We went out yesterday. We've been to the mall, strolling around looking for something. We've been to the park just gazing at those kids playing. All those happened during sunset. I don't know if it's a date for us. It's been a while since we went out together just the two of us. We're like together everyday and I feel like going out is not special anymore. Unlike those times we seldom see each other so whenever we plan to go out, it just seemed to be exciting.
Yesterday, Sunday, was my sweet repose day which happen to be my favorite day! It just went by so well that I did not notice that today is Monday. I haven't even published an article last night. (Tired from travel)
As usual, in the morning, I did my favorite household chores: Cooked breakfast for us, wash the dishes, did the laundry, and read articles. After those, I slept for an hour. I planned to sleep longer but my boyfriend woke me up. Actually yesterday, he was planning to get inked and he's been asking me questions if he should go or not. I don't have any problems with tattoo since this is just an art or an expression of yourself. I even got mine so I supported him all the way from his first tattoo and now to his plan of having another one. I don't know what got into his mind but, he suddenly changed his plan.
He told me that we will go somewhere and he also like to buy new pair of slippers. So I just agreed and prepared to go.
We went to Bato, Leyte. It's not really far from here. I guess we just took 30 minute-time travel as we are riding a motorcycle. Time of travel differs depending on the vehicle. If it's a bus, it will take longer time since it will take lots of stops for passengers.
Since he liked to buy a pair of slippers, our first stop was in J&F mall. It was my first time to go there. Well I have been to Bato many times but haven't got the chance to be in J&F. We went inside the mall and choose Penshoppe store. He just chose his slippers while me, I was also choosing one but when I looked at the price, it's almost P400.00 so nah, next time nalang. Hahaha! It's just only 3 minutes and then my boyfriend has already paid for the slippers. How could it be thay quick? Mostly when I pick what I want it would take longer time. Well, what would I expect, he's a boy. And I think boys don't like to stay much in a supermarket. Have you also observed that from your partners?
I remember one time, this just happened recently when we went to Puregold and buy goods and snacks. My usual time of having groceries is around 40 minutes because I keep on roaming around and compare the products to see if which ones are cheaper and which ones are good. But, everything change when my boyfriend goes with me. My 40 minute just turned to 10 minutes. Why? Because he keeps on saying that I must save and not buy a lot. I cannot compare products anymore because he's in rush and instead of me, who will choose, he was the one who picked and then returned the others I chose. As a result, I spend lesser than the usual. Well, not bad at all but some of my favorites were not brought. Hmm.
So much talking again. Hahaha!
Our next stop was in the towns food area near the barbecue stalls. The place was nice and wide. You can just see the ocean just in front of the barbecue stalls. The place was so nice since we still can see the sun setting. There are also lots of people in there with their family. I can see everyone was happy enjoying their food. I wasn't able to take a pic because I have been busy choosing what to eat. I wanted to eat some barbecue but the tables there are already pretty much occupied. So we just settled at the snacks area.
We didn't ordered a lot since we're not that hungry. I let my boyfriend ordered our snacks so he will be the one to pay. π€£ It's not really a big deal to me if I will be the one to pay. I did that actually several times. It doesn't mean that if you're a girl, you will not return the favor. It should be equal -- balanced. Don't expect your man to treat you like a queen if you're not treating him like a King. Char! (Para sa akin lang naman) How about you?
We just eat and eat. Talk and talk. Talk about some plans. I don't feel the butterflies anymore. What I felt is the security of his love. That I am very much confident that this man would not be fooling around. I found stability.
The sparks and the kilig factors are just in the beginning of the relationship. As time goes by, you will not look for it anymore. What you will be after of is the assurance that your partner is of your pace - that you two are looking at the same direction. Man wants stability and if he sees that in you, regardless of how many girls he sees, he will choose you everyday. And if you see that in him as well, you don't doubt what you feel anymore.
These are just my perspectives. The way how I view love. We all have different ways to show it and different meanings of it. I respect that. βΊοΈ What's important is we are happy may it be in any forms.
Yesterday, I just spent my day with him.
Shall I call it a date?
Greetings lovelies! It's monday again. Some of us are busy doing errands and some also are busy in the house doing household chores. Whatever you do today, I want to remind you that you are doing amazing!
If you happen to have spare time, you can also share to me what made you busy yesterday. Let's talk!
Thank you for reading my not-so organized article. Haha! Thank you also to my new subcribers, to my kind sponsors and upvoters and to the ones who gave their insights in the comment section. Sending virtual hug my friends. π€
Ciao! β€οΈ
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