@Marinov
not my bet
Seriously? A couple arguing at 3 AM? And what would the reason be? Did they just woke up and figured out they need to fight about something? Yes, it's normal for couples to argue but the time of occurrence was just too disturbing. Last night, I heard our neighbors again argue about something. I mean the couple. This couple always argue everyday. They used to shout at each other early in the morning. I am not interested as to what could be the commotion about but their voices can be heard clearly for their house is just a meter away. As much as I want not to hear everything, their shouts intensify making every word audible.
Mostly, the couple fought about their debt. The wife complains because there are a lot collectors coming in to their house looking for her husband. When she asks the reason why, the collectors reveal that her husband owes them a certain amount money without her knowing. Of course the becomes a tiger upon knowing. Again, I am not into their lives. I just can hear what they're up to because they don't know how to talk peacefully. I guess everybody in the neighborhood knows about them. When the husband returns, the wife immediately confronts him in a rude way. Her tone of voice is war-seeking and so does the husband. The husband comes from work tired so the wife's nagging gets into him. The wife blabbers non-stop with a loud voice. The husband just didn't say anything but after a while, he gets angry too and told the wife to shut up because she's not the one paying the debt. He assures the wife that he will take care of the debt. And then the conflict stops. Glad they're now okay so I can have my peace of mind to write an article. But I am too lazy to do it so I sleep for an hour. In the middle of my sleep, that was 5 in the afternoon, the couple's are disturbing the neighborhood again. Geezzz! What is it about again this time? Well, it's all about money. The wife accused the husband for having an affair that's why his salary is not enough for the family. She said that maybe he spent the earnings to his affair. The husband talks back and denied everything. If I were the wife, I will get mad as well because the husband is not even giving the wife a budget for viand. He thinks that having that sack of rice is enough. Haven't he thought that he got three kids and these kids won't eat without a viand? And he also knows that his wife doesn't have a job so where can she find funds to buy everyday's viand? If you were the wife, what would you do? I hate the wife for being a nagger but I understand her side too. Knowing that his husband has debts because of liquors but can't even give budget for food would also bring out the lioness in me. Of course this is not just all about them. I have my realizations based from their experience. I just noticed that there's no peace in their family. Even their youngest kid already knows how to cuss because he hears it from his parents. I also realized that they are into spending more on material things that's why they don't have budget for food anymore. So sad that they can't eat those things. That's why it's necessary for us women, to have a sideline if we are housewives so we can have money of our own. If our husband won't give us then it's fine because we have our own. Let's not be dependent. Well, not all because not all housewives are broke. Congratulations to those who are happily married. ☺️ I also realized that before marrying someone, make sure to spend enough time with that someone so you'll know everything about his/her characters. We can't return them to their parents if we're married already. Perhaps we can but it will be tough knowing that Philippines doesn't have divorce. Take your time!
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We really have to be careful in choosing our partner for life. Get to know each other well, and as much as possible don't be too dependent on them. You're right po, women should know how to earn money as well and not just begging for the husband's support though it's their responsibility in the family. I hope your neighbors will soon find peace. :)
Very very careful especially pag nagpakasal ka. Naku pag isipan talaga ng marami. Yeah, para may pang skincare naman tayo diba? Hahaha! Di tayo losyang jusko. Sana nga mahanap na nila yung peace sa pamumuhay nila.
Ako nga po diko sure kung mag-aasawa ba ako. Kaya ko naman buhayin sarili ko though, looking forward to possibilities parin. Hahaha Basta kahit anong mangyari mas maganda parin talaga yung may trabaho, and yes, para may pang-skin care tayo at hindi mag-mukhang gipit.😂
Hahaha korek! Para fresh lagi. Desisyon mo yan amy basta kung san ka masaya hehe
Common incidents nowadays. Every society has this problem. You are suffering such. It’s all about money. I feel worried. These types of incidents make you feel uneasy. Not for them but for your future. You don't want that incident happening with you, right?
Of course. I don't want my life to be as miserable as them.
Yep... one have to really take time before marrying someone... its not easy living with someone especially if you fight every day over something that you can both work out.
Definitely. I don't know but they're not getting tired of fighting. 🤧
Pag ako yan binigay ko na tong platform link sakanya sa misis mismo or yung noise.cash ng matahimik na 🤣 HAHAHA ayoko paman din talaga sa mga maiingay nasstorbo tulog ko susko 🙄 Tama ka mareng, kahit sana nasa bahay lang tayo, dapat marunong din tayong dumiskarte di lang yung asawa natin ang kumakayod mag isa. 🤦🏻♀️
Tinry ko nga bigyan one time yung asawa kaso sabi nya lang na baka maungosan nya lang ako na kikita sya ng mas malaki kesa sakin. Ang pangit talaga ng ugali. Trueee! Kase pag umaasa tayo, wala tayo rin kawawa. Wala tayong pang skincare haha
Yeah right, most couple misunderstandings started from lack of money. My parents has always been an example, oh well mabuti na rin at naghiwalay na sila, at least both of them are living peacefully😊
Oo, sabi nila di importante ang pera. Mga hipokrito. Hahaha! Di tayo mabubuhay kung walang pera kaya dapat pag ipunan talaga. Oh really? Buti naman tanggap mo no?
Oo sis, di ba nga for better or for worst dapat magkasama hehehe! Malalaki naman na kami nung naghiwalay ang mudra at pudra, kaya keri lang, kesa lagi silang nag aaway😊
Ah ganun? Sa bagay mas okay na nga yung maghiwalay kesa laging nag aaway
oo sis, mahirap naman ipagpilitan pa, kung wala na ding love sa pagitan nila lalo lang silang mag-aaway, hehehe
Sad pero mas mabuti nga yung desisyon nila.
Kapuya c e ana nila paminawon mem. Alingugngog sa dunggan.hihi. Bitaw jud. Dapat jud responsable nga bana atung pilion kay lisud na ug kanang naay bisyo. Matiguwang ta ana ug dali.
Kapoy jod mem. Bawo maapil kog ka stress. Naa poy nawong sa asawa arang ka mug oton murag badvibes kanunay. Korek, mamili jod tang mga baji.
Hahaha. Masangitan diay ug hanger ang nawng mem?
Na kada adlaw mem
That is a good advice. Kelangan tlaga paghandaan ang pag aasawa. Kung kapit bahay ko yan baka napa barangay ko na yan kung ganyan sila kaingay palagi
Sarap na ipa baranggay eh kaso wala ni isa nagreklamo. Ayoko rin kasi magiging malapit ako sa mga tigers' eye. Hahaha
Ana baja. Batuag sin hahaha
Hahaha atay makiha ta mga isog raba
Yes, dapat talaga makilala muna ng bongga. At dapat may sideline din talaga, hindi lang dapat iasa sa asawa. Lalo kung ganyan lagi ang case. Hays.
Diba sis? Kung housewife mas maigi na yung may pagkakakitaan ka rin diba para may pang gastos ka sa sarili mo lalo na yung ganyan di nagbibigay yung asawa. Di pwede sakin yan.
Haruyyy mamsh ka toxic ba sa ing ana oyy... Kami mostly kay silent war man kay d man jud na malikayan sa couple naa jud ng away, ang importante responsable sa away, usahay pud mag babaay, ana jud na pero dapat naa jud usa magpaubos kung couple kay para dili na mudako.
Ako pod mem gusto kog storya rag hinay ba way makadungog. Diko anang sininggitay kay pakauwaw ra jod.
Mao gyud mamsh
Sa totoo lang hindi mo naman talaga makikilala ng tunay Yung partner mo unless magsama kayo at maranasan Yung problem. I mean Yung worst kumbaga. Pero Yung ganyang scenario nakakaasar nga. Thankful nalang ako Kasi Hindi nainom asawa ko.
Totoo, dapat live in muna diba kesa magsisi sa huli. Kaya ako kikilalanin ko talaga magiging asawa ko. Mabuti naman po ms.yen. blessed po kayo sa asawa nyo.
Hindi pa din hehe. Kahit 20 years na kayo nagsasama Hindi mo padin makikilala asawa mo hehe. Kasi Hindi Naman consistent Ang tao. I mean nagbabago.
Talaga? So napakarisky rin ng pag aasawa no? Hehe
Nyahaha.. ako medyo chismosa ako pag may nag aaway na kapitbahay.. I guess when it was done too many times, it is hard to keep fights private. Expenses, budgeting and any monetary issues should be agreed on by couples. If budget is short, adjustments need to be done and expectations managed.
Hahaha talaga ba? Ako rin minsan pero eto kasing mag asawa nato nakakasawa na pakinggan. Mura ng mura yung babae kaya tuloy yung anak na 3 yrs old ganun din. Totoo, di namn sa nangengealam pero eto kasi sila mas inuuna yung mga gamit kesa sa pagkain kaya pag wala ng pera ubos na wala ng pambili pagkain
ahah kasi dun sa tinirhan ko nung nag aral ako.. samut saring away meron hahaha. thats entertainment kung baga. hard not to look out the window and see since sa daan nila ginagawa.. merong mag hahabulan.. .merong mag sisigawan hahaha.. pero ung torya nila di ko na inaalam.. yun lang mga sinisigaw nila sa labas. ah oo pag puro mura lang awayan.. korni na pakinggan hahaha.. walang storya dun... puro inis lang nila sa isat isa
Napakastressful naman. Pero mas maigi na sguro yan kesa naman nagpapatayn jusko
Yun binalik mo sila sa parents nila, ayoko na po sa kanya, sa inyo na po ulet. or umuwi ka na lang sa bahay ng parents mo at kinalimutan mo na na may asawa ka. Ang pag aasawa kasi team work yan, dami ko na nakikilala na happily married but lagi rin nag aaway pero sila pa din.
Ewan ko ba sa mag asawang yun ms. Grecy. Nakakainis na nga rin sila eh. Ang lakas ng boses laging nag aaway talaga. Kaming mga kapit bahay kahit di chismosa di maiwasan marinig mga boses nila
Oo nga, naging habit na nila na basta pag galit sila sa isat isa mag sisigawan sila, ibig sabihin Di nila talaga sino solve ang problem nila kasi lagi sila nag aaway
Korek. Okay lang sana kung di sila nakakadistorbo ng kapit bahay
Saka Kung sound proof yun bahay nila hahaha
Hahaha! Korek
Sa Panahon ngayon, kailangan din madiskarte ang mga babae lalo na pag may pamilya hindi yung aasa nalang sa asawa kasi hindi sa lahT ng oras may trabaho yung tao. Mas mainam pa din pag may sariling pera.
Korek. Yan talaga motto ko eh. Dream ko maging housewife pero di yung housewife na walang sideline.
Tama yang motto mo, kasi pag may gusto kang bilhin para sa sarili mo o sa future kids mo, may madudukot kang pera hindi tulad nung walang sideline maghihintay na lang sa sweldo. Ang ending pag walang naiabot na pera yung asawa, eh mag-aaway na sila.
Yan na nga nangyari sa kanila 🤧
Hirap nun pag may problema financially, walang at peace sa bahay tapos may lagi pang naniningil ng utang. Nakakastress
Na experience me this when I'm a kid, my parents will woke up early to have an argument and I just cover my ears with pillows.Though I don't want it but I can't do nothing but to be silent.
This is so sad, sis. I hope hindi na ngayon
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