Not like "like charges"...

Howdy guys! I know the topic of this article may sound weird but do not get confused just yet cos I'll definitely explain what I have in mind.

If you're into science, then it would be easy to understand what "like charges" are but if you're not into sciences at all, then don't fret cos you'll get it.

Sciences tells us that there are two type of charges basically, positive and negative.

The positive charge is represented by a plus (+) sign as we all know while the negative is represented by a minus (-) sign.

Positive charges cannot attract positive charges to themselves. There will be a repulsion between them. This is the same for negative charges as well, they also repel each other.

The case is reverse when a positive charge and a negative charge is put together, they attract. There is a connection between them and an obvious share of electrical activity.

However, this same rule should not apply to humans and their association with others. I say this because only people with the same characteristics are compatible. This rule works for marriage because a man and a woman who decides to get married have found that they have things in common, share same ideology and are headed in the same direction and so, such a marriage will work.

A marriage that has both parties with different views on life is surely headed for doom in no time because it's clear that they will not last.

Attraction and compatibility is not only needed in marriage but in every facet of our human lives if we want to have peace and growth effortlessly. A medical doctor cannot finish med school and start to work as an engineer. He does a job that aligns with his medical field because that's what he can do with ease. It's only in my country Nigeria that you see people who studied Education working in a Bank. I don't know if this happens where you are but it's not supposed to be so.

People who want to go far in life should surround themselves with people who have similar dreams and aspirations as them, so that they can all be a source of inspiration to each other and help each other during hard times.

It would be very unwise for a student who wants to graduate with a first class degree to be friends with his fellow students who don't want to graduate at all, that are considering flying out of the country and abandoning their education or because they are just very dull. Either way, the end will be doom because evil communications we know corrupt good manners.

That is not to say that such a student will not be able to get his degree with those kind of friends, but the chances of possibility are so low and almost non existent and even though it's existent, there will be alot of struggling and effort required. Why pick the hard way when there is an easy way?

We've heard so many stories of how friends influenced friends to start smoking, clubbing, and every other bad thing you can think of. This happened because those people didn't make the right friends nor keep the right company they should. Remember, friendship is just more that laughing together and having small talks.

Friends should help each other achieve their goals and be better. So check yourself today, if you have friends who do not have same ideas as you, change them and if you know you're not being a good friend to others, change as well.

Author's Epilogue

I am mostly called mummy amongst my friends because I always nag them like parents do. This is cos I want them to be the better version of themselves and that's how they help me out too.

True friendship is all about growth and changes. Check yours today and see if the changes are positive or not and then fix it.

Thanks for reading guys...

Mhizutty the voice of truth 🎵🎶🎵