All About Anger
As much as anger is something deadly and can mess up a person's mind and make them react badly or should I say worse than they could ever react normally, it's an expression that the world cannot do away with.
Yes nobody likes being angry nor do they like it when people are angry at them, but it has helped in so many ways that friendship would have lost or lagged behind. Mind you, I'm not saying that friendship vis ineffective,vim only saying that there are situations where bitter truths need to be said that friendship has to think twice but anger won't.
It may be harsh, brutal, sometimes evil, but it gets things done fast and commands results. It does heat up the atmosphere maybe too much sometimes but everyone and everything needs a little heat don't you think.
I know it seems strange to be advocating for anger like this but I am writing this article and what's going through my mind is that everyone always focuses on the negative sides of anger and the negative effects it brings but nobody ever talks about the good sides!
Is there a good side to anger? I know someone is asking that and I'm asking I thought there was a negative and positive side to everything? The popular quote that I think society came up with is that "to everything that has an advantage, there is always a disadvantage and vice versa". When you apply this to the context here, you'd find out that anger too should have a good side or in other words an advantage or what do you think?
An advantage really?
Yes, you heard me right, an advantage! Just like love, joy, happiness and the likes, anger is just another medium of expression. It is one of the ways that people can let you know how they feel. This medium of expression is usually chosen when people are confused or undefined of their feelings, so they tend to burst and flare up or at least that's what I think.
It's very funny really how people get angry at someone who is angry. Two people angry at the same time is like mixing venigar and wine together. The taste is never right and they both do not just go together.
Apart from someone being expressive, it also tells how gravely offended a person is. Imagine someone saying how much you've hurt them in an angry manner, you'd quickly react unlike when the person is being all calm and chatty. As much as alot of people would want to disagree that they would prefer the person whose says it calmly, I like to think it false. I say that because even if they reacted and apologized, it would be just for the sake of apology and not because they meant it.
There is always moderation needed in all we do, and anger is not left out. If you must get angry, it should be the REASONABLE ANGER! I choose to call it this because any anger that destroys things and breaks valuables including people's heart, is not worth it. Anyone is right to be angry, yes! Even the Bible agrees to this but it should be accompanied with wisdom.
Wisdom is profitable for direction so apply it alongside your anger and you would get amazing results. Well, its funny how people try to feingn anger to get attention most times. This should be a topic for another day. I don't know if this works as I've never tried it but anyone who has can let us know in the comment section how their experience was.
Author's Epilogue
Today was another day, had classes all through then did some washing after which I cooked and ate.
I guess I can confidently say that the day has been productive.
That's it for today in my world, let's have another awesome time tomorrow. Thanks for reading!
Mhizutty the voice of truth π΅πΆπ΅
The question is not 'how do I control my anger?' It should be 'how do I redirect the anger?'. Because the more you think you can control it, that is without the help of the holy Spirit, the more you find yourself deep in it