When You See Your Old Classmates Again Understand This
Somethings are just so sensitive, we can't afford to get it wrong at that point because the effect it builds can last for a longer time, without knowing when another opportunity would arise to correct it. So for some kinds of meeting its paramount we know what to expect and how to respond because we want to leave there guilt free. Today am talking about running into an old Classmates, well I'm assuming like me, many of us had long left high school and a lot has been going on in our personal lives till date, so it'll be more of an encounter running into someone you'd once shared a memorable experience with, but then how do we react.
Full of joy I would, we should be joyful, first off I say no one should be scared of running into an old Classmates or friend, no matter their character or how the last experience was it is still important we see them and be happy, it's enough joy to be alive, everyday everyone stands a high risk of being hurt and the worst case scenario being dead, but the fact that you all are still alive and living, shows that God has been faithful. And these is enough ground to start your complimentaries from, before anything it's good we start off from a neutral ground, a ground of both victories which is being alive.
Health is another footing to stand on. Don't be scared to jump into the area of jobs or finances, the both of you are probably scared of that side of the discussion, no matter how wealthy you've gotten, you may be scared of the other doing so much more that it downgrades you, remember you both are just meeting so it's best the both of you get comfortable with each other again before sensitive matters can be discussed. Issues of relationships and family can sometimes be safe as well as very dangerous, remember we are really trying not to break someone emotionally as well as knowing more about them.
Someone may ask, but if I don't ask all of these, then how would I know where I can be of help to him, true, the exchange of information is key, you'd never know who would be of help to the other, maybe the meeting was divinely program by the heavens to help you, however they aren't coming void of emotions, so it'll be best to help each other stay happy enough to remember that this person was my friend and is still my friend and has my best interest at heart before they can start spilling. Do you know the numbers of people who lie when they see and old time pal, it doesn't make them bad people, they felt attacked and was only trying to preserve their little dignity left.
So in order not to make them lie to you, which is on you cause you made them so uncomfortable and maybe boastful, so you see the need to get everyone happy and feeling loved, loved enough to want to share all that's really happening with them, cause they know you're a true friend, a shoulder to cry on. On the other side, don't feel jealous or embarrassed when you meet a boastful friend, this is now on you to guard your heart. Not everyone would be sensitive to make you happy, some people strive in seeing other people intimidated by them, they prow in it, it doesn't mean you have to lie, rather it's a nice time to teach them that there is joy in contentment.
What is life if we can't positively impact, people just need to see different, characters are shaped off believe, a bad man would keep doing wrong until when his believe is changed, more reason why the government takes the young crime perpetrators through rejuvenation, because they can still be worked on. In other words people need to see different. By virtue of our early start, we owe our old time friends a helping hand to standing as well as they do us, we all knew the early starting of this life journey, when nothing else mattered by fun, we all made memories, there should be no shyness still, we help each other.
In the comfort comes the deep discussion, not discussing from a state of who does it better nor who has it more, but in a state of what can we do now, how can we both assist each other to get up higher, it's more beautiful when it's your old time friends or high school classmate, you all had seen your downtime, probably seen each other cry, there are many memories that can easily make one laugh and get him humble and settled, we are almost like family, more like a distant relation, the love never dies but never from a place of pride or lies, it's all Love when we meet again.
Do better when you meet any again, life isn't sweet to all in similar proportions, some has it more than others, let's understand this and try to make our old pals happier after their encounter with us rather than making them more depressed or comfortable with lying. Thank you for reading today, hope your weekend is going smooth. Remember One love always.
Everytime I get to see my old classmates I was feeling always shy and hide haha, they were successful already and I've been a laborer since I dropped out of school because my parents can't afford to send me to school so i worked early than to got to school.