Friends, we have been taught since childhood to be good in front of everyone and to treat all people in such a way that they like you. Right now in this age, a beautiful man who always keeps everyone happy, is good in the eyes of people, he does everything so that everyone around him is happy with him, but still such a man is worth less. That is, they take them lightly.
That’s why David Da in his book The Way of Superior Man taught us how to go from a beautiful man like us to a better man. Superior Man is a person whom everyone values, he and his words matter. A Superior Man is a person who has a high value and because he develops his character which represents a very strong personality.
1. Live as if your father were dead
Yes, you heard right, the author said that you should live in such a way that your father is no more in this world. Now you don't like to hear this line because everyone loves his father, then it is very uncomfortable to think he is dead. When we grow up we should take our own responsibility. This does not mean that your parents made the wrong decision for you or that you can make better decisions as you get older.
Rather, it tells you to be self-reliant and independent where you are responsible for your own advantages and disadvantages. I mean, learn to live in such a way that there is no one to support you, now you have to do what you want to do.
Now no one will tell you what will be right or wrong for you. You have to make all the big and small decisions in your life whether it is your career or relationship or whatever, now no one in your life can control you. Your father loves you very much and will never make the wrong decision for you. He will always think well of you. He did what he could, but now you are 100% responsible for your own life.
2. Don’t change your mind just to satisfy the woman
The belief system of any man shows how emotionally attractive he is. We should listen to the girls when we talk to them. If he tries to change your mind, it does not mean that you will change my decision by listening to him. Wants to know how much you believe in your decision.
If you agree with a girl but your mentality is different then you are a weak person whose decision can be easily changed by anyone who does not believe in himself and does not respect himself.
A best man believes in his own judgment and believes in himself.
Your work must come before your relationship
It is very important to know where your strengths are and where your weaknesses are. Do I have any work that you can do from your mind. You can do many things in this world using your strengths.
3. Lead beyond your edges
Life begins as soon as you step out of your comfort zone. If someone wants to be successful, they should get out of their comfort zone and go the hard way. They should do what you need to do. In many circles, it is always thought that who will give them success. This is a sign of a weak person. To do.
5. Enjoy criticism from your friends
Men grow up with challenges when women appreciate them. Every girl naturally wants to be praised so that everyone appreciates them. Boys grow up with challenges. Boys grow up with challenges. A boy is never afraid of challenges. And every boy should have his own close friend. About knowing about and about the weakness of his problem.
5. Forgive yourself.
If you want to respect yourself, you have to forgive past actions. Acknowledge your mistake and apologize if necessary, but move on. If you are too strict with yourself because of bad decisions in the past, you will not be able to move forward. Everyone makes mistakes and this is our way of learning new things, so accept yourself and forgive.
6. Accept yourself.
Be content with yourself, learn to love and accept who you are. This does not mean that you feel perfect, but that you have to learn to love yourself. Have fun with things you like and be satisfied with the parts that aren’t perfect, especially the things you can’t change.
If you can lose 10kg and start loving someone right now, you just stop calling yourself love.
7. Stop trying to follow others.
One of the reasons you don’t respect yourself is when you are unmarried and when your friends are busy you feel dissatisfied or you feel deprived because you don’t make as much money as others. Maintain your own values and work to achieve your desired goals. Don’t waste your time doing nasty things that will impress your Facebook friends or give you something to show off. If successful on the field it will be much more impressive to chase friends rather than chase the likes of others.
8. Trust your choice.
If you want to be respected, you have to believe in your own decisions. You have to believe in yourself and work hard to understand yourself and look for something that makes you happy. Reward yourself for making an informed decision.
You can ask for advice from others, which can help you be more purposeful, but don't spend too much time doubting yourself, thinking about past mistakes, and wishing you could do it differently.
9. Learn how to deal with criticism.
In order to respect yourself, you need to understand who you really are. If someone has helpful and constructive comments, appreciate it. You should rely on that advice to improve yourself. However, constructive criticism can help you achieve your goals by correcting and improving yourself.
Advice
Develop a unique and unique way of expressing your opinion while being a good listener.
Self-esteem is equal to self-esteem, but self-esteem also tends to be sensitive in action. Don't be afraid to be yourself.
witing by @Meherun
Self respect is really necessary to gain self-power. Good write up.