Lesson To Be Learnt..

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Happy Sunday people! How did your day go? I suppose it went well. Don't get me wrong, I care about your response but I'll just assume it went well cos that's how I expect it to go, well!

Went home with a cracked voice today after all the talking and singing in church. I'm grateful that it allowed me to sing till the end of the service before giving up. This would be the first Sunday in a long time that I really sang so much and from my depth of heart. That doesn't mean I've not been singing from my heart, today was just different.

Since today is Sunday, I'm going to share with you what went down in my church and I'm positive that there's a lesson to learn.

After the usual order of events, it became time to hear the word of God from the pastor. He prayed and then started off by saying that youths of these days are too much involved with their phones.

He complained about a certain girl who came to church early before service started and was on her phone and even while the service had already kick started with Sunday school classes before the main service, aunty was still on her phone without paying attention to the word of God being learnt. So our pastor then said that he had no choice but to confiscate her phone.

After the story, he then told parents that they should try to control their kids on how much time they spend with their phones. I thought it was all over until I started to hear the voices of parents especially the mothers screaming that the children do not listen even when they are told. My mom too was not left out, as she was pointing at me from where she sat, telling me to hear what the pastor has said.

Another mother actually pointed at her son and made sure the pastor saw him and the boy felt accused and walked up to his mother, trying to calm her down and instead he got it worse.

I read an article @Aimure wrote about how his phone refused to come on and it was then he decided to have some family time.

Imagine his phone was still working, I'm positive that he would not think about having any time for his family and quite frankly majority of us do this same thing too, especially when we have read.cash and tiktok and FPL to attend to😁.

Some of us are now big boys and girls who our parents can no longer control, hence we do not listen to them when they complain that we spend too much time on the phone.

I walked up to the boy whose mother had pointed out after the close of church and was trying to let him know that his mother did that because she loves him and he replied that it was a weird way of showing the love especially when he was being accused wrongly.

Parents do not actually care what you're doing with your phone, whether you're reading the bible, a book or simply trying to read.cash, all they know is that you're with your phone too often and it bothers them.

My mother never thinks I'm doing anything else with my phone other than WhatsApp. What's funny is that I rarely WhatsApp. People who have my contact will testify that I hardly reply to messages and it's a habit that I'm trying to break. Even if I tell my mom this, she doesn't care because all she wants to see is me without my phone.

I guess what I'm trying to draw out is that we should make time for the people around us. Let's remember to have fun with our families not only during the times when we are bored or out of data or when our phones are broken.

Most people spend their time talking to virtual friends they haven't met and abandon the physical ones at home with them. Remember, your family is the first and will be the last resort you'll always have and of course I mean a good family.

Have a change of heart today..

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Author's Epilogue

I had a wonderful time today. Like I mentioned in my last article, my niece came around and it's been a lively time with her. She has literally been a bestie to me all day and now that she's back home cos tomorrow is a school day, I miss her already.

Photo from my gallery...

Above is a pic of her..she's cute right?

Thanks for reading today and a happy Sunday to you πŸ€—

Mhizutty the voice of truth 🎡🎢🎡

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I feel people can be guided on the use of their phones and the major thing I would ask anyone is, "What are you making use of the phone for?" For me, my phone is my work station but for some, it's a fun spot but if what you are getting is not giving you value, it's time to re-evaluate.

Phones has caused a lot of issues between couples and communication ceased. I don't like phone being used in Church either. Respect should be added.

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This is one of the problems my parent and I have, they keep yelling at me because of my constant use of it. When I decide to let go of my phone and they call me on my phone while they are out and didn't know, they will still complain again, and for that I am confused πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜…. We the youth truly are so much in debited to our phone and it's wrong truly.

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2 years ago

I don't blame our parents at all cos if we check if, we are wrong.

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True, most of us are being controlled by our phones and we see it as the only thing that we need to survive, we sometimes forget about how living in the real world feels like, cause we spend too much time in the digital world.

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2 years ago

It's time we focus on the real world cos it's important too.

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My mother used to be like that in the past but I made her understand that I was using my phone to make money and she should be happy that I am pressing phone too much πŸ˜‚ but she still advise me to reduce the way I use phone at night because staring at screen too much can cause eye strain, and she's right

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2 years ago

I have never seen a parent who doesn't complain about their kids and phone usage.

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2 years ago

You know what, this is a reminder for me too.. my husband and I promised not to use the mobile bible app but use an actual bible during service

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2 years ago

My pastor makes sure to tell us all to raise up our hard copy bibles in church.

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2 years ago

That's great.. with technology, some pastors do not even brign one.. but a tablet

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Thank you for sharing your day Mhiz and reminding us to give time to the people we care about. Your niece is adorable, she looks she's having a fun time with you :)

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2 years ago

Awnnnnn....I'm blushing on behalf of her😊😊

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this happens a lot in my area when worship at church starts there are some people who are still busy with their cellphones and even often see notifications that come this must be prevented so that the service runs holy without any interference from other elements.

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You'll even see some running up and down, answering phone calls.

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2 years ago

Awww, she's really cute dear and you're right. Honestly almost everyone is guilty of this, they don't have time for anyone except maybe their phone's battery is dead or if their phone has issues. Lol, I'm guilty as charged, I'll make an effort in changing even tough it's quite hard.

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2 years ago

The fact that you're willing to make the effort is a good start for me.

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Hmmn my sunday yesterday went well , glad to know that yours too.

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Hehehe. But really, press phone inside the church?? Na wa o

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Oh my! What happened in your church sure escalated quickly. Haha I wouldn't wanna be in that boy's shoes. I mean, he must've felt awkward. I will feel awkward. Lol Oh and yes, your niece sure is cute.

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2 years ago

The thing nor tire you?? Some people are just like that.im glad we both agree she's cute. The boy did feel bad but he got over it..

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Lol... I'm sure he did.

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