Hello beautiful people!
I hope you all are doing fine amidst of the shortcomings and uncertainties we may feel day by day. Always remember that a positive life is a happy life. ✨
I've been seeing a lot of stories on Facebook and Instagram about relationships getting broken. It feels like it is so easy to end it with the person you spend years of your life with. I mean, is it really that easy and why?
I tried to look for at least 3 Reasons Why Relationships Fail (And How to Avoid Them). And it turned out to be; Non Acceptance, Poor communication, and Lack of Trust which I agreed as well. And with that, I tried to look as well for ways to avoid them. (These are my own opinion, you may agree and you may not.)
Never talk about the ex or past. We can't deny that some came from a past relationship before meeting the true love of their life. And accept that that person has been a part of their life too. But it doesn't give you the right to talk about them always and make comparisons. Never talk about them as much as you both could. Both of you may seem okay talking about it but for sure there will be something in your head that you are not and its not healthy. Past has taught you a lot and that's great, but always make sure that you are on the present and that's what you need to have your focus with.
Never make them feel restricted. Saying yes to your partner with what ever they wanted you to do is okay, as long as you agreed on it whole heartedly. However, sometimes what they wanted is against your will. For example; not wearing such kind of clothing, not allowing you to go with friends, and other things that you both may not agreed with. And with that, good communication is the best way to talk about what you both need to agree. And one more thing, instead of being to strict in what ever you wanted to do, you can instead support each other as long as it is both good for you two.
Never doubt on them. You say yes, so you should never doubt them. People will cheat if they really want to. Even if you'll be with them 24/7 they will still find a way to do so. The moment you say yes, means you trust your partner. And that is what you should do. It is okay to ask once in a while if how was the love going, but do not ask them almost day by day. They may feel that you are not satisfied with what you show them and that they will get to question themselves with such. Be confident enough. If ever they will cheat, it's not your lost anymore, it's there. They lost your trust.
I'm not a love guru or what, these are actually just based on what I saw and witness from the experiences of my friends. And truly they happen in real life. Love is indeed a gamble that you will never know whether you win or lose. But it is always a nice feeling to experience. Always remember as well a line from the song Till I Met You, "Love is not a game that children plays and no more than a game."
That's all for today beautiful people. If you have any thoughts about this, feel free to leave it in the comment section below. Let's interact. Stay safe always! Xoxo ✨☺️
- MissJo 💜
Your article is spot on Jo. Definitely trust is the main thing and most important in a relationship. I trusted as much as I could. I never questioned anything. It is up to the other party to accept your trust and be loyal to you and honest or play with your heart.