I guess I am doing better.

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Hello beautiful people!

I hope you all are doing fine amidst of the shortcomings and uncertainties we may feel day by day. Always remember that a positive life is a happy life. ✨

While scrolling on instagram, I came across with this thoughts shared by Michelle Dy on her story. She just saw it as well on Facebook and decided to share it in her instagram.

This is the screenshot I took, while scrolling on my ig.

As you can see, it is about the 10 signs that you are doing better than you think you are. In life, we sometimes do not realize or just do not give importance about the things we made. Maybe because it doesn't mean that much or just because we are still aiming for more. Well, there is nothing wrong in aiming for more as it is a good mindset that we are looking for a better result, but there is a need for us to see that before we can get more we need to start from a bit. And such thing is a process.

With this said, I'll try to see if I am doing better compared to what I am before.

YOU PAID THE BILLS THIS MONTH.

I am proud to say, I am and I have been. For two years now since I started working on my own, I have been paying it myself. At first I thought it was easy as I am receiving salary every month, but it turned to be not. It is not easy, but it is fulfilling. Paying bills on time and sometimes before the deadline is way much fulfilling. It is such an achievement.

YOU'RE EMPLOYED.

Yes. For two years now. Not aligned with the profession I taken in college but a decent work that I can be able to provide my needs and the needs of my family. Such a success for me.

YOU'RE NOT WORRIED ABOUT YOUR NEXT MEAL.

Thank God, I am not anymore. Way back during my teenage years, we really got to experience to worry about our next meal. We do not have that such life that we all dreaming but God is so good that we still made it today, such experiences made me to strive hard and at least make sure to eat three meals a day. And until now, I am not worrying about it. Not only me, but my family as well.

YOU HAVE ONE OR TWO CLOSE FRIENDS.

I do. And I am blessed to have them in life. Way back I used to want to have more friends just for me to fit in. But realizations will really come that it is not the quantity, but the quality of the people around you.

YOU'RE NOT THE SAME PERSON YOU WERE A YEAR AGO.

Well said. I used to compare myself to anybody. I used to be insecure. I used to have a low self esteem. But having a change as a constant thing, I changed for good. I learned to love myself, and be contented on what I have. No need for comparison. We have different time table. The right time will come. The best is yet to come.

YOU'VE GOT GOALS.

I have. A lot. Not just for me, but for my family. And its what keeps me from going. Setting goals will make us strive harder. Step by step I am turning these goals into reality. Slowly. Slow progress is still a progress. No rush.

YOU EXPERIENCED REAL HARDSHIPS.

How hard these hardships are? Well, we all have different hardships in life and for sure we all have experienced such and it was not easy. But what matters is how we handled and how we overcome such. When things are not working how we wanted it to be, just embrace it. Do not run from it. Surpass it instead.

YOU DON'T LET PRIDE GET IN THE WAY OF ASKING FOR HELP.

Truly. Asking for help does not mean you are weak. It means that you are strong enough to seek for it. There are things we cannot do alone. We need someone to help us do it. And there's nothing wrong about it. I have been asking for help, but I make sure to return the favour.

YOU KNOW THERE'S MORE TO LIFE THAN MATERIAL POSSESSIONS.

I used to be so materialistic as I thought it is what makes me happy. Well it does, but it will not last. For me, being forgiving, having a peace of mind, not stressing too much and enjoying life is what matters the most. Hardships may come, but overcoming it is priceless.

YOU'VE CHOSEN HAPPINESS ON YOUR TERMS.

I always do. To be happy is all we wanted. We all know sadness and negativities are always around trying to test us. But how we deal on it is what matters the most. And choosing happiness is the best choice we can do, ever. Do not allow toxic people come to your life. Build a wall and open doors only to those who has the same goal as yours, and that is to be happy.

We all have different timetable in life. If you think, you are still not better compared before and you are still the same as you are, do not worry, no pressure. Life works at its best when you least expect it. Just make out of the best in life everyday. Be a good person.

That's all for today beautiful people. I hope you enjoyed reading my article for today. If you have any thoughts and take away about this piece, feel free to leave it in the comment section below. Let's interact. Stay safe always! Xoxo ✨☺️

- MissJo πŸ’œ

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Annyeong 😁 best thing you have learnt .... Is quality over quantity, that applies not just to friends ! I like this update of you.

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Annyeong uncle. πŸ’— Yes, it is really always the quality that we should look for. Thank you for reading my life update, uncle. πŸ€—

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3 years ago

Yay MissJo! Gosh .. sorry late read! Yung first two super laking bagay. I remember nung nag simula sina tatay mag divide ng mga bills samin, maiyak ako eh. Pero kinaya sa gabay ni God. :D

You are doing better! Yey!

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Hi Pichi Pichi. Naaa its okay, kasi alam ko mga busy din tayo. Dami ko pa din pending. 😬

Yung bills talaga masakit e. Pero lumalaban talaga. Kaya natin to. And true, with God's guidanc everything will work out well.

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Nun ko naintindihan kung bakit yun tito ko laging pinapatay lahat ng ilaw at halos magdabog nung nag sstay pa ko sa kanya hahaha...

Parang gusto ko din tanggalin sa saksak lahat ng bagay nun eh hahahah

Aja! Congrats din nga pala!

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Hahahaha grabe yung magdadabog ha? Pero sakin din ano, yung mga pinagdawnihan, malay ko ba na gagamitin pa, edi tinapon ko. Sobrang galit ng tita ko. 🀦🀣 Pag ikaw talaga nga bubudget lahat titipirin e. Ngayon, relate na. 🀣

Yey! Congrats din Pichi Pichi. Satin. πŸ’—

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You are doing so well, my friend! There are times that I pay our bills from my allowance of course haha because I'm still a stupidyante, you know. Skl🀣 Basta yon, iba man yung work mo sa profession mo at least you have a job and I know someday you'll become a good teacher. I'm hoping and rooting for your success in the field you want! I wish you all the best, my friend! And yeah, slow progress is still progress. β™₯

I am happy that you are not insecure anymore and you always choose your happiness.

Yes, you don't need to compare yourself to others as we have different paths and different time table.

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Thank you my friend. πŸ’— Achievement na din yan na makapag pay ng bills kahit no work ka pa, di kaya madali. So I'm proud of you. Thank you for believing na mapapagpatuloy ko yung dream career ko. Sana talaga. 🀞

Actually wala na talaga ako masabi e. Basta thank youuu and, ewan ko sayo. You know that. πŸ˜‰πŸ€£

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You're welcome, my friend! Thanks to you too. Oo tiwala lang! πŸ’ͺ

Okay lang, friend. Ewan ko din sayo! 😝β™₯

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You are doing great πŸ‘ And I think being materialistic is not a bad thing in these Pandemic days.

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Thank you. Yes, that is true somehow.

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That's okay if we seek help from others because we can't live in this world without them.. Grats for being employedm. Hirap maging unemployed sa panahon ngayon.

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Thank you, Ate. Totoo talaga, hirap ng panahon ngayon

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I did not pay the bill and I am unemployed. Lol. Saon nalang mam. But I am not worried on my next meal since mom is there. Haha! Bata pa jod ko lajo pag agian

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Puhon John. Mabuhat ra sad ni nimo. πŸ’—

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I did not pay the bill and I am unemployed. Lol. Saon nalang mam

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Puhon, John.

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Hello. I liked your post. We should do that mental exercise every so often. That will allow us to reevaluate our life. As you say, sometimes we don't give importance to the things we did, that's where some people miss out on being happy, because they are lacking purpose in life. Greetings.

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Hi there. Greetings! πŸ’— True enough to be said. Sometimes we really need to exert some effort for our mental health. And yes, we really need to give importance to the little things in life as they are the one that keeps us great.

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we sometimes get pre occupied with the less important when we know that we have done our best... its a matter of shifting focus... great post thanks for sharing miss jo

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Thank youuu. πŸ’—

Tinuod gyud. We never realized nga we are doing great na diay, pero di lang ta kahibaw kay mas giuna nato ang less important.

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Korek miss

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Oh Gosh, out of 10 4 lang ang meron ako. Yong 1, 2, 4, 7, 8 and 9? Zero, Nil, Nada. But even if ganon, I think mas better talaga ang buhay ko ngayon. Di nalang ako palamunin sa bahay, may pinagkakakitaan na ako. Tho, di ako nakakapag bigay buwan buwan, atleast pa rin. Pag naka ipon ako ng malaki baka magawa ko na rin yan. Aguyy, ang hirap kaso maging adult ee, tsk.

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Ateeee, okay lang yan kahit di mo pa to napeperfect. Soon, soon ikaw naman. And at least totoo na di ka palamunin, kasi mas nakakahiya yon. Ang hirap talaga maging adult. Hahaha kala ko non ang dali lang, excited pako lumaki. Tas ngayon gusto ko nalang maging bata ulit. 🀦🀣 Pero yun nga, importante ate happy tayo. πŸ’—

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YOU HAVE ONE OR TWO CLOSE FRIENDS.

I loved it, yeah we don't need a lot of friends but we do need a real friend indeed. People tend and look comfortable with social media and they have been quietly thinking that more likes and hearts make them special and ignores that real one for fame. 7:43PM__8.7.21

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Ay truth talaga. Okay lang madaming friends basta good influence sila. Who you are with defines who you are kasi talaga e.

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First of all I like how you turned a social media post into an article. It proves, that we can write about anything and sometimes the topic or ideas are laid in front of us.

I am glad that you have changed for good. All that you mentioned are very important to enjoy life. Also I am happy that you manage to make ends meet. It is difficult for many people especually in the situation we are in right now all over the world.

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Hi Peter. Yes, I actually trying to write another but what's in my draft before this one seems to not give any sense. So instead of pushing myself to limit, I decided to scroll on my socmed. Good thing I came across with this one.

I am also glad seeing that I am doing better. I just do not realized it as I am more focus on what's not important. Thank you for reading Peter. πŸ’—

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You are welcome. :)

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The list made me smile because it's definitely true

With all th points listed, I can proudly say that I have ticked 99% right

And I cannot boast that it is out of my own abilities that I have been able to do them, but the grace of the Almighty

It's nice to see that you too have come a long way too

We really have to appreciate ourselves more..... We should be proud of ourselves

Thanks for reminding me that I am doing better ❀️❀️πŸ₯°

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Hi Edy. Thank you for reading! πŸ’— And good to hear that you are doing better. I guess we all have, it is just that we did not realize it as we are more focus on another thing.

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We're doing better than we think we are. Maka happy uy, karun pako ka realize ani bii haha.

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Hahaha lagi mii ay. We just do not realize it kay focus ta kaayo sa laing butang.

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Ayaw lage palabi focus sa lain na butang haha loveyouu bii

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After seeing the list I thought, is I do these highlighted points. The answer is yes, I feel happy that I'm doing better like you . I really like your topic. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ

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Hi Forieya. πŸ’— Thank you for reading. Good thing you are doing better as well. πŸ€—

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I love how the list highlights the important things that we usually do not notice nor pay attention to. This list just showed me that when we pay attention to what we can be grateful of or things that we are able to do, we realize just how much we have instead of always feeling like something is missing or feeling discontentment.

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Hi Zehra. Thank you reading. πŸ’— Truly, everything that we have should be felt with gratitude. We need to contented on what we have and work on for what we do not have.

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Yass! Thank you for this reminder. Oftentimes, we compare our progress to others progress and too often we got disappointed in ourselves for not doing as great as others. But we need to be reminded from time to time that eventhough we're not taking a great leap like others, we still have to celebrate our slow progress and give ourselves a pat on the back for doing better than before.

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Thank you for reading Ly. πŸ’— Good to hear that you were reminded not to compare ourselves with others. We are great in our own little way.

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You are welcome☺️

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