Losing someone affects me.

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3 years ago

Hello beautiful people!

I hope you all are doing fine amidst of the shortcomings and uncertainties we may feel day by day. Always remember that a positive life is a happy life. ✨


By the way, I just woke up this hour and it feels like my day will not be complete if I will not post anything here. So I scan my gallery hoping I might find some screenshots of thoughts I saved from my social media. I love taking screenshots everyone I'll came across some good thoughts. And yes, I found this one. This is from sarcastic_us on instagram.

For me, maturity does not always come from age. It came from experiences somehow. I am 23 and I am not sure if I am mature enough for this age. So let's see.

When someone's last seen doesn't affect you. I guess this is about getting seen-zoned on messenger or any socmed where you can exchange messages with someone. Personally, being the person to be last seen doesn't really affect me at all. Who know's the person you are talking with came across with unexpected errand to do so and really doesn't have a time to replied back? It is a matter of setting your mind that things may happen in a blink of an eye, I guess. And some what if's can help as well.

When being blocked doesn't affect you. I am not sure if someone blocked me already. But if they did, I guess that will be fine. Maybe I am no help for them or they see some toxic traits from me that can ruin their mood and its totally fine. You always have the choice to protect your inner peace. And I did that as well. My socmed, my rules. And I do not just block people for no reason.

When losing someone doesn't affect you. Am I considered not matured if I'll say it affects me if I lose someone? For me, we can change this one instead to, accepting the fact that people come and go. Because every person that came to my life, I always give them importance. I treat them well. I always give the best I can to show them I love them for real. So losing them, will really affect me. But accepting the fact that people do come and go and those who stays are the one that matters will be called maturity.

When you realize that your parent's smile matters a lot to you. Who among here doesn't realized this yet? Our parent's smile is the most beautiful curve we could ever see. And nothing can change that fact. Seeing them happy makes my heart the happiest.

Its when we start living happily alone. It is always no man is an island, and I believe on this. But being alone doesn't mean you are lonely. Some people prefer being alone too. And it just feels so bizarre that you have to think of yourself only. I find peace everytime I woke up and prepare my own food, do chores alone, and yes the time I spent with myself is like reaching the universe. And being alone doesn't mean you are not going to talk with others and not see others anymore, it is just after the long tiring day you still have yourself to be with and you'll still feel happy.


That's all for today beautiful people. If you have any thoughts about this, feel free to leave it in the comment section below. Let's interact. Stay safe always! Xoxo ✨☺️

- MissJo πŸ’œ

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I think my wee singer is just perfect the way she is, no matter how mature or immature you think you are. We are all different and I don't judge myself to others, screw that, be you, whatever it is.

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3 years ago

OMG Josepennnnnnn, immature talaga ako mandin haha lalo na to this When someone's last seen doesn't affect you." Pag may nang ganyan sakin tapos nag pm sya sakin after nya mang seen, esiseen ko din shmya. Gumaganti ako, sa isip ko hahh feel what it's likw to be seen zoned. I hate that kasi, dapat sakin lagi ang huling seen wahahaga see talk about immaturity tsk.

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Hahahaha same here, Ate! πŸ˜†

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Bwahahahaha kahit sa kanino yan femfem agahahaha

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3 years ago

Hahahahahahaha ganyan din ako dati eh. Kainis kaya nga talaga ate. And same gusto ko ako yung last mangsi seen, talk about pride. 🀣 Pero ngayon e keri onna. Bahala sila sa buhay nila. 🀣

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Hahahaha, parang natatapakan ang pride ko kasi talaga wahahaha

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3 years ago

Hahahahahahaha mag surf na tayo soon. Ang corny ko. 🀣🀣🀣

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3 years ago

Lahat Naman siguro affected if they loose someone.

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3 years ago

All I can say is masasabi ko lang hhaha na I'm immature. πŸ˜† Sorry na, sa first statement lang naman ii. πŸ₯ΊπŸ‘‰πŸ‘ˆ haha.

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3 years ago

Ses! Mas matured ka pa nga sakin ii.

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3 years ago

True ba ses? Hindi naman ii.

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3 years ago

Yes. True na true. 100%.

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3 years ago

Just like you I can't address myself as a mature person. To be honest, some years ago I wanted to gain others attention, love but now I understood they doesn't even think about me so why am I worrying about their love or care? Now I love myself and I devoted all my love to my family members, they are the one who never try to knock me down. Now anyone's last seen, hate, block list do not bother me. Maturity has nothing to do with our age, it comes automatically whenever we need it.

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3 years ago

That is very well said Erum. We really need to love ourselve and love the person that close to us. We cannot please all and it will not be our lost if they do not feel the same. We should always know our worth.

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3 years ago

I agree to that, losing someone will always affect us specially if this someone means alot to us that's a normal reaction. On the other hand, holding on to that person is not healthy. So yes, maturity comes when we finally accepted the fact that everyone are not meant to stay.

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3 years ago

That is true. We cannot just say it doesn't affect us. It really does, but sometimes we just don't show it.

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3 years ago

It takes a huge effect or pull from the mind and mentality to reason such way... Indeed you later emphasis on literally everything, to be matured we must not allow the little things affect us, more like people’s last seen and all others...

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3 years ago

Thank you King. And maturity really doesn't matter on age, it is on how we perceive things and react on it.

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3 years ago

When you're financially, mentally and emotionally independent, that's maturity to me.

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3 years ago

Well said sis. Because of these three, I can say I am not fully matured. Haha.

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3 years ago

good idea

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3 years ago

While i agree with some points, i totally disagree wirh some, like the one where losing someone doesn't affect you. That's not maturity, it's called being cold

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3 years ago

That is true. Because losing someone will really affect us one way or another.

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