A soft hearted one with anger issue on the side *"beep beep beep..."* the alarm disrupt my deep slumber, my hands automatically roamed the table beside me just to try to get my phone and stop that annoying sound, hearing that means another day to go again to my never ending of flipping pages in this never ending book of life... `Let me first flexed to all of you these kind humans who helps and guide me through my journey here in this platform and also to all my readers, sponsors, visitors, friends and commentators, a deep gratitude too all of you` So let's go deep down to the topic here... Ever meet an **individuals that always shows up agitated, techy, impatient, and always get easily irritated even on simple things, like they always road to an indignant act** on things that even in the first place is not a big deal... Because if you never run into that one, then feel free to utter a hello to me, I'm a soft hearted person with an anger issue... *I'm not that kind of person who's always act patience and if I already exceeded that quite short limit of being patient, then I advice that you should be stay away for a mean while because I can't handle my self when that happens, something always triggers my anger towards things and people, even just the buzzing of alarm every morning makes me just want to smack my phone haha, that's why I restrain myself from buying digital alarm clocks because I might just destroy them because of my behavior haha.*
*Everything that makes me annoyed in a short time I always forbearance myself from showing my anger issues specially to those people who surrounds me,* *Even my family when I'm in a simple misunderstanding I have this attitude to raised the tone of my voice and I just can't listen and don't want to accept any explanation on them, it just getting settled when I already tried to compose myself and to feel at ease then I'm ready to listen and accept my mistakes and deal with so that misunderstanding will get fixed.*
*Even with I'm in our circle, even my closest one makes me annoyed if they already did something that could precipitate my anger and just burst out and say words that I shouldn't say in the first place,* *Even in the times like that, my soft hearted part is never been gone there are just times that it will just concealed by my anger, and to be admitted I can't restrain myself from you saying painful things to people, sometimes I'm trying to count numbers in my mind to calm myself but it's not really effective sometimes and the* ***feeling just needed to be released like thunders.***
***You see everyone, every humans have different limits on every situation that we are dealing off, some of us could really just explode in a matter of a short period of time, and some can handle it for how longer they can, but we all have thag certain limits that if it exceeded then all feelings and actions are needed to be released to something or someone, ever heard of the stories in wattpads that when the lead man is so angry they smack or punch the wall?, that's really one of their ways to restrain themselves from hurting the people they love even those people caused so much pain to them.*** Images sources: https://www.thehealthy.com/mental-health/anger-management/ https://healthysenseofself.com/anger-issues-block-hysos/amp/ https://www.pinterest.com/pin/426153183496275165/ lean image source: https://www.pinterest.com/pin/658229301784295281/ That's it for now guys, have a nice day to all, enjoy and stay hydrated, this Sunday should be a rest day for everyone, rest and have time for yourself and also to bond with your family and friends, Happy sunday to all enjoy!
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Di ako nagreraise ng voice teh, kada magreraise ako ng voice naiiyak ako, diko keri 🤣
Ayyy sobrang hirap po nyan anger turn into tears.
You need anger management therapy. It sounds like a lie, but if you don't say it, I don't believe it. I think you are very kind hehehehe.
Hehez I'm kind towards people when I'm in the mood and that kindness really deserve by those people.
Yes that is observable when someone is angry talking at and suddenly they talk the truth behind you and sometimes they are pointing out your weaknesses. For me it's good to remember those words she/he talking cause that would be your basis of your strength to look forward in life.
This is actually me, honestly. When I get mad I prefer to tell them to shut-up in calm manner then demand to leave or I am the one who will out in the sphere. I cant really control myself when I am that 100% Pissed. People who know me already knew the signs hehe.
That's it we don't really want that side of ourselves when we really reach our limits
Im kind've patience in other stuff and know how to hold my temper.. But not in teaching kids 🤣🤣. That's why I can't be a teacher 🤣🤣
Haha I'm fond of kids but teaching them really test my patience too haha
Honestly, I cannot hold my temper as always. There are times that I just want to burst out all my anger and and it turns out that I am not just hurting others but I also hurt myself.
That's a serious one when you tend to hurt yourself.
Kaya talaga di ko makakalimutan ang sinasabi ng iba saken pag galit sila kase alam ko yun ang matagal na nilang gustong sabihin di lang nila magawa
Opo talagang dun lalabas yung painful truths na matagal na gustong sabihin
I can hold my temper for a long time and release it tru silent crying, but sometimes the monster in me can't conceal thru tears alone and need to explode and shows how monstrous it is.
Yeah it's hard to hide it when it starting eating us up
I agree so much my friend. On my part, I am the kind of person who's patient enough, but when I'm at the peak of anger, I'll explode like a bomb. So I make sure that I will not reach that point.
Say Hello to me too as I'm actually this types of human being who can't hold her hot temper or anger for a long time. I don't know why a simple thing can make me irritated easily but now I'm trying to get rid of this worst habit of mine because this habit is really making me more insecure and pushing me backward from my dear and near ones.
Hello my dear hehez, that's right even it's hard to restrain ourself from this behavior we should just try for the sake of ourself and people around us.
I am also that kind of person. When I am anger I can't control myself and my voice getting high.
Yeah bursting out is our way to relieve stress and anger
I'm a soft hearted person too, but whenever I'm totally mad, I can't say much words even though my mind's wants me to say everything that makes me angry as my tears fall on its own.😅 at the end I only looked like a kid who didn't get what she wants , crying like a river 😅
It's hard when that anger turns into tears, you just refrain yourself from saying words and just cry your frustration hehe,
We react differently to situations and anger. I am a cry baby even when angry. I just cry. Sometimes I want to yell but I just couldn't.
Yes there are different ways to cope with anger and crying is the one for you, hehez it's okay to let your anger became tears.
I am soft-hearted person too kahit lalaki ako mabilis ako masaktan at umiyak pero tatahimik lang ako
Opo I believe mas talagang nakakadala yung iyak jung lalaki kesa sa babae.