There are things that we like but we're scared of it to come. Can you think what are those? It depends on the individual's perspective. I have a lot of things which I like but then I don't want to have because I don't like commitment or any responsibility.
One example is being in a relationship for so long. Haha! You may think I am crazy because most of want long term ones but here I am, wanting the opposite. I don't know but as time goes by, I found it boring if it will stay long. Well except family relationships. Of course I want them to stay longer of even forever.
What I mean is the relationship between opposite sex. I had been to relationships and I can say I had enough experience handling one. I know how not to fall deeply because I have been into a relationship when I loved really hard but then I was fooled. After that, I promises myself I will not let myself hurt. I don't want to get hurt because I don't want the people around me to see me in my weakest point. I've been there and I cried a lot because of a failed relationship and I don't want that again. NEVER!
When I am into relationship, I honestly love the person it's just that I don't want to fall deeply. So I just treat my partner as special friend. Whenever he's around, I'm happy and when he's not around, I will still be happy. Isn't it amazing?
I think women should have the power to be fine when men leave them. Learn to be okay when people leave. Don't beg because if they truly care, they won't even leave in the first place.
Us women should not depend ourselves especially our happiness to anyone. Nothing is permanent. Everyone leaves when it's time and when that happens, you'll be fine. Yes, we will cry and get sad but not for long.
We should not find someone who will complete us. Let us learn how to complete ourselves because we are able to do so.
Don't build a man. Build yourself. The right man will not let you build him because he, himself built it for you whether you ask him or not.
Don't ask for attention not even once. Based from my experience, men do not want women who keep on asking most of their time. Men have things to attend. His world doesn't just revolve for you. Admit it or not, you're not the only one who makes him happy.
Don't control him. Let him be. If he wants you, he will show it. Don't make him a puppet and complain later on that he only did those things because you asked. Though we have the right to control our partner, that should not be abused. After all we are not dogs.
Actually there are a lot of things which I considered as learning. And I am not saying this also applies to everyone. This is just my point of view and I understand if yours is way too different.
I wasn't expecting myself to be writing this since I don't like to talk about it. But then I got nothing else to write. I did not even publish an article yesterday because something has been blocking my mind. I think I need a drink. Haha!
Look how cute that baby is. 😍 I like to have that baby but I hate babysitting. I just want to take care of him whenever I want and when I am tired, I can just return him. Lol. Even if I will have a baby soon, I don't want to get married immediately. I just want to enjoy life being single.
I guess I was not yet matured and not ready in life. I am not even ready to give birth, my goodness I will die because of that. I have heard many women who died because they didn't make it as well as the baby, or perhaps the baby was alive but then the mother didn't survived. I can't imagine the pain during the delivery considering also that I hate being hospitals. I am afraid to be in a hospital. I don't want to be in a hospital again for it can trigger my anxiety.
Am I thinking normal? Sorry! 😁
It's just that I am afraid of commitment. Because of this, I have talked a lot and most are non-sense. Haha! Forgive me.
This is just how I viewed relationships as my age now. I don't know if this will change soon, but I do hope this will change for the better. For me this is quite selfish since I am only thinking of myself. I don't want to get hurt especially if for a man.
If self-love is a selfish thing to you, so don't come near me.
I respect everyone so better keep it that way. Do things your own and I will also do mine. But don't think I'm not open for opinion as I am welcoming if there's any.
How about you? How do you view relationship? Let's talk!
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I love your thoughts. Build yourself, make yourself complete! Exactly, if people need to change someone, then they don't love them, and children and great when you hand them back haha. I am with you on what you say!