true. In relationships both sides deserves to be respected. But some just doesn’t really work because the lack of understanding to each other

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1 month ago

That's so true. How I wish those in relationship will get a chance to realize such.

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1 month ago

It is all too easy for people just to walk away. Anything good is worth fighting for wee singer 😉

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1 month ago

Yes. Hopefully they got to realize that.

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1 month ago

Trust and communication are key in any type of relationship. If this fails, it is likely that everything will end.

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1 month ago

Communication is the key

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User's avatar Yen
1 month ago

Well said, ate

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1 month ago

Seriously ano, ang daming nasisirang relasyon dahil sa tatlo na yan pero isama na din natin ang immaturity. Yong pareho silang nagtitikisan imbes na mag usap at iayos ang lahat, aigooi.

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1 month ago

Ay trueeeeee, need ba nila pag tiki tiki yata ate para tumanda nga maayos hahahaa

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1 month ago

engun ani diay ni mahigugma no? kay daghan na kaayo wisdom about love chorrrrrr

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1 month ago

Hahahahahahahahaha based on my friends experiences mommy

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1 month ago

hmmmmmm

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1 month ago

Also talking about a best friend of a different gender in front of one's spouse always can lead to the end of a relationship.

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1 month ago

Yes. Yes. I agree about this. That's why we need to think twice before we talk as we do not know it may affect our partner.

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1 month ago

I've kept all those words in my list. I will try not to cope up with these words. Because i've my fiancee.

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1 month ago

Hi there friend. Stay strong with your fiancee. God bless you both!

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1 month ago

If one want a healthy and happy relationship then they must believe in each other, they must need to give time but there are some people no matter what how much time you give to them they will leave. Moving forward from an unhealthy relationship is not too easy, it need courage and strong heart. In my opinion "Perfect Relationship" is a myth, because no one is perfect ,we all have flaws, we all have drawbacks. Sometimes we all need to compromise, but if you feel that you are losing yourself, your Self-Dignity by compromising then I will please leave from that realationship.

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1 month ago

Hi Erum. Thank you for reading. I totally agree with you on this one. But hopefully we can get to find the love we truly want.

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1 month ago

Thank you for this sis. I need this so much. Is just that it is really so hart to get back the trust once it's broken. But we're really trying our best to work on this.

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1 month ago

Trust is really difficult to earn once broken. Kaya as much as possible ingatan sana nila na wag masira and tayo din wag manira. Pero mahirap nga minsan. Di natin alam mangyayari. Hays!

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1 month ago

I just wrote what happened to a friend. I had not seen her for some time and after 30 years she told me her story. I tell it here as a novel story.

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1 month ago

Looking forward on that one. ☺️

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