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If You Did it, Own Up To It Are you someone that takes responsibility or do you look for the best possible way to deny it? True that sometimes we act in a certain kind of way and the results we get for our actions are so unexpected and unplanned for, now what do we do? We have our image to protect, we have our dreams to pursue, we can't be held down by this single mistake, at a moment like this our thoughts are filled with ways to shift blame, finding a way to run out of it, rarely would it matter who and what would be affected when we do not own up to it. All we want to do is to save ourselves first, and save ourselves only. Soon and very soon we realize that it taking often has it's way of becoming the best choice overtime, for some very sensitive case it's almost impossible to imagine how the tables can turn to ones favour, but still it turns around to our good If we can stand up and own up to our actions and take full responsibility. Life is not controlled by our thoughts, life would continue to be determined by supernatural forces, our actions are another factor but the supernatural can make it less important, so therefore it's best to act right and do everything possible to stay right and it begins with being responsible., Responsible for your actions. People would create fear to the mind, they can make it seem as though the world has ended and your mistake is going to ruin your future totally, and it truly appears as though they are right, there are many examples they can bring to buttress their points, however they leave out the many more examples that won't push their claims, and so we think more of dodging the responsibility, we don't want to get hooked down. The pressure is too much and we want it all to go away, what would people say, how would my family feel, oh no... and so we do other things to cover it. Learning to take responsibility for your actions is an attitude that helps on the long run, apart from the integrity it provides us, another good reality is that we secure opportunities, most times opportunities comes in unseen places, in situations we never possible, in situations we would have thought to push out from, so risky to stay one would presume, but in the strangest of places lies the best of possibilities, lies so much opportunities. Only those who stays, having endured the initial brunt during the unfavorable times would enjoy the benefits when it surfaces. Not to mention the hate it creates to shy away from your actions caused. Just like we've learnt in elementary school that energy can neither be created nor destroyed, it can be transformed from one point to another, similar our actions cause won't just die down, it can be transferred to another, in other words someone is out there taking responsibility for what you've caused and we don't expect such good samaritan to be happy with your choice of actions. We owe it to our conscience that we take due responsibility for what we have done, we owe it to nature, we owe it to the persons affected and most importantly we owe it to God Almighty. Its then more annoying when you try to reclaim after what was rejected becomes the chief corner stone., I mean it's very annoying when people return to take responsibility after what they rejected has turned out to be very productive. Sometimes I wonder how shameless some people can be, indeed that is the height of selfishness and being self centered. It's as though they wouldn't think of making amends should it not become productive. It's been a long time coming, should have come sometime anytime but choosing to come when all is rosy is all about wanting your benefits. If you did it own up to it, take responsibility, clear your conscience, knowing yourself enough to know that your conscience won't allow you do the wrong thing of denying your actions or shifting blame, would ensure we are more careful and taking more rational decisions. Cause if we are dubious in character we know there is always a way out and don't care who takes the fall as far as we are protected, with these kind of mindset and continous deeds our hearts keeps hardening, and we never can tell the extent we can go and the hurt we are going to cause soon, it's better we learn to stay right and do right. Take responsibility for your actions, especially as adults, access the risks, look at the effects and find the safest possible way out but never shift responsibility, never cause pain to another, best we own up to it and face it head on. Life has it's way of rewarding responsible people, the world we be much better when everyone takes responsibility for their actions whether good or bad. Indeed the world currently is filled with many bad and wrong actions with little or no one taking responsibility, instead blackmailing the innocent and giving more work to the good samaritans we have in the society Is the order of the day. We can do better, we must learn to shoulder the results of our actions ourselves. Thank you for reading, is gonna be a lovely day, expect the best.

One Day I'll Get It Right Woke up this morning to the crazy thought of trying again, the exact same thing I tried yesterday and didn't work, my mind keep telling me to try again, and there's something about me, I feel like this time is always the lucky charm and so I try again. Try today, try tomorrow, try the days after that, with the hope that consistency pays because consistency really pays. Having listened to most successful people, I can say it's rare to find one who is lucky, it's clear that consistency is one key point they are constantly hammering on. Its frustrating sometimes when I've tried and tried but it doesn't seem to work, I'm left with the thoughts of not knowing what to do, I really hate the almost, sometimes I want it to go bad from the start and not keep me in anxiety and not still work, nevertheless it's as a motivation to me, I know that I'm close, almost, I'll get it right, it'll click someday, let's just keep trying, when we don't give up then we would soon win. Like the saying goes winners never quit and versa quitters never win. The good thing is that we grow wiser as we wait, there are things we've learnt from failing that we couldn't learn from winning, most times easy wins doesn't give us the knowledge we would need, it doesn't create the expertise that we would need on the long run, what pays in consistency is really the perfection we derive from constant practice, as its rightly said that practice makes perfection, when we try and try and try again we keep practicing, it wouldn't take long before our practice would lead to perfection, and if not perfection at least we would have learnt to a great extent. Hope is what we need sometimes, especially when there is nothing really to hang on to, at least we can hope, without hope there would be no motivation, without any motivation there would be no constant trying, and without trying there's no result and no possibility of success, so let's keep the hope alive, let's hope keep us on motion, let hope serve as a propeller to our dream. The reason we can get home today and get up tomorrow and the next in the quest for a better day is much more than waiting on luck, it is a believe, a hope that it'll surely work soon. We can't know when the right time would be, as humans we can't predict the next second, the best we can do is to live by principles, let the principles guide us into favourable habits, habits that if practice for a long while would surely produce great results. We can build principles, principles when cultured into our regular lives schedules increases our possibility of success, cause its not just a out of the blue effort, it keeps the dream in mind, cause then our activities have a way of reminding us there is a dream to pursue. Its luck but not beckoning on luck, the day it clicks would be a lucky day however it can't be regarded as waiting on luck, because everyday we are out doing it again and again, it has become a business and everyday cannot be a bad day for business. Eventually there comes a time the new business man becomes a business tycoon, he has studied the business by adding knowledge to knowledge, he has mixed his lessons from his losses and the lessons from his gain and together they have becomes his experience. And so he now commands respect. Never be weary of trying again, if it's not working yet, still try again, there is something to gain from winning and something to gain from loosing, so keep trying guys, someday would be the lucky day, make trying a habit, so you would have tried on that day it would be the best time. I believe success is sure to all who won't relent, who keep pushing on with a mind filled with positivity. In God we trust, we pray for success in all our efforts be it little or much. One day we'll get it right, that day is just around the corner, keep going guys.

Trying To Read Inbetween The Lines Why the sudden change in attitude? What could be their motives for becoming so different, something is wrong, and I've got to know what's going on, I've got to be very careful because there are so many chameleons out there. Have you ever been in that situation where things just change suddenly and you know beyond a doubt that something is wrong. Humans can be very sneaky and selfish, as long as something is going to be favorable to us, we wouldn't mind faking our feelings and attitudes., overtime we have learnt that it's better to understand how people are, so when there is anything noticeable difference, you'll know something is wrong. The story of young men has a bit of this tale in their life cycle, the moment they can't see things for the way they truly are then they may lose. Many times this young men are not being attended to, they have been shunned, embarrassed, even spat on just cause they tried getting a girls attention, a girl who claims to be out of his league, come on go find someone your type outside. Once comes a financial upgrade, or reputation position in life, you'll see many of those ladies swimming in very convincingly. What could they want? Are they truly in love now or just another chameleon? You'd think family is excluded, and you wouldn't need to be all sensitive when it comes to family. Like you mean after the years we've spent together, I should still be guarded against people I grew up with. Well you wouldn't need to be guarded so much because you are already familiar with who they truly are. You know the sibling not to trust, you know the one to trust more, you know what one can handle best and what the other can also, all this helps, however a family betrayal are mostly the unexpected and painful cause you wouldn't want to do anything about it, even when you have no choice but to take action. Friends, friends should always be taken with caution. A larger percentage of betrayals and back stabbing has emanated from friendship, most of us trust so much and you easily accept anyone and try to be the best and nicest people we can be. Just when they are done and we've been finally betrayed, we'd say to ourselves, I'll trust anyone so much again, but soon we forget and open up freely to another, we are just naturally good people, that why it's necessary we know that reading people's action isn't wrong nor is it an act of insecurity, rather it's an act of security which is very beneficial to us. For most of the hurt, you've got to deal with it for ourselves all by ourselves, so it's best we take precautionary measures to prevent it next time. Assessing everyone who comes in contact with you is good, taking it one step at a time is best, enjoy each other company yet be careful so the person doesn't you hurt you., give people chances to come close, to be theirselves, to be their true self, so when we are finally sure and confident the guards can start going down causally. Some people are not for keep, keeping them would be as risky as a self inflicted pain, so cunny and so deceptive, around for the benefits, never around during the waiting time. Having so much parasitic energy around can break someone emotionally and psychologically, imagine having doing so much, just when you need to hang on to someone, you'd realize that most of the people who were your beneficiaries are no where to be found, infact they were never into you, just their survival instincts playing out, drawing near to you until they can be independent enough and not care anymore where they were hosted previously. Reading inbetween the lines, spot the chameleons around you, seeing people for who they truly are and not what you wish they were is the first step to preventing hurt for oneself. It doesn't always mean you'll let go of them, now you can work with them better cause you've understood their kind of person, thereby you know what to do with them and what not, you know where you can go with them and where not to. Understanding our people would help us relate more with them, remember even the most notorious of criminals would still have close friends who connect with him. Take care of yourself, it's your job to do so, if you choose to be careful about who you relate with and how you relate with people then it's not a bad idea at all, no one should come crying that we dont trust them, trust is a big word, someone trusted must earn the trust, trust isn't something to throw around so easily, especially with the escalating rate of betrayals and deceits. Stay careful, try to read inbetween the lines. Thank You For Reading Today.

Sorry But I'm Irreplaceable I've always heard people say be humble bro, you are replaceable, there is an extent to which you'll push me to the wall, I'll let go of you and find another to fill in your space, all this and more in the bid to get me to let my guards down and appreciate them more as though they are doing me a favour. Having carefully analyze these words I've come to a conclusion that it makes no sense, cause for a fact I'm Irreplaceable, maybe you can find get someone else and can cope with them, but then I'm so real and original that there can't be another me, only me can do what I do, only me can be me. If someone is feeling like he or she has no true need for me then I can do the honours of finding a place where there is a genuine need for me, at least it's not a job. I believe value and regards can be percieved, and the reason for some disregard is when they feel you can be easily replaced should you be unavailable. Everyone should find a place where their potentials and uniqueness can be valued, then and only then can you start living the happy life you desired and become more motivated to grow and develop better. Its easier done for relationships cause it expects us to be ourselves to eachother, showing your partner your distinct personalities, everyone has what they do differently, there's something to make anyone remembered, could be how they laugh, their thoughts patterns, their charisma, for someone who is real to you, you can get another like him or her outside. Letting go of someone like that doesn't mean he or she is Irreplaceable, you're only just saying I don't care anymore, i done want to deal with you anymore so go with your charms and unique features, I don't think I can deal with your other side anymore. People are Irreplaceable in the corporate world, because they don't mostly need your personality or charms or lifestyle, in the corporate world there is a job to be done and all we need are only what is needed for the job to be completed, how you laugh doesn't matter to you employer, maybe it would matter to me if I was your employer, you can't be laughing anyhow lol, but yes it's all about competence to your designated role, and to this some people can do what you can do and even more, cause the jobs roles are studied and its mostly in procedures, so for anyone to claim being Irreplaceable is tougher here. Sadly most people are replaceable, yes everyone is unique in their own way but when it comes to solving a particular problem, people can be replaced on the basis of competence. Should a lesser skilled person be proud to scream I know my worth, I'm Irreplaceable, then he would sound more of a joke, but should another person whose good works have gone ahead of him, people know him by reputation, should he scream I'm Irreplaceable, even where there may be others as equally skilled or better skilled, yet everyone concurs, cause competence is not easy to come by. So the first step into self proclaiming to be highly valuable and Irreplaceable is to work out the part, we need to learn and learn and become skilled to the point of undoubted recommendation, when people would see and know that he or she is worth the time and values worth. Fortunately for us, everything can be learnt, there are experts willing to teach for just the right price, our time and dedication would determine how far we would go in our quest for the achievements. To summary both aspects, the love and the work, at all times we must give in our best, it's a sweet experience to be termed Irreplaceable in anywhere we find ourselves, where people appreciates you for who you are and feel you're the best at what you do, this entails originality and dedication. Naturally we like to boast, we eagerly want it to be true when we say we are Irreplaceable and the opposition we are boastful to won't be able to argue, oh this would raise our heads up high, I'm a better lover, I'm the best man for the job, imagine hearing "ever since you came, everything has been so smooth and lovely", I bet you'll feel satisfied. Thank you for reading through. Keep being Yourself and building yourself.

We Are The Masterplan I've learnt that I am the solution, and likewise is everybody, we exist where and how we exist for a reason nevertheless all we need to remake things to how it ought to be are already available to us but we are all waiting for someone else to come do the work. I'm sharing with us what I learnt from today's sunday service, I hope you don't mind, i was so excited with the way my eyes were being open to things I ordinary wouldn't think of, indeed I am the master plan, if I'm not taking responsibility, it will be as a player in a pitch but not kicking the ball, I can be substituted from the game but then I won't win neither be rewarded. We are mostly used to judging our lives with the situation of the country or the locale we find ourselves, if there is an inflation present in the country, we'd already believed we would suffer with the general public, so we pray and pray and hope for someone else to come handle the situation, While this isn't seen as wrong because not everyone can be president of a country nor can everyone take up the political position of finding solution to the cries of the public, its paramount we understand that we are the chosen ones, not chosen by the country but rather chosen by God so therefore he affects us and we should not be affected by the situation of our location. We can't be in a mess and pull people away from the chaotic situation, we need to rise above it, then and only then can we help out. So as Gods own plan its essential that we build the mindset of being in the world but not of the world. So our resources are supplied from the spiritual, not from this limited earthly resources, neither from this limited availability per time, and start thinking as people sent with a vision for a mission, we are sent to liberate the world from the evils that so readily abound, we are sent to be the light so others can find their path to eternal life, how can we do this if we stay under the authority of earthly jurisdiction. Looking at those who take up situations and conquer, they appear as more than normal humans and so people follow them, we are smart to know that this guys are operating within an higher dimensions than we do and so we follow them, this way we can learn and be better or maybe just by following, we would be exposed to their benefits also., people who in deep crisis experience peace, people who in deep poverty have enough to spare and enjoy for theirselves, people who are preserved even in times of a severe breakout of sickness, everyone would want to know their secret and enjoy their benefits so they follow. The secret is knowing that we are sent intentionally by God, and the one who sent us knows us by name and would not allow us suffer, with this knowledge when times of temptations comes we can still be at peace cause we know it's a test for a while and our enjoyment which are incoming are far much more, we would not be able to feel the pains of the suffering anymore. The one who made us the masterplan is the wisest and he knows more than we do, he sees something in us that we just aren't seeing yet and he is not leaving us alone, he's with us, ready to follow so long as we start moving. Start moving and working as the master plan of God. Most of us are happy when our bosses at work wants to use us, we feel like yes we are finally getting noticed, and hopefully after we have completed the task he would be so happy and start planning to help us grow higher in positioning. However when we see that God wants to use us, we begin to feel really scared and disobedient, like we are now being bothered, we'd like to rest more, like the tasks of God are so tedious, but we yearn for the blessings, we pray for the wealth, for growth and yet we don't want him to disturb us, nevertheless unlike a regular father he still would bless us, cause he would never force us, he loves us coming cheerfully. Gods plan is the greatest and his tactics never fails, no matter what he does or say it'll be correct and true, he doesn't speak the truth rather he says something and it becomes the truth, if he says go confront the biggest army and just sing, then be fully assured that funny plan would earn you victory, should he say get up go to a place and seat then be assured you're about to be amazed, when he says go ask the price of that expensive car then be fully assured that he wants to buy it for you, it's not by our power neither is it by our understanding, we are his masterplan, then it has become his duty to take care of us., may be not forget he is the best father anyone could ever imagine. I pray we begin to see ourselves as the masterplan that we are and take up our responsibility. He needs us to move so he can follow, then through us he would work. Can we be the vessel, nothing more, he would do the work, it's his work so our obedience is all he needs, when he speaks we answer and when we also speak he answers, then we would received the reward for our obedience and coexistence, he take care of himself majestically so also when we work and walk with him he would take care of us too, being his masterplan. There is a lot to be done, and he wants to do it all, he can very much do it all, he is all powerful, his plan however is you, he needs a vessel, become Gods vessel today. Shalom.

I Don't Want To Regret Later I wish I can know the right things to do, the right step to take, like having a sneak peep into the future to know what it needs, the kind of people who are going to be the happiest in the future, those who would be wealthier and living better in the future., I seriously wish I can know, its known that the actions of today are the results of tomorrow but we're all playing blindly, I can't ascertain if my actions today would be favorable to me tomorrow or I'll keep hoping. I can only pray and hope that my actions today are the right actions I should br taking, so when tomorrow finally comes, I'll be happy about my yesterday's deeds. Today is a virgin ground to plant on, every seconds of the day we interact with our seeds and so our today becomes pregnant for tomorrow, and like every early stage of pregnancy we may never be able to ascertain the gender, in other words we may not know what tomorrow brings early, much until later when our tomorrow begins to draw near and we begin to see what the possible outcome of our tomorrow may be. How then do we plant right, how then can we be sure about what our pregnant today would birth forth tomorrow? One of the greatest fear to humanity has been the fear of the unknown, what we do not is no doubt the mountain we would be faced with, in order to conquer and become victorious, the first step is knowing about it. A lot of things yet unknown can be learnt, yet some others can be learnt yet very uncertain, the uncertainty of tomorrow is on the high side, because unlike a weight lifter who knows that if he can be consistent with his daily workout routines, surely in a while there would be some evidential changes in the body, but for tomorrow, we can have faith, but there are many "What If" attached. What if the government policies changes and affect everything one has been trying to save for some years now? What if another widespread of disease take over the country or the world at large, thereby leading to no working, low production and high consumption, leading to inflation, how then would the years of efforts be drained on high cost of living, so many what if comes on the aspect of tomorrow, and these thoughts has made many people lavish their money whenever they have a little more, as they chant "We only live once, enjoy your life". But then tomorrow always comes and for the most part of our tomorrow it is what we sow we reap. Even the people who enjoy the moment are also faced by tomorrow and they too have got to reap what they have sowed and so like you can guess they begin to regret. If luck rarely comes then its unwise to live our lives on the bed of lucks, it may come and it may not, also since tomorrow always comes we can't live our lives like there is no tomorrow. The most secured and no doubt the best way to usher tomorrow in has been to invest into it, we plan towards its forthcoming so when it comes and we are happier. The bible rightly advices us to consider the ants, as they gather in due time so when the season comes where they can no longer work, they have gotten enough stored up to enjoy. For these we learn that life is a combination of seasons, just as we sometimes experience the summer then we do the winter, and other variant weather climates, just as the farmers have seasons of plenty harvest and seasons of reduced outputs, same applies everywhere, times change, however not everyone would suffer, only those who didn't save up and plan better for tomorrow ends up regretting and waiting on another opportunity to do right. I know no one would want to regret comes tomorrow, so we try our possible best to seize today. We only have now, we don't have the whole day, we don't have yesterday, we don't have tomorrow, we don't have the next hour, all we have is now, and this now we posses have that ability to earn us every other day. Our actions on now can rewrite the mistakes of yesterday thereby giving us a celebrated past, not only that the now we have also posses the ability to make tomorrow much greater and better, so now is just enough for us, act on now! Nevertheless, we can't over work ourselves, too much pressure is not ideal and might lead to mental breakdown which if not controlled can utterly dismiss the full essence of one's struggle, as sickness and weakness can set in, thereby preventing the body from either embacking on needed actions or preventing the body from enjoying the long awaited wealth. So strike the balance, always start and end with a well drafted plan. God would continue to help us all and may be not regret in our tomorrow in Jesus Name, Amen. God bless you and hope you enjoyed the article, your comments are very much appreciated.

Just To Impress So amazing the extent to which we can go to impress another person, it's become the norm, wanting people to see us happy and joyful especially on social media and get their comments, it makes us highly rated, more desirable to the outside world. Many friends and many lovely vacations, however it comes with many fake smile and loves also, mostly drama are what we get from such actions, people who come to your comment sections to hype you but shortly after say bad behind your bank, on the long run we see that there's absolutely no need to impress anybody. Just be yourself, do you, this way your expectations on other people are reduced, do you remember posting something and waiting for that response from that special someone, people keep sending loves to you but you're not yet satisfied until you get it from that one person you really want to get it from., yet you'll tell yourself you're not trying to impress anyone, then why do you care so much about how people perceive you, why do you really want to be applauded by people. Nobody really wants to admit to the fact that they care deeply about what other people think, so much on the ladies as it is on male, however the ladies showing more emotions would appear as more concerned than the Male but we all care. Nevertheless some people have learnt to accept things as it is and just live their lives, already they know what people think about them, they are not confused as to how the other person is viewing him or not, they know already and since they can't change it they just live their lives and be happy regardless. More and more as the day passes we are getting more attached to the view of other people, infact we may not be happy for a while should our expectations of what we hope people to see isn't what they see. A lady told her make up was done so well as there are some mistakes seen, she would most likely have a bad day as she now thinks everyone who sees her would notice the mistake and see her less. She may think she's now very ugly and can get frustrated, yet later she may deny that she's trying to impress people. Life exist in a way that our self esteem affects our mood and actions per time. And since we can't help but care about what people say, we would often have variance in moods, this morning you're happy and shortly afterwards you're sad. Something just happened that can make people view you less. Sometimes in broken relationships, the most hurtful thing about the split isn't cause you don't want the person to go, but that people would view you as that lover image you've been keeping for a while. Impressing others Is not all bad nor all wrong, it's almost irreversible, from older generations to new ages inhabitants, we all have possess this trait and I don't think it'll end with us. Impressing people has advantageously made the world more positive. Yes it has loads of negative effects but it had positive too, both depends on the ways and measures the person takes, in the bid to impress someone there have been people who improved on crafts, further their education, so at least those who they care about would really be proud of them. Nevertheless don't allow others be the yardstick to your happy, you can only control yourself, you don't anyone else, how they feel is entirely up to them, you can't impose your pictures into there hearts, they have to find it for themselves and like it. Waiting for anyone may lead to drastic delay of joy, and there no need for all of that, Its your life, you can learn to have fun for yourself and by yourself, others tagging alone is a bonus to the fun, this way our happy mood is more secured, we aren't moved by what others think, we are becoming our joy. Thanks for reading. Be your joy. See you all in August.

The Tensed, Calm And The Unbothered I've seen this trait in quite a number of people, and it appears magical to me, the unusual ability to be so calm and carefree even in the worst of situations, like how do they do it. What we are more conversant with are those who are reacting to their issues and trying so hard to work things out. I don't know where to place it fully either the good or bad, it has some good to itself likewise it has some bad., you could be with someone so less concerned, so unbothered about a dire situation, yet take it with levity as though its happens very reoccurring., truly you'll be amazed at the mode of which their minds work. Calmness is the trait that makes it good, more and more people needs to learn to catch their breathe as life would keep on going with or without your impact to it, so be more relax instead of acting like if you don't do it as quicky as possible the world would turn downside up, catching ones breath would likewise help you think better, a calmer mind processes the situation better than a tensed up mind. More reason you see expert chase people out of a sensitive situation be it medical operations, emergencies because their tension would affect both the mood and the thinking process of the worker. Since solutions are not gotten from worries but thoughts then I guess it's best to be quite calm amidst the rush and fuss especially mentally so that you can think critically. When the deadline seems to be fast approaching and the desired result is yet to be delivered it's most likely it may never be delivered for two reason, one being the rush, the rush makes people take the wrong decision cause they won't think on all angles anymore, anything appearing as a solution would just be adopted and may lead to bigger fuss or loss, secondly because ofcourse the time is not enough, so why rush in the first place. Nevertheless as I've earlier said, being unbothered also have its otherside. There are some instances when the unbothered nature would be seen as wrong and unacceptable. What do you make of a team player when they are all in a bad situation, everyone is panicking and worried, and you appear calm not troubled at heart, just looking and possibly thinking in your heart, should there be any short tempered person there, you'll likely be confronted and maybe accused to be the cause of the trouble. Who would understand that it's a new nature you're trying to imbibe as bothering and panicking doesn't solve. Appearing unbothered shouldn't mean you should really be unbothered, it's a state of the mind, a mental calmness so as to come up with a well drafted plans, a plan not controlled by sentiments, a plan not controlled by the mood caused by the situation on ground, you'll attest that many times we have reflected back on our past actions and smacked out heads saying how did we think of such stupid idea, didn't we realize it was obviously a wrong idea, however back then it would appear good cause we needed to have faith in something, just anything no matter what it is. Leaders are good in exhibiting this trait, not because they are naturally unconcerned, but cause they need to show they have the situations under control, should everyone be confused and your leader also appears confused then everyone would know they are in doom, a leader is the hope, the final source of solution, so even when they are helpless they tend to act strong and confident, however all this wouldn't matter if their minds are not calm, the mind is the main assest to profess solution. If you appear calm or you appear confused, the mind is what we need to be calm, cause from it comes the solution. It's worth addressing for people to be aware that some dire conditions requires absolute calmness to navigate through, going tough with the rhythm of the circumstances may not be favorable, almost as a person drowning in a pool, the struggle would only increase the chances of drowning and prevent experts from helping cause they know you'll drag them so hard, mostly they wait till when helpless then rescues and resuscitate, however when told to be calm and you adhere then they are more confident to dive in to the rescue, be calm. Thank you for reading, the word for today is "BE CALM".

Law Of Sowing And Harvest pt2 From the previous article preceding this current article, we had started our discussion on how farming could open our eyes to so many things, so many life lessons to learn from this simple act, how every detailed practice has a vital lesson to learn right from the intentional preservation of seeds or even the initial thoughts of going to plant, up to how to harvest would tell more on the stages to success, everything God has created has been in law and accordance with a specific method, a method geared towards educating and opening our eyes to the knowledge we never thought about. Farmers are mostly wise people, they can tell the time and the season and at such they plan their life base on the knowledge of this time and season, there are days they know it's wrong to sleep so late, there are days its comfortable for them to sleep at will cause the time isn't yet come. There are always the saved produces and crops, unlike many others they don't just eat it all up, they save up so they can plant when the time comes, they save up so they can exchange their produce to currency that would serve a wider range of uses. Farming talks much about patience and hope. Two virtues to life, it can be frustrating to wait, not knowing when it would happen, and this is the reason some people fall out of place, they've waited so long yet not knowing when it would happen, but soon as they can tell when it should be happening, then there is hope, they can wait, they found a reason to keep trying, more like a motivation. A farmer knows the time it should take for each stages of growth and for each stage that comes, they get a sense of fulfillment knowing its happening rightly. When it isn't sprouting out as at when it should the farmer has to go over it again, something has got to be wrong, this tell on the need to have a detailed plan, a laid out plan with specific date to it. In goal setting knowing the specific time you want it done is very key. When a fix time isn't known or set, it'll all be taken with levity, instead make the plan and set the time alongside based on your study, based on your understanding of the operational processes, then when there seem to be any deviation one can go back to verify, so we don't keep waiting and hoping amiss. Saving for the raining day is always a trait for farmers, there are seasons when produce would definitely be at its lowest and there is little or nothing they can do, most of them have learnt the hard way and know they can't afford to make the kind of mistake they once made. Everyone needs to keep eating, keep making sales, keep buying the necessary commodities, but when the season for less outputs comes it wouldn't stop them from being hungry or decrease their need for the basic amenities, all of these must go on and so they need to ensure a way to keep earning. For this reason it's become a good trait to save up and save well, save when there is plenty so that in the time of few, it would be as though nothing changes, it preaches more about the sacrifice of keeping and not consuming it all, take as much as you need and not as much as you want. The little continuous saving today would grow to become that huge amount that'll serve you tomorrow, however whatever you've consumed today is gone and forever extinct, never to return, so saving is not stinginess, its setting this right for the future. Satisfaction comes from knowing we've done what we needed to do in the right time. When there is something to do ensure you do it as at when due, the rain and the sun doesn't wait till whenever we plant for it to come and go, they have their sessions, we are the people to conform to their time table, if you refuse to plant before the rain, then ensure you aren't afraid to plant in the rain. If you refuse to get up early to prepare for work, then ensure you have loads of excuses to keep giving out to authorities. Understanding the times and seasons are paramount to every farmer and so it's a must know to every human, knowing the best time to do it, as there is always a greater rewards in doing the right thing at the right time. Thanks again for reading, Do it at the right time.

Law of Sowing And Harvest pt1 Another magical experience visible on the face of the earth is how something get sown and a greater thing gets harvested. Farmers only know it happens but they can never explain how it all makes sense., they can only explain the biology of how it grows and where it can grow better but they can never tell you why it grows, how something gets planted then dies completely and then comes back to life to start growing again. The law of sowing and harvest is so amazing, it brings hope among patience and endurance, it really teaches a lot. More importantly it's a must know for everybody. Remember I've always said there is a lesson to get from every thing on earth, from the animals, to humans, even natural occurrences, it's wise to patiently study the things you didn't create and see what you can get from it. Just as when our teacher solves an equation for the class, every student should take that methods and study it critically because there is something to learn from it., similarly there is lot to learn from the great maker himself, the act of sowing and harvest are the handiwork of God himself so calm down and study it. We all want the harvest but how many want to plant, planting is one of the needed process alongside the right environment best suited for it. Planting requires a seed, this seeds needs to be kept and preserved if they want to be planted rightly, or else you don't mind it falling on any kind of grounds, which would most definitely not grow cause most of our grounds we step on are now concrete, tiled or wooden, so for you to plant then you must be intentional about keeping your seed, so what seed are you keeping to plant. Your seeds could be your devoted time to study, your seed could be those good gestures you keep exhibiting even without rewards, your seed could be learning a distant language, becoming multilingual. Your seed could be the smiles you keep sharing around to the people around you. Likewise your seed could be your bad characters, your seed can be procrastinating and laziness, your seed could be hurting someone intentionally, whatever it is, however it is, anything you sow has then capacity to bring a multiplied harvest. One sensitive area to pay attention in planting is the area of soiling, where to sow the seeds. You know its isn't because the seeds are bad or it isn't raining that causes an harvest to be limited, its rather mostly from the soil planted in. Everything could be alright, the soil, the climate but when you planted on a wrong soil then be prepared to wait for an extended amount of time and not see any results. There are different soils suitable for different kinds of seedlings to grow under, it's the job of the planter to identify the best suited soil and plant in it. Here again the aforementioned has its application to reality, there are conducive places for us to grow better than others, some persons has changed environment and before they knew it, they had started experiencing a very substantial change in their lives. Also environment meaning our surroundings can also refer to the people and opportunities around us, all this are worth taking close watch of, our association matters a lot as well as our foreseeable opportunities, you can be in a place full of industries or job creation and you are already positive that you would get your self a job as soon as you're ready, but there are places you'll be even the older guys are still searching for jobs, so environment is also key, find the right soil. There are many other things to learn from the farmer aside the planting season, I'll really love to go into deeper terms on farming but I'll save that for another day, however I'll just end this article today with a last point and that would be the close watch the farmer gives to the growing plant, the nature, the trimming, the weeds taking out, the killing to make a better one grow again, all of which tells their story to reality in their different kind of ways., even the abandoning of a space for years for the ground to regain nutrient and the spacing from crops to crops, infact the story of sowing and harvest tell much to life. Harvesting should be the easiest part of them all but it isn't always so. While there are few that can be harvest easily and generally, there are crops that requires special skill set. Not every planter would personally harvest its produces, some would require experts to come help out and this experts have their fair share, he wouldn't say, you didn't plant with me so I can't give you for helping, either in crops or money worth., not everyone can climb a palm tree, not everyone can transform a timber to wood even when they planted the seed, however if they want to enjoy their harvest they must be ready to find the necessary people to help they transform their ripe products to money. This is what I learnt, some of us are so good already, the business guys, lawyers, artist, writers, name them but we aren't yet getting the full worth for our talents and knowledge and that is cause something is missing, sometimes we must align with those people who can make men real men, for example some musicians would keep single and not be famous until they get signed to a good record label, its not really the record label but the technical know how in the record label, cause others have been signed and gone worse, not recognition, no freedom., so aligning with the right person with the right skill to project out your already built skills is paramount to your growth. I alway enjoy writing to you. Thanks to reading again, and if you're a first time reader, you're welcome and I love you.

See More On Actions Than Words Who else falls into this category, an over thinker, whatever happens he keeps pondering and pondering until he feels some kind of way towards it. There are always two ways to a view, how you'll wish to see it and how it is actually, as much as you can choose to view it your way the feeling of how it actually is doesn't reduce, instead it escalates, you'll feel more vexed compared to just accepting it for what it is, accepting the truth earlier has it's way of reducing the effect of the event on you, it's as though it doesn't matter as much as. I'll explain further. Let's site an example from a natural occurrence, a guy trying to ask out a lady, through the process of their constant keeping in touch, the lady keep saying words of hope, words like "its not like I don't want you, there's something I need to take care of first", or "my parents are against it, let's give it time" good and tangible response which sends hope and positivity to the guy and may very well be true, she truly may need time or their parents are against it and she's trying to win them over, but there are others who are doing it so they can still gain from the guy without getting into a relationship with him. Now the actions of the lady would be a clarifying factor, as much as words can be said but actions really tells more, her actions subconsciously and naturally tells where her heart lies, He however can choose to act on the actions or keep believing she would never go against her promises. However its amazing how people no longer take their words that seriously anymore, the integrity of old is losing weight on today's world, so rather than banking on someone else's word, it's also not bad we study actions also. Two young men were promised a position by an uncle and a friend at almost similar time and they had to choose, on getting to the uncle's house they were treated so poorly, as though they were not family, they tried to accommodate the characters moreover they are the ones in need of favour, the friend however was more relatable. It became as though the uncle didn't have anything prepared for them because few days upon staying with him, yet nothing has been said, one said to the other, I think if any position was truly waiting for us, I think by now we should be aware, at least we can plan. The other however refused to think the uncle being a family would toil with their effort, so it shut out the whole idea, there is a position waiting. They've tried talking with their uncle but he said they should be patient and not disturb him meanwhile the offer from the friend is closing, so the other decided to seize the friends offer before it closes, while the other decided to be patient, because the uncles offer has a much higher pay as he promised so he would wait, when he gets the job he woild then go visit his brother and preach to him about patience. Well he has not gotten the job till date, it was a total waste of time, luckily for the brother who has sense the character and quickly ran away from the uncle, apparently the uncle didn't know they had an offer, he was still helping them find an opening and only spoke with assurance that there's a job for them, hoping before they arrived a job would be ready but it never worked as place and he got more pressured cause now they are here in his house, that also contributed to his harsh response. So amidst the situation, amidst the assurance, whoever it is family or friends, I think its important we think on their characters than mere words. Actions that say speaks louder than voice, you may be termed an over thinker but it would help you better prepared cause you'll see it coming before it does. Words can be deceiving, even a facial expression can be deceiving as well as the tone of the voice, they all can be coined as well as actions, however pay attention, the subconscious sets in, there might be some truth to discover for yourself. Thank you Read Cash, thank you everyone. ❤

To What Extent Can A Parent Go? No doubt another magic I've seen on the face of the world, a extra kind of force, a new definition of love, a complete selflessness. For someone who is so self centered and care more for himself while in his or her youth only to become a parent and thus ready to face off with death and not back down. It's as though one has found a true purpose in life, something to live for finally, or in this case someone to live for finally. It makes no sense when you see them outside the confines of family matters, this individuals would still put theirselves first at work, in society even in the neighborhood, however they dont think of theirselves in matters of their kids. I thought for a while it was because we were still young and delicate, as our innocent and heart melting looks might have been the reason for their compassionate care for us, however I grew up to see this love doesn't dissolve with time, even till the children become women and men having separate family the love still stays. Indeed parenting is a lifetime job and the best thing is you'll love it, its one job everyone prays to get, the opportunity to breed a life, and prove to the world that you can cater for those whom God almighty have placed in your care, an opportunity to prove your leadership and family bonds. There are other factors however that can reduce the rate at which this love are expressed, I'll be looking quickly at some reasons why parents love can grow soft on their kids, like you'll just notice that these parents who once went out of their way for their kids are no more putting such tremendous effort to help and guide their kids, what could be the possible reasons behind this. I'm not referring to those strong hearted people who never really did place their kids before theirselves, those are never true parents, they only have a child, I'm referring to the proper parents who truly don't care as much as they originally did anymore. I'm guessing one of the major reason is distance and communication lags, as much as we say distance have little or no effect on parental love but it can differs, often time we've seen people leave the comfort and confines of their parents residence in pursuit for their own lives, however their attitudes during this time apart surely has it influence, as any normal human and any normal parents would hope that the fruits he or she has been growing would someday serve him, now should they notice the fruits has no intents to serve, they gradually lose hope and this can depreciate the extent to which their initial love could go. Adopting new habits or addictions could also reduce the extents, addiction are quite strong on people and you never can tell when someone would get spellbound to an habit. A father in the quest to make enough can get into gambles and game by game he believes more in luck and sinks deeper into the need to play, now it's all he thinks about that one game, that one jackpot, as though he would stop afterwards but it never stops, it's harder than you think, no money is enough, no game is the final game, stop as soon as you know its wrong. Addictions are different, for some its drugs, foods, sex and the likes and this can take the love space of the heart thereby shifting the kids aside. I know no one should expect this next reason but it's TRUE. The world we live in is a magical place and at such there are different magical we see and experience, some are good magic and some dark, to this reason we begin to wonder why a strong love of a parents to his children can be broken or drastically reduced and you may discover that it could be a spell, a curse and to such there is a need for spiritual remedies. For whatever reason best suited to the perpetrators, they can carry out this evil compulsion to change the possible outcome of things to their favour, so my recommendation is to pray, pray and pray to God. This kind of love is selfless, it doesn't matter if the child loves in return or not, they have chosen to love, their hearts have accepted from inception, indeed it's hard to unlove. With these understand we begin to understand the concept of Gods love for us all, he truly is the best father more caring than any earthly father can. Truly we are watched by two great parents the greatest one being our Creator who knows us by name and watches our every steps, and ofcourse the lovely humans through which we came to the world. God bless every good parent out there, your acts of selflessness would surely pay back in the future, love you've sown so a greater harvest of love and care you shall reap in Jesus Name Amen. Thank you for reading this, its always my delight to have you here with me. Have a lovely and productive day.

Explain Again Why You Can't Do It Excuses are never far fetched, if you need an excuse then you'll very much find one and it'll be a good one, a very tangible excuse that most likely get people to reason with you, that notwithstanding the work forgone will remain undone and likely waiting for you till whenever you please to get it done., worst still someone else does it and get the benefits that comes with it. The hardest part often comes with the greater reward cause not many harvester are present at that level. So because of the delicacy we've got more and more people shying away and less people doing the actual work, thereby the cake is shared in bigger portion making the beneficiaries fat. Meanwhile let's not go farther from the topic, why can't you do it, let's look at the possible reasons people don't do what they are supposed to do. Would like to start from the most commonly seen, and thats laziness. More like me knowing that I had to write today but I was so lazy so I keep pushing it until I couldn't write anymore for the day, ofcourse the fact that you're reading this shows I wrote right, but everyone is a victim of laziness, including myself, there are times we dont feel like it and don't want to force it. For most of the solutions we are finding are already thought of, the only thing remaining is the actual going ahead to do it. It isn't that most people don't know what they need to do but doing it has been the issue, but when finally they do it, then they would not know why they haven't done it since, like why delay it so much. Laziness would only bring regrets especially when there are no go reason to procrastinate it, soon you'll feel like time has been wasted doing nothing, so if laziness is the reason then stop it, well people rarely agree that laziness was the cause when most times it is. Trying something new is yet another reason observed, this can still be broken down into other motives, for some its fear of trying something new and it fails, for some its shyness, they don't want the public to start talking about them so they hide and continue what they are already known for. Well for both reasons its resolved when you make up your mind, its not going to be easy and that's why its good you know what the benefits are and gaze your eyes on the benefits, this would propel you to act as the coming benefit would outweigh whatever challenges comes. And the shyness of what attention you'll start recieving, being talked about, the fear of success is indeed another reason, silly to you probably because you'll think who wouldn't love to be successful, well it's not that they are scared to be successful, they are not just emotionally ready for the attention and troubles it bring. Peace is actually missed sometimes at the advent of success, while you may think success brings peace, it isn't always so, some success does, some others get you on guard. And others are just naturally shy and needs to come out of their shell first. Feeling of incompetence is real, especially coming from their past. How the people they've come around with have made them feel and is currently making them feel about theirselves. Some negative people are quite successful at their game of making others think really less of theirselves and such mentality becomes a strong blockade on their path to rising and until they can know deep down that I can do whatever I will to do, then and only then would they break off that chain. Firstly dissociate yourself from people who make you feel incompetent, they are devilish, I resound such act is evil. There are no two ways about that, funny how highly motivated and smart you feel before leaving the house, you have come up with a brilliant plan and then someone else's action is to tell you that it can't be you doing it, and sound so convincing you believe. There are people without talents making it big today all because they believed and worked hard on it. When you believe then you can confidently start whatever process you'll need to fulfill the set goal, but first guard your heart with all diligence, protect what you hear and be mindful of who talks to you. Need not remind you that you can do it and your excuses are very invalid, you're just wasting precious time. Time infact is the only valuable commodity that can never be regain, so why waste it not continuously procrastination and fretting, the people out there are as human as you, are as one headed and one hearted as you, the only difference between you and everyone else is our uniqueness, so no one can outshine you when you bring out your best. Get up sister, up up bro, GO!

Art Of Comparison How do you judge whelter you're doing better or not? When do you its feel ok? Or what ensures you keep chasing after more? We have always shifted focus, it's no longer about a standard, there are no standards anymore, it's all now pure competition and comparing to one another. A man loves his house, he is contended with the size and how it is, until he visits his friend with a much bigger one and suddenly doesn't see his home as okay anymore, he doesn't only want it as his friend has, he wants more. A lady gets dressed for a party, walking down the stairs everyone stands in awe, but on getting to the party, there is her friend looking more beautiful, stealing the attentions, automatically she doesn't feel beautiful anymore. What's the standards for your success? how do you measure your wins or are you just measuring in comparison with the people around you. There's really no words I can type that would prevent you or anyone to stop being in a constant competition with his surrounding people, its actually a norm, though some who have learn to correct it, some have learnt not to care so they turn a blind eye, but its really hard. Simply because we only feel ourselves, so our emotions towards others are purely fictional, we can't really feel them, so why not feel what they feel for ourselves, why not feel what the king feels for yourself, so they love to seat on the kings throne also. The dangers however is being blindsided to the process it took. Mostly we are overwhelmed by the finished work so we set our mark on that, regardless of what it took for him to get there and so it can be frustrating, indeed it may not be easy and possibly a waste of precious time. Your car is the dream of so many of your friends but as soon as another friend of you're buys a bigger car and everyone shifts the celebrations and hailing to him, you feel less in your car and suddenly start envisioning changing your ride for a bigger one and this sudden need would alter others plans that may end up procrastinated or totally forgotten. Contentment is a virtue, anyone that truly possess it would live the best of life, remember the human wants are insatiable, it's never satisfied nor fulfilled yet we have a limited time to spend living, and for as long as our needs are mostly from our Comparison with people then we would never run out of things to acquire. For how long do we want to keep comparing rather than focus on ourselves and see what we should really be doing, so we can start laying budget base on fulfilling destiny and purpose, there is more fulfillment in knowing we are growing and it's our personal race. Oh yes there are advantages to comparison, I'll be lying if I say there isn't, but it should be the possession or habits worth lonning after. Better we be comparing ourselves with people who are in the place we pray to be, people we look up to, it's good and even advisable we emulate and try to be like them cause they are up and trying to meet up with them would only mean growth and personal development, you see its quite different from comparing with someone who would add no impact to your life just trying to prove a worthless point. There is a bridge from comparing to jealousy, and that is another side effect to be worried about. What makes this mode of comparison bad is that we can't tell the people we are comparing ourselves to that we are looking on to them, no rather we intend to hoard and hide our emotions so they won't suspect a thing., this slowly creeps into jealousy and possibly hatred especially when the person keeps increasing and making it visually impossible for you to meet up with is standing. But when it's a fair and harmless comparison, you could easily identify with the person or even be happy for his growth. We compare ourselves a lot with others and that lays unnecessary pressures on us, we can do better by setting our standards for ourselves. There is nothing wrong with using a human as a standard but ensure he or she is worth it., and we may never know if the person is worth it or not until you hear it from the horses mouth. We always see the visible and bearable sides to all stories, they don't show us the struggle, the fights, the embarrassments and every hurdles they did face and are facing currently, all we see is the beautiful face and glorifying possession and we want it to, little we know about what we are diving into. Simply put, be careful with comparison, take your time to plan your life and clear your own path using the right maps.

Booking A Date To Explore My Fantasies Looking through my calendar for that perfect date I can set aside to explore all that has been on my head, the date has to be perfect in that everything needed for the experience to be epic has to be in place, things like I have to be free, I have to have sufficient money to cater for all expenses, things like tagging along the perfect person to share such beautiful moment with, it's so going to be a date I'll be remembering for the longest time, I've got to have it all figured out. I'm no event planner but this time out with myself has to go right, it's more serious than all meetings I've attended put together. Its for me. What then are the fantasies I wish to explore, where do I want to go, what would I love to do, with whom would I like to get such an experience with, how much of money would I need to save up for such experiences, afterwards what time would be the best time to go on this vacation. There are a lot of places and I can think of a million things I'll love to do, many of which entails food, yes most of my time out would capture me eating different kinds of food, almost at all times would there be something in my mouth, if not drinks I'll be sipping, I plan on getting fat that day, I'm so slim now., don't tell me its impossible. I would love to have a lady by my side, no not family, family would always have a funtime with me anytime and everytime, but I don't know how to lie to myself, the mood I'll like to experience on that day has got to be a different realms of thrilling, i would be myself a 100 percent, family tagging on this journey with me would get me coordinating myself cause that's me, I take family serious, you won't see me misbehave at home, I have younger siblings that I caution, I won't break my years of arranging and putting things right to make them free to misbehave at home. Don't bring your dirty characters home, drop them outside. Most probably she'll be a very good friend. The love of my life most preferably, my fiancee most most pleasurable, cause I wouldn't like having such an amazing experience with someone I wouldn't like to remember because I'm heart broken, you see this love of a thing is a crazy thing, the one you love so much is just in a thin line from being hated so much, it's all from a place of wanting to know how they truly feel about you and not playing the cards all along. Safely I should have taken a family or a no strings attached friend right, but if I do so I'll only be lying to myself and that spoils the whole fun from the very beginning. From the morning to the sunset to the dark nights, even to my unconsciousness while asleep, everything counts, everything have got to be an experience, I'll probably be sleeping differently than I've done all my life, I'll do things differently than I've done all my life, I'll eat what I love though, yes I'll try out new delicacies but I'll also be eating what I know and I love, I won't want to be running to the rest room more often than I spend having fun, so on the area of what I eat and drink I'll be quite selective. Well it's almost inevitable that I visit the toilet cause as I said earlier, I'd be eating a lot, I mean a lot. As you can see I'll be needing a lot of money for this, so much money that If i should get now I won't be thinking of the vacation anymore rather I'll be thinking of what business to do or how best to make this money multiplied. Of course, I know you thought I was ready for the vacation already, yes I'm ready but a lot has to be done first, we keep working for that perfect date, I might be flying across countries to fulfill this desires, maybe when I get to your country we can see and connect, then I would try some of your local dishes, please be careful not to give me any food I'll regret, thanks. Everyone deserves a day out of pure fun and joy, I believe family should also be a constant beneficiary of this enjoyment especially when its done frequently, however we must accept the fact that we have to pleases that desire inside of us to let out our inner fire, family in that picture most times doesn't cut it, so I'll rather go alone or with my lover with home I can be crazy with. Its important I do this, its therapeutic, self creating a memory I'll always look back to and be happy I took that step. Plan out a day solely for yourself and enjoy yourself.

Jungle Rules Of Life How many people truly care about you, like genuinely are selfless with you, are you very sure that there are no ulterior motives to their kind gesture, cause I believe nobody likes any form of disturbance or pestering. You and I would like to have our way everytime, the reason for our sanity and kind nature are basically because of the love of God or the consequences of disobeying the law of the society. That friendly neighbor doesn't mind adding your money to his cause he feels like he needs it more, or just need to be better than you, and you likewise feel the same, deep down life is a jungle. I wonder why people get so down on betrayal, like they thought that person would not take advantage of them when they saw the opportunity, we need to start understanding that some people don't have this obedience that a few of us have, they really don't care and are not bothered, for someone like you who is good in nature, you either love God so well to keep his commandments which in turn would offer a good living standard, or you're trying to not disobey the law which also was made to adjust our living standards rightly, but some people dont care, they don't fear God and don't care about the laws, or they don't care about either of them. So how do you expect them to be like you, some individuals view life as a jungle and are ready to devour you If you lay as a prey for them. The government preys on the innocent masses, the employers preys on the employees, the rich continues to extort from the poor, even you that has just been giving a high position, you've already start cutting and eating off the ignorance of the people under you, this is the regular order of the day, you would even appear as a fool when you choose not to partake, it's hard to stay good in this jungle world, the bad ones are living the best lives, you would like to join. Its enticing isn't it, if only it were a good way to make a living then everyone would love to do it, we are only scared, some people aren't, the pay is good and they can do whatever they like whenever they like and you'll just hope to be like them, enticing really. Imagine going to the club and you're not recognized or respected, how do you feel, actually you know what can make you recognized, it's easily spelt out but would you do it is the problem, are you financially capable to spend that huge amount in one night and get treated like a king, yet you wish you can be treated as a king, so yes it's very enticing, but your fear for God and law wouldn't let you. When the bible says fear the lord you God, that's God telling us to fear him, most people wouldn't understand, he is our father and I don't fear my earthly father so we would have prefer that he told us to love him rather than fear him, well if we truly know him then fearing him wouldn't be an issue to start with, imagine being alone in the middle of an ocean so big, no land visible with huge tides and waves, I bet you would die of fear, but this frightening sight to behold was made by him easily, he makes the full earth his foot stool, lets not go to the intimidating image of the Angel's and the scary elders around his throne, hey he wouldn't have to tell you to fear him, you would be scared effortlessly, however he is for us, our creator and father so that calms us. So this fear of God is a consolation to every good person out there thinking if there is a gain to the life they are living, I bet to tell you that they are making the best decisions of their lives. Life is as a jungle yet we shouldn't conform to living it as animals, no care for emotions, anybody that crooses your path you're immediately thinking of how to take advantage, chase to the kill. The greed of a human is never satisfied, we are constantly looking for more, you'll need more than your words to stop such nature, you'll need the help of the fear of God or the fear of nature, or preferably the both. Some societies have gone so bad that they don't fear the law anymore, maybe a few of them still have the fear of God but they don't care what anyone would do to them, so you see crimes and bad schemes happening on a daily basis and unfortunately the police and other law enforcing bodies can't do anything about it and so they continue to spread and more and more people keep switching to the bad side of the society as apparently there is money there as well as freedom from any punishment, they neglect the fear of God causes it appears God won't speak to them about it, little are we aware God is the main fear we must have. The final judge. So if I'm going to apply the jungle rule, the best solution for me is to be within the clans of the strongest, and just like e animal kingdom where the strongest is the dominant one., likewise here, only that the strongest don't look like the strongest In the eyes. Being good and obedient to the law is being within the strong, and most importantly obedience to God is aligning with the most powerful, so its clearly seen that being a good person even in a jungle world as this. Keep caring and keep being a good Citizen. It's a new week and I hope you have the best of start and a productive week altogether. Life is Magical.

Address Your Thoughts Effectively Recently I was talking with a very close friend and she was trying to explain to me how she was feeling sad but nothing bad has happened, like she just got conscious to the fact that her mood wasn't right yet she doesn't know any obvious reason for that because nothing bad happened. Well something has to be the cause, just as a law of motion that express that a body would stay at rest unless an external force is acting upon it, similarly your thoughts wouldn't switch from good to bad or vice versa unless something has propelled it to, and more often this propellers are from our thoughts. If you really want to feel good then you think good, if you want to feel sad then you think sad, the mind can generate it's own atmosphere with just thinking at a particular direction, imagine watching a movie, lets say the movie expresses a character that tackles difficult situations, trying to portray that he is very intelligent and find a way through everything, loving this movie does something to you, you immediately see your self in that position and feel you're smart enough to tackle obstacles, even if you were getting things wrong, then you wouldn't see your shortcomings and you feel like you're as good as you just saw, and all your aura depicts confidence. Such person can walk on the street feeling like Kyle xy, I can recollect the numerous times I felt like I can take on anyone simply because I just saw a Jackie chan movie, I just thank my stars that I didn't jump off a building after seeing the spiderman movie, all I'm saying is this, because we have seen something and it captures our attention we dwell on it, the longer time we spend dwelling on such things increases the chances of it affecting our mood, so nothing really happens from nothing, if you can't any possible reasons as to my your mood is the way it is currently, then you might just need to reflect on what you might have seen. One occurence that often propels a bad mood especially in this age of social media is when you're reminded of someone or something you really don't like or you don't feel good about. Imagine not liking someone, someone that gets you upset to your stomach and then you see their post of them having a nice time, automatically unless you want to act fake you'll feel bad, and if you can't take it off your mind real quick you might see it changing your mood and you might not remember that was the cause because you saw it few days or hour ago. Many other reasons to this also. Guide your thoughts, address your thoughts, think on your thoughts, to a large extent it helps, truthfully how it helps us reevaluate ourselves, imagine noticing you're jealous, of course jealousy is normal and it's one of the common mood changer, and since it's you alone to your thought then there is no need denying it, you'll see clearly that you're jealous and you would easily find your way to correct that. See reasons why you shouldn't feel that kind of way and it's mostly be seeing your own advantages and raise your self esteem, boom you're back and better, you've just tuned back your mood by addressing your thoughts. Intentionally going for good funtime is nice, you'll need such memories to keep you smiling soon, the more good time we can experience, the more good memories we store and this in turn would assist in our mood adjustments. Often time I hear of mood swings, especially the ladies, yes the ladies often talk on mood swings and we are gradually accepting it as a society norm, I really don't know if there are any biological reason for that, maybe they were created and something is resident in the females to constantly cause mood swing, I would I've said it should be during their menstrual circle but that's not it, even when all is fine some still have this swing, men also have it too. So I'm picking memories over any biological reasons, there is something they got reminder about and this is the reason for the frequent mood swings, because life comes with its own challenges then I can confidently say everyone has got their own mood swings at one time or the other, and some can't even think that its because they just remembered something that happen 2 years ago or way beyond that, the longer they ponder on it the longer it'll influence their mood, and this mood in turn influences our response to the present, and that's why we've got to be careful, so we don't use the past to stain the present or even the future. In my more recent article I express why we need learn, more like we were created to learn and with that we should see that there are more to us than we are conscious about, and so we need to constantly learn how to be our best self, knowing how to seize control of your thoughts and mood alike would definitely help in your dealing with life matters, some times we don't need our sad moments to interfere with that million dollar business transaction, and some times we don't need our good mood and over excitement to make us disrespected, so there is a right mood for an occasion, we need to be in charge of our mood per time. I'm really excited you took time to read this article, have yourself a blissful weekend. Much love ❤.

We Came Here To LEARN Its extremely astonishing to see people do amazing things, I'm so amazed like how can you play keyboard so well, how can you talk so captivating, how can you be so smart, how did you guys erect such amazing structures, a lot of crazy things happening in our world, great people everywhere and yet it appears like they are created separately from everybody else, like they were sent to earth specifically to do it and so they were born with the gift, well that so wrong, for everything anybody would be and can be it all has to be learnt, it all begins with the early process of learning, the learning phase can never be excluded. Everybody knows that skill or ability they hope to posses, for me whenever I see people play an instrument so well I'm always amazed, I'll really love to be that good someday, the sooner I realized that nobody was born into a skill and that person I envy currently because he can play so well was at some time a novice like me, but he took the extra effort to go and learn and overtime he became the expert he is today, he wasn't born with the gift, he developed the passion for it and work through the process and that has brought him where he is today. I also can do the same and so I started my process and yes today I can say there are vivid changes. I don't know how true it is to say that people are brought with a gift, even magic I feel its learnt, gifts like singing, dancing, or even a good thinking ability, I feel all of this were learnt, emphasis on the word "I feel" because I have seen and heard of people who were once shunned and stopped from singing because they sounded so off now being celebrated and even awarded, I'm yet to see anyone come out to say from when I was very young I can throw a backflip, I can sing so excellently well, maybe they discovered they found it easier to do than others nevertheless they spent time to learn further. I'll always pick hard workers before those who feel they were born into the gift. Firstly because they were not born into the gift, it was a wrong statement, and it shows they can be more relaxed because they feel they can just get up and do it, while the hard worker is not going to rest until he has practice and practice enough to get it. Because growing up my family were good dancers, and so people already expected me to be good dancer cause my older siblings were good, and yes I am good but it's not because I was born with a dancing gift, rather because I grew up in the environment of dancers and I loved it so I had the passion and the opportunity to learn, though unknowingly I was learning, yet I learnt. We all have equal time frame, but not equal opportunities to learn and that is what bring about the difference, some people would have loved to be doctors today but growing up they didn't get a good biology teacher to teach them well and so they couldn't pass the examination needed for them to be admitted into the school of medicine, some others have got good teachers but they are not opportune to be in a conducive environment as they are encompassed with too much distractions and so they can know it for themselves and likewise they can successfully pass the tests, if you can learn and become good then definitely there are some factors to your favour or your determination was strong enough to push through. We came here to learn, the earth is full of different needs and diverse solution providers needed for its survival, what we were truly sent to do here on earth is to learn, for everything existant today had a working process to it, after much try and errors, when its finally derived they still have to learn the process to arriving there next time to avoid try and errors anymore, afterwards people have to start learning for such ideas to keep spreading, so inasmuch as it may start as a one man's invention, yet learning much happen afterwards and that one man who invented it also did learn, there are things he must know before hand to help him achieve this set goal, learning is key. So what is it that you really want to know, do you like how someone can do your makeup so well especially as a lady, do you know you can learn it to. Your boy loves messi and christiano Ronaldo, he wants to be like them, does he know that he can someday play like them, he need practice. Are you in school and really want to an engineer but your grades are not looking like it, do you now know there's no stopping you as long as you can dedicate yourself to more learning, whatever you love but still feel like you can do may just became a lie, would you give it a shot, cause that passion you have is enough to get you learning and by learning you're already on your way to getting it. One great thing about learning is that it brings with it value and this value are exchanged for money. Money doesn't and wouldn't just fall on anyone, he mostly would be attracted by the skill, when you are around a place of value then your going to get your values worth. And value is the fruit of a good learning, good learning because it's not only by being in a classroom we learn, in fact many are just students but not learners, learning is a conscious act, you've got to be intentional about it to begin and end the race. You can learn whatever you want, we came to earth to learn, learning is a true magical act.

Alas We Are Only Human Do you sometime feel the need to be extraordinary, a different kind of being, not this regular mortal being that's only living to die someday, not this regular fleshly body that is receptive to the feel of pain and hurts, not this normal limited human in which there are limit to our strengths and capabilities, not this regular brain that has to study to know, can't I just know everything even without having to know about it, more like a born encyclopedia. I bet we have all felt that kind of way sometime especially that moment we are face with a difficulty and we can't do anything to help the situation. Alas we're human so we should relax sometimes, its essential we rest, there are somethings beyond our powers and so we just have to pray and watch. The fact that we are only human is the base reason why religion had to intervene into our lives, the need for a supernatural force to help us when need be. We call it a miracle in christianity, some call it magic, some others terms it as an illusion and try to show scientific reasons why it happened so you don't go believing there's any force that can bring the extra to us since we can't be the extra all by ourselves. Truthfully, though we are only humans, it would take more that our regular human abilities to survive and comfortably live through this world, its no news that we are constantly and regularly faced with one or two things to deal with, if not anything serious but the bills alone are there to pay and they are constantly coming. Not to talk of getting by day in and out, all this are the norms of the society, however more than this are also evidently found in the society at large, and people keeps being bothered and stress over what they are facing, indeed we all need more than a human to help. Firstly acknowledgment of the fact that we are only human and we can't be any more nor less than a human we send us thinking on the right direction. Then also knowing that we are in need of a force, a power that is better and stronger than the regular human also pushes us towards the right direction. Its often seen as though who only rely on their strength can't be a contender against those who are helped by a stronger helper, its is simply the order of standard working process, so who is standing by you, what ladder are you using to step above the regular humans., because to outgrow the opportunities and possibilities of a human, you'll need the help of Higher power, best be your maker God himself. Alas we are human also describes that none is above mistake and all should be forgiven. Yes I know that sorry doesn't always cut it, to some cases a simple and sincere sorry would do the healing and repairs, but not for some cases, some really hurtful. Nevertheless, we are only human so please forgive me. Well I'm not here to say if the aforementioned quote is a valid statement to say apologize or it's just a coverup for people to gain the soft spot of their offender, that would only the determined by the nature of the people involved. But yes Alas we are all human and that Is a fact. Its also a call to be humble, cause someday we all must die, so before you go out living like you have 9 lives, it'll remind you to be careful and trade cautiously. When people are luring you into the den of wickedness, you'll remember that just human we are and we are here for only an appointed time after which comes judgment, so its paramount we live right. You're only human so be careful, be guarded. Another use for the quote is a call to relax and take life easy, to rest, sleep and just believe for better even when there's no laid out plan for better to surface. All would be well is a slogan well suited for this I guess. So live rightly, be cautious, and to living a better life always connect to the highest authority, its only a higher power than can carry you to that point that was never dreamt of. So it's a good thing indeed, our creator is actually the most powerful yet the most friendly help you can need. Be cautious and careful to live right. Alas you and I are only humans, we can only enjoy our living as humans, and I strongly believe no body would want to change being a human for any other creature, so you see being a human may have it's own limitations but we are still the best and most equipped beings on the full planets. So Enjoy yourself. Here we are again. Thank you for engaging this post. God bless.

Humans And Lies The regular human is by all means stubborn and wanting to do that which he or she is mandated not to do. The moment you tell a person to resist from an action, that's the exact moment is mind is being drawn closer to that action, we would have realized that most of the things we do aren't as exciting as we thought it would be, what makes it so thrilling is knowing that we are doing something sneaky and wrong, almost like an adventure, no wonder we get bored easily when there are no one to stop us anymore, however we can't always afford for them to learn their lessons, we often don't have that time to spare. In our relationship with someone, anyone, could be a spouse, business associate, family, friend, there are flexibility to what and how long our tolerance can last, for some roles are more sensitive than others and so what could be bearable for one may not be accepted in another or permit me to say "should not be accepted in another. A quick example is your sister lying to you or betraying you, what can you do, it's most likely that you understand why she did what she did, even when she's wrong, the chances of forgiving her is very high, even when she's unapologetic, it has been in your mind to let it all go, you care more for her than your ego, but a man you're in business with, one you want to entrust your money with? Most likely that is the end of the alliance, whatever business you both may be thinking of doing could as well just end cause you've realized this man is not trustworthy and you can't guarantee the safety of your money's worth return. Many employees don't get the chance to apologize nor get back their job after a mess up, it's off you go, it really doesn't matter if they are repentant or not, most business owners have learnt never to mixed business with emotions so they just do the right thing for the sake of their business sustenance. However people operate differently, especially since there is a mandate from our lord Jesus to forgive 70 x 7, and another in a prayer from that say, "Forgive our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us", with this true believers which are rapidly increasing in numbers by the day are learning the act of a second chance and forgiving, and luckily this can include bosses of companies, spouse, friends, siblings, so after you must have hurt them, there they are again trying to forgive and welcome you again, all this truly makes the world a better place, well until the person forgiven does same thing all over again. You see there lies the issue, the fact that someone can be forgiving and does the same thing over again and expects you to be good again, I really don't know how people turn a blind eye to this after hurting them consistently, I believe they should get an award to that effect, cause personally I feel it's high time you adjust and draw far away, if someone can hurt you after an apology for over three times, there is no guarantee that they won't hurt you more bitterly soon, just hope their next line of action is recoverable, because it hurts more to see that someone you've constantly forgiving is putting you in a bad position you can't get up from, mind you humans can be heartless. Many don't want to accept and its understandable, but even the good book says the heart of a man is desperately wicked, some sweet relationship has ended so badly, it would have been best they didn't cross path, and this is often because they can coexist even while they both hate each other. Some mood comes and go, but when the wrong mood comes it often leaves more devastating than the repairs the good mood brings. It's also caused from being able to coexist when you're yet lying to his or her face, that's one good ability we possess as humans also, the capacity to lie and still sleep next to each other, unapologetic, not concern. Well all I'm saying is do right, I feel it's a distinct ability to be wrong and not care staying wrong especially when it hurts another, its simply magical, it should be cautiously countered by good, by the intentional act to be good. Humans are naturally attracted to doing bad, I mean is a dark world already, and wrong is celebrated as though its right, however we are aware of good and bad, and wrong and right likewise, so it then becomes our responsibility to choose, as we know there is an eternal benefit to our actions, as much as there is an eternal consequences to our wrong actions, so we are heading somewhere at the end of the day, so do right. Good we find forgiving people, we may not find also, that notwithstanding its best we uphold integrity and truth as though it's our identity, this way we can preserve useful relationships and avoid having to constantly apologize and be mistrusted. Once again be good, there is good in being good. Thank you for reading through today, stay magical.

Mostly We Pay For Ignorance Than Value It might interest us to know that most of the reasons we part away with our hard earned money isn't always for the value we require, more often than not it is for our ignorance. There are times we spend on value and that's is relatable, in this case we aren't cheated to spend higher than its true worth, but the moment people see that you're ignorant of the item or value of the services they tend to charge you higher, you'll be amazed how much gain people have incurred from rendering services that originally cost them almost nothing, this is part of the simple reasons why knowledge is key, there are deeper reasons why ignorance is dangerous. One funny incidence that has always remained with me is one time I went to the market with my mom, before now I had gone to purchase this same item at a regular price, so I thought, so going there I already expected that we would spend the regular old amount. On getting there as soon as they saw I mean my mother and the seller they began to exchange pleasantries, as soon as mom asked for that item I got the shocker of my life, it was just slashed double, I've been buying it for over triple the price, I shouted in complain but she was just laughing, mine was better she said there are young men who pay more than 5 times the price, their ignorance is our gain. How knowledgeable are you to the things you need, I don't mean we should start going about a market trying to get the cheapest price, if life was essentially about a market then it's ok but fortunately its not, there are other key areas we need to get knowledge so we won't be cheated as we would get our due dividends. We can only earn as much as we offer and we can only offer as much as we know, so likewise I could also day that we can only earn as much as we know, what then do you how? How well do you know? Most importantly what do you know. It takes a lot of people years to discover wealth has been laying next to them all this while. A friend met with a long time friend of his who was a very good painter, however he has been painting regularly for little cash, his gigs were the regular need for a painter so he hasn't really made so much to feel like this profession would offer a lot, until a friend of his came in and saw his craft, this friend recently travelled back to the country, where he was coming from he was in a place where people made huge sum from paintings and drawings and had a few contacts, after a long discussion he contacted his friends and they exchanged ideas, most if his paintings started getting demanded and imported, he built a gallery house for exhibition. When recently he was asked what happened, did he get better at his craft, was it because he improved on his craft, that he is so big on the market now? Of course there is always a need for improvement, if you don't improve then you can't survive in a world of competition, you may never top your game or be ready incase of opportunities whenever it comes, so everyone should improve, yes but if you're asking what makes the difference now, really it isn't because of the improvement, a little knowledge has been added from before and now, I had already improved on myself while I was working for little pay, up until I got exposed. There were ways to earn that he never thought possible, he got exposed and helped in the process to getting to where he is, and likewise he is helping talents gain more ground and improve their income cause the world has enough for everyone of value. However one can be very good but ignorant of what to do with such abilities so he stays, and another could not be nearly as good as him but his aware of the things to do and so earns more, so more than improving which is important, we must seek the wisdom to push our abilities to the possible heights of opportunities available, however if we don't search or helped we may never discover such opportunities. Ignorance is never an excuse, but knowledge doesn't come on it own either, so how then do we ensure we don't regret not getting as much as we should, probably by networking, trying to research for possible potentials that our handiwork offers as well as meeting people who could serve as a ladder to the heights we hope to attain. Ignorance isn't just for income and earnings alone, there is ignorance to life facts. Real life knowledge like the food we eat that are the reasons for illness, or the food we should be eaten that we aren't, the right dosage and drugs, if our environment is as it should be, even in relationships, to study If that patner is truly the one or not, it cuts across every spheres of life, seeking knowledge can never be exhausted, if paramount we search into all things, especially the sensitive areas of life. Once again I appreciate you time spent to read. Keep gaining knowledge, knowledge in itself if Magical.

Feed Me Information Another Natural magic is the use of information to transform ones life, we can only get as much as we know, the information a man is exposed to is a determinate of where he would step into. What brings about the difference in two people, be it their appearances, or their financial ratings, or their dishing out of knowledge is all as a result of the information they have, so get information, information has a magical influence, it works so superb, intact the reason why some acts looks like magic to you while someone else is not fascinated about it because they can either do it also or are aware of the method of working is all in their exposure to information. You really want to experience swift increase then align with people with the right information. There's is something he knows that you don't know that earns him as much and you only aren't aware of such yet. Just as its popularly said "when your friends are foolish you just became the next foolish person, but when you roll with wise friends you automatically become the next wise person, I paraphrased, actually so true, you can never imagine the number of people who have their lives going the way it is presently, either good or bad just because they got a certain information. A dull boy was going to school and his parents were concerned that his grade would be so bad, he might just be wasting their money, nevertheless their child needs to be educated and so what do they do, knowing fully well that they can't transplant another brain into their child, which of course the brain is hardly ever the issue, the main issue behind failing among others is when one is not competitive enough, however what they did was to expose the boy firstly to understanding what it takes to come out on top of a class, so they paid the parents of one of the apparently bright boys to allow their son stay over for a while. Subconsciously he had known the daily routine of that student, how he reads, what he does, hobbies, his character deep down, time management even to his sad moments and a lot of perspective have gradually begin to change, someone he had thought was so extraordinary is now appearing as mere human, this helped to show that it's not impossible for him also to be great, as long as this guy can do it then why won't I, apparently he saw himself as never going to be there as though every topping the class were all geniuses. So it good he grasps that information off the long stay as it would later help it. He had thought his parents sent him there to become friends with the bright student so they can assist each other, another reason people thought of was that the parents wanted him to see that there was nothing special in anybody and as long as he reads he can surpass anyone. Well it was quite a different reason. As soon as the new calendar session was about to begin the parents transferred him to a new school and said nothing, now this young man is in a new environment studying as though he is starting afresh. Now he wasn't going to let history repeat itself, this a new people they can't insult him for being dull here also. This difference this time was he wasn't only determined to try harder, he already knew what he was going to do to bring about the change he wanted. The information as to what makes a person top a class was already with him, he had learnt it via associating and living with a bright guy, funny how we was eager for test to be conducted, we had never seen him so eager for a test, rather he prays the day never comes. But having implemented all he has seen and subconsciously learnt, he noticed he was ready and was going to shock his family and friends, he really wanted to surprise everyone, he knew he would and oh yes he did. Up until when he was much older and was in the university, his father sat with him and told him the secret behind what he did for him and to him. He was dull not because he could not read, not because they were all bright people in his class, rather he was lacking the information that makes a person intelligent, he had to first get the information, that's what he can use, it was clear advices and sanctions were not doing enough, he had enough reason to want to change, cause of the insults of his peers and family sanctions, yet he still couldn't do better, there was a barrier, those people around him were already demoralizing him cause they already believed he his dull and his will isn't strong enough to fight through their conclusion. Yes, first got the information as to what makes a person top his class, then create an environment for change to be effective, then give a good reason to try, he really tried to prove a point to his mockery, his family and friends and that was a source of motivation for him to do all what he learnt, and it work. So can we get the needful information first, then see how we can get into the right atmosphere for change to be effective. Yes you read again, I appreciate you and I love you. Have a blessed day.

Why Is It Hard To Accept The Truth? Its often said that the truth shall set you free but when you see the reactions people give from getting the truth you'll realize it'll have all been better should the truth not be told, a lot of these fuss and banter would have been prevented should you have concealed the truth or at least just lie. I've slowly realized that people just want to hear what they hope to hear they are not ready for anything else, I said slowly because it took me time to realize this fact, most people really aren't ready for the truth, their mind can't take it and so it breaks them. Yes, of course it's better you tell them the truth cause it's the right thing to do but then the reactions are often unpleasant and regretable. Who Is a strong man, who can deal with whatever the case maybe, its really not by strength nor by position, it's by the building of the mind, to accepting even the toughest of cases. Many people still have their fears, their fears still remains in a room without lights and they are scared to even address the issue, how they how it wouldn't be the subject to be treated one day, eventually the world spins towards that direction and we all have to face our fears, the question then is how prepared are you to fearing your fears, to hearing the truth, do you know what to do, have you a plan to deal with it. I've knowingly drawn a line between fear and truth, and this is most truths that people are scared to bear are truths they dread. For example a blackmailer has it coming soon, all through the times he or she has been enjoying freedom, there have been this side of truth that always want to interfere with their present, as they sit quietly, slowly the memory of their wrong springs up and they are quick to shut out that thought so that they wouldn't deal with the possibility of things coming to light, the day of reckoning is always approaching and no wrongs have yet been successfully hidden without its seeds germinating. They surely would be amazed when their fear catches up with them, you can literally see the confusion, the hope that this dreamlike situation would simply end, but it doesn't right. Someone might have been preparing their mind for the future, maybe not someone by a mere thought whispering the truth into his or her ears but they choose to ignore, scared to dwell in the thought of it. There are another class of people who are rarely taken unawares, it's almost like they expected anything and are prepared for anything, you'll wonder at their degree of calmness when others are yet confused. Basically they aren't scared to dwelling on the truth. I always say this, that for everything coming there is a possible sign, its just that's most time we refuse to see and believe especially when trust is involved. Trust in it's way gets us scared to think on the truth, when it should be the other way round actually, if you really trust a thing or someone then you shouldn't be scared to think about the bad of the thing, its good you believe but then proof yourself right by testing out the bad. But most times trust often doesn't make us think and plan ahead, and so when the unexpected happens there they are crying as though they were blinded all through. We often see this in relationships. Just as I was explaining there are those people who are rarely taken unawares, they think through all possible truth, they aren't scared of hearing the truth, they aren't scared of thinking deep about the truth, they aren't sacred of dwelling in the truth, at least they see and experience the truth then they determine if they want to make it their truth or totally discard it or better they just pend it and observe more carefully. Imagine being in a relationship and you notice some behavioural changes from your patner, and your mind is telling you something is off and your partner might be doing some wrong, judging by the time and investment into that relationship some may be scared to accept this truth and find a plan for it., however others won't. In the coming future one would be totally heartbroken and devastated while the other would still appear as the winner as though he or she knew it was coming and has dealt with it way longer before now. However both individuals got same signs, same truth but one was scared to accept and the other wasn't. It doesn't mean the truth is true, it's just a observation that could be fact or mere thoughts. If you haven't read and your mind keep telling you that you cant pass this exam, you could choose not to listen to that thought or choose to listen and find a way out of it. All I'm trying to make you see is that we shouldn't be scared to think on the bad, the unpleasant and the unwanted, think on all things, it'll help you plan better. So grateful you could take time out to read. You guys are lovely. Keep being good, keep playing smart.

Do You Tell Your Friends The Bitter Truth How many people around you can tell you the truth however it may be, I'm not taking about the insensitive friends, I'm talking on those who would tell you how a matter is and make you see things from a different angle you originally weren't seeing. I feel we all need truthful guys around us, we need truth to set us free, we need truth to move ahead in life and many a times the truth to uncover a particular notion or event might just be with a friend, would they be kind enough to call your attention to it, or would they just ignore, moreover it's not their life, so why should they be so bothered about. If you friend was to get married to a guy or lady whom you know to not living a committed life, would you at least try to know that your friend is aware or you just let them jump in. What would a parent or family do? They have no reason to see you destroyed, they are aware that your rising is also their rising as you all are bounded by love, so they can't see you destroy that future you've all been building for the longest time coming because of someone else, because of love, no way they would try their best to alert you or likely spoil such union. So why is your friend keeping silent about it. My issues with friends that don't rescue their friends with the truth is much later when the truth has unfolded under natural circumstances, then you'll see them come out to say their bid, probably start spilling their experiences to try and advice, it's so painful. As much as I understand that sometimes it could be them scared of how their friends response would be, sometimes they aren't sure so they just discard, however no matter what as a friend make attempt to rescue a friend with the truth, if you aren't sure then try to confirm, don't just fold hands. Opinions however isn't necessary to talk about, as its uncertain and just a hunch, however if such opinions are quite convincing, probably based on past similar expectations, then it can be chipped in but as friendly and harmless as possible, there's nothing wrong with advising and discussing matters with your friend, no one knows anything for certain, as humans we are all blinded to the future, we are only aware there's a possibility for the next day however what it holds, none can say. So chat your convincing opinion on the table at least there's something to learn from it. Those blunt truthful friends are annoying, yes they sometimes speak with so much confidence so yes they can be very annoying, yet very essential in everyone's life, they are not afraid of us and so they can say it just the way it is, you can do what you wish with the information. Well I feel that is part of the definition of friendship, two people not scared of each other, they are open and free to each other attention and desires, so yes they should be able to tell you the bitter truth in the best possible way to get you understanding it. Just as your long time friend should know the class and spec of a lady or guy you admire, there are more things they know about you also, things like how to pass down an information to you well enough to get your attention and get you acting on it. So should a need arise when someone need to talk you out of a place or someone you already made up your mind about, people can be rest assured that your friend would pass it down across in the best possible way. Most times we've seen family taking more action than talking, but a friend would do more of the talking than actions, so friends are best in resolution but among our friends we are need the blunt straightforward friend. Individually we should see the importance of taking our friends out of harm's way whether it affects us or not, the definition of true friendship is revolving around love and helping together, so whoever we claim to be friends with we have an obligation to love and help them. However be emotionally intelligent to follow the best approach to suit the person in question., who best but our friend and family who are not scared of us rather love us so much to see us harmed or disappointed, it doesn't matter how bitter and embarrassing the truth is, they would find a way to tell you. I'm grateful to everyone reading this article, I say a big thank you, let's all learn to say the truth and set our friends and family free.

Now We Young Do it, this is the power stage of our lives and so it makes no sense to wait for later., in the normal order of things now is the right time and we better seize it as soon as possible, however not just running into it, a lot of learning has to be done already, inasmuch as we must get started now it's most paramount to know that we must first give time to learning, in fact I'll say learning is the first step to take. Life is grouped into categories, there was a time in our lives that we wanted to grow up so bad, we were treated like minors and yes couldn't do much, all our desires remained desires as long as we were young and dependent, now that we have grown what have we done. Even as we have been waiting to grow up, we weren't the only ones waiting and praying that we grow up, our parents prayed too, the future and the lives attached to you also prayed alongside, and for some extraordinary few like you and I the future of our nations prayed that we grow up and take responsibility, why were they praying then? Its simply because life is far more than increasing in heights and being independent, life comes with responsibilities, right from birth there have been responsibility awaiting you till whenever you're fit to take over, not till your taller or older rather until you're fit to take over. When we understand these we can then see the essence of learning first before taking charge. Now we are young it's the best time to set out and get working, nothing last forever, not even being young as no one can be young forever. Now we are young but as months passes into year we become older which only means each passing day is drawing us closer to the days we would be weary and low in strength. As get serious now as there are a lot of energy and creativity you're capable of at this time, our limitations as young people are very minimal as we can easily navigate our way through any form of obstacles by reason of our passion. Don't you know there is a reason the bible said "Remember the lord your God in the days of your youth" there is something about acting in time, the best time to get active is at that time when our strength is at his high level, some work we could do when we were younger, we can still do It now, the work we would be doing when we were old we can still do it now as adults, but some work we can do now, we couldn't do them as a child nor would we be able to do them comfortably when we are old, this explains the fact that we are at our strongest point now, don't regret not starting now, now that we are young. Do all the thinking now, study yourself, then learn to improve your values, see that you have a vision to follow and set your energy on it diligently, because you are working, learning and operating diligently you'll notice how speedy it would all increase, yes all this other factors affects and contributes to the success but none of this would be possible if you're lazy of weak to start the dream in the first place, so our youthful energy has a lot to play. Never despise what extent you can grow a business or a dream to, the guys doing big things in our society are also regular human so if they can then why can we. Among the numerous list of people hoping and praying that we grow up is our country and her citizens, if there is going to be any change in the country, the main activist for this change would no doubt be the youth. Yes the president and his cabinets can make the law, but when the youths decide to kick against it, then there is trouble, the government has to appeal cause he can do nothing and is at a high risk if the young people are angry with his working methods. The effect of a single young is so massive, now imagine a group of young people, their force although few in number truly has the capacity to change a nation, only be wisdom of proper planning, which brings us to learning first before embarking on the journey. And most importantly, our future is impatiently waiting for us, we wouldn't want to start telling funny stories later on to our kids that the days of our youth was spent contemplating on what we should do rather than actually doing it. Every one is truly lazy, we all wake up and feel like we need an extra time to sleep, well for those who wake up early, of course if you're waking up late in the morning as you're yet feeling the need for an extra hour of sleep then you need more discipline on yourself. So we all feel the need for an extra hour but when the vision for yourself is clear and you know what is at stake, the future, the money, the responsibility, our youthful energy would kick off and set us on our toes to get active. Indeed this is a call for everyone to get working on our individual passion and zeal, the world awaits us, our family needs us to succeed, our Future family needs us to, our career and every live tied to our success demands this from us, let's never disappoint and stay energetic. However we must remember to first give in time to Learn, before we take over let's ensure that we have firstly learnt well enough. Thank you for the read. Have yourself a highly productive week. Now we are yet young, do it.

Phone's Effect Since the advent of phones the world took you new turn. It has changed a lot of things drastically, today we would be looking at the effects the invention of phones has caused to our world. It is already so relatable, as we would be discussing this magical invention we would see that it is already a frequent occurence, we see this effects at home, we would see this effect at schools, we would see this effect on the streets, this effects are seen virtually everywhere and no one is left out, yes including you, you are also an exhibitionist to this effects of phones. Some positive as well as some negative, however the good it offers is worth the troubles it brings. One of the most spoken off effect is distractions, your mom should have reminded you of this almost every day if you are still with her, majority of our fun time is now switching online. Back then people do a lot of visiting, even when it's for an unserious reason, they have no method of communicating to someone in a distance than to go down to their location, imagine having to drive down to see someone to discuss many things, after you're done and driving back you suddenly remember you forgot to tell them something else more urgent, that feeling is so painful. One would definitely wish there was an easy way out, even posting letter takes time. Nothing solves an urgency as much as phone, before then people have to prepare before the set time, more people woke up early, so they can deliver a message so people can commence a task, now you don't to stress, no need to find where they are, what if they aren't home, you drop them a letter, there're cases where letters doesn't get to the real owners, or mail enveloped letters are already cut open before then owner reads it. However with phones we can relax extra hours and pick our phones to call anytime and the task would commence as at the time expected. Phone can really be called a magical asset, its operations were sometime in the past thought as impossible or magical. How do you explain to the people of old that over there in Chicago, they could communicate seamlessly with someone in China at the same time simultaneously, without having to travel, right there where they are they communicate as though they were in the same whispering into each others ears, insane right? Definitely men from before this invention wouldn't have thought it possible, magic some would exclaim, however today the magic has become reality and many more past magic has become reality too., indeed humans should by truly living up to the name Homo sapiens. We truly have used our reasoning capacities to change the world and more awesome creations keep coming. We must have heard that phones have led to the death of so many people, yes it's true, still owing to distractions mainly as well as a quest to acquire it, firstly from distractions, clearly cars would have hit someone crossing the road but not hearing the incoming vehicle cause of the earpiece connected to their ears, how about others who were inside a room while there was danger, all cry to get his or her attention didn't work as the volume of the sound they are listening too is higher than what they can hear from the environment. This and so many casualties keep occurring, you must have seen some cause it happens regularly. In the area of trying to acquire it at all cost, we know how valuable having an expensive is nowadays. Some persons aren't financially buoyant enough to get it yet they want it now, this means they may not be getting it the right way that desires patience, they choose to get it at all cost. Some crazy extent people go to get it, though not it alone, but for the younger generation having a costly smart phone is more of an achievement. Another not so good effect of phones is laziness and procrastination, as there are lots of amazing features embedded in a phone, if you're not discipline you could pick up your phone in the morning and check your time to see its night already. Nevertheless if we were asked whether to accept the advent of a phone or discard it now knowing its side effects, I bet we a would accept it over and over again. Phones has clearly done more good than harm, it has saved lives, save time, save energy, save many from depression, it has done a lot and loads of good. A phone call have saved a lot of people, a phone call have saved a lot of stress, a phone call have helped us access the right content to help us bring joy to ourselves by ourselves. Most especially a phone has broken the barriers of distance, distance is now a thing of the past, we can easily connect to the world. So who is buying me the new incoming iPhone 14, just joking though, but that shows the extent to which phones have evolved over time and it keep building up to content more and more amazing features, the world stands with fingers crossed, we don't know what next amazing thing to expect from the world of phones, the games are lots, the social platforms are captivating, the camera, oh the camera have stolen the hearts of our ladies away. Its amazing when you realize that this phone all started as one big telephone with only ability to call, now see where we are in it, there are always room for improvements guys, well not just phones, there would always be room for improvement for us to, keep building yourself. I Love phones. Its simply magical writing to this amazing person reading this now, you're loved. Thank you for reading. God bless.

I Love My Rest I hope everyone is resting, Sunday I feel is for rest and enjoying yourself but more focus on rest. Monday all through friday for most people are unarguably work time, we work and work the next day and work the next day, then comes tgif finally right, the end of the week, its weekend and we hope to have some fun, for some of us we sleep in our houses cause the stress from the preceding days of the week is so much we can rarely gather strength to party, except that party is really one to look forward too, then we dont want to miss it, if not we sleep to get enough strength for the next day, next day which may probably be another work day, Saturday's are work days for some people too. Rest is essential to everyone, we all must rest as at when due. Sundays are mostly the best time to rest, go to church, return and rest. Spend time with family and love ones too. Rest doesn't mean we should sleep and sleep all through the night, having quality time can also be counted as rest. Rest can be viewed as the state of the mind much more than its regarded as sleeping. There's the joy that comes from smiling, smiling coming from deep down inside of your heart, cause you're truly happy from spending time with people who makes you really happy, such joy contributes to rest. Rest is more on the mind, a state of calmness and joy inside, sometimes its necessary we do what has been a burden to us, there are times we have some pending task, either someone to meet, a job to be done, even as little as a movie to watch, something the mind has been craving for, why not make out time to do it so the burden would be released from the mind, imagine doing that cumbersome laundry that have been procrastinated for a long while, as soon as you finish that laundry it'll seem as though a lump just left ones heart, all this contributes to the rest we all need. Do what is needed for a better rest, go out if need be, visit that fun friend if need be, cook that delicacy that you've always wanted to eat, do that pending work that's going to make you keep thinking because you know its necessary you do it but you don't want to do it all the same, so as you remember it you feel kind of sad, come on just do it, doing it is also contributing to a better rest. For the parents, spending quality time with your partner and kids should be as important as catching personal fun, its necessary to listen and watch the family so observe how things have been faring, should you need to step in to resolve a thing or two. True rest would come when you're unbothered, which is very possible, your mind is not troubled about anything, you have it all figured out, even the few where you need to still work on are either half way done or you aren't so bothered about it, maybe because it holds lesser weights of burden. True rest comes from God also, when you know you have secured the future via salvation, then one can also experience rest cause we are sure should the world end today, we are heading to a better place. Before a man could confidently say "to die Is gain" then there's something he knows that others finds strange. In the quest for rest and happiness, I'll count salvation as the most important to any man, securing his ways with his maker, if there's anything truth about life, its the fact that nothing is certain, whether we be good or bad, rich or poor, nothing is certain, none can boast of what tomorrow brings, more reason why we must certain what we are sure about, that is going to the better place when we leave this place of management. However in God we also experience true rest on earth, cause we are sure we can pray, ask and the all powerful listens and because he hears us and is capable of providing whatever we need, we can be at peace while we wait for he to do it. So rest is paramount, both physical, emotional and most importantly spiritual rest, everyman Hope for rest, rest after a day of work, rest after a straining trauma, rest after a lifetime on earth, our lives would take a more interesting turn when we find how to rest better and truly rest. Intentionally saving time to spend with family and just relax your muscles, intentionally taking care of that emotional trauma that's not making one think straight, either by talking to someone, a therapist or finding ways out for oneself, and most importantly building a relationship with our God, who ofcourse has always been with us, just silent cause we don't talk to him and don't listen when he speaks, funny right, well you can't listen when you're not aware someone is talking. Be conscious of God in us. Happy Sunday everyone and try to rest. Thank you once again for reading, I love you. Peace ✌.

Supposed Benefits Of Rage Rage in most sense is wrong but then in some sense it's right, some things just don't change until you get angry, the rage from your anger is what leads to actions and only actions can bring about a change, however there is a need to ensure we take the right actions even while we are angry so as not to be in deeper mess, we all want to ensure we end the anger and have no reason to be that angry anymore but the case isn't always like this. For some people they have taken actions in rage, not actions to resolve the issue on ground but action to inflict pain on another and such actions doesn't always have a smoothing relieve plan and so they keep on regretting the actions. However the rage is necessary, if it wasn't then it wouldn't be put there by God, everything deposited in us are to help us, they all have their magical effect, yes including anger, jealousy, fights, even troubles, as much as I don't want to admit this last examples but they also do "mosquitoes" because without pest and insect as this some humans would be living in a very dirty environment and not care that its dirty. Crazy huh, I bet we sometimes put our actions in check because we have let of the corresponding consequences when we don't, so yes all this insects do have their side benefits. So those all things given by God to man. It gets to a point where we are fed up, at this point even our human spirits is vexed, we wouldn't care anymore for that in which we cared for previously and so If we can think we would make the right decision from it. Some corrective measures we can't take until we are enraged, so we see that it's good sometimes to get really angry cause the anger is the beginning of the end of that situation, even when it comes to affairs like politics, love, prayers, agreements, we can drive it to some extent if we don't get angry. However let's ensure we take the right actions off the rage so we don't end up regretting. We admit that we are all humans and to this people are bound to misbehave, even our closet people that we've known before time. For many cases when we let so things slide it would be taken for okay, even when we go on to talk to them about our displeasure, they could still take it as fun all because of the relationship between the both of you, what then can prove that the time as come as enough is enough and this thing doesn't want to be tolerated again would only prove itself through a certain kind of rage, sometimes it doesn't need to be physical actions or fights, rage can also be effective via words, sometimes words do the job perfectly. One can be enrage with himself too, it doesn't necessarily need to be on another. When a man is tired of where he is, then he would need to move out, but that moving out becomes an issue cause of various reasons, do you know that a normal human don't want to be stressed, infact everyone stressing theirselves currently are wishing to rest and are only doing it cause they have to or for the benefits. What then can push a man to go the extra mile if he or she doesn't want to be stressed, definitely we would need him to be convinced within and has the tough motivation to ride him or her through that rugged path. An hungry man they say is an angry man, it doesn't just end there, ask the question of why must an hungry man be angry, you're likely hungry right now but you're not angry, because you know when you want to eat you would go and get the food, so you're hungry but not angry. When when there's no food but cause you know you'll surely eat soon as wife would prepare it when she returns or you'll call on someone to help you out, then you might not be angry, however the hungry man that is angry is angry not because he is hungry but because he doesn't know when he'll get the food to eat and his tired of the situation. This anger of an hungry man is what would propel him to finding a means out. For some the rage from hunger would push them to start calling people to help them get a job, the rage can make them think of what he needs to do to make better improve his life so that this hunger is treated and abolished totally from his life, never to return. This is the good channel to the rage, however for some the rage from the anger would push them into crimes, for both sides they want an upgrade of status quo, but one choose the right means while the other the wrong, so we see the need to think, think even while you're enrage. Let that rage birth for a lasting solution and so just actions that would regretted soon after. There we see some benefits to rage, as we all have it but must know how to use it. Thanks for thanking time out to read. Remain Blessed and Magical.

Talk To Somebody It's a good way of letting out that intense emotion, get someone who listen to hear you out, some people just need someone to talk to, the fact that they bear it all by themselves would keep them thinking and possibly taking wrong actions. I'm particularly tired of seeing people flare up over the littlest of cases and you begin to wonder how something so simple could get them so red hot. Well most times what we fight about isn't what we are fighting about. More reason why we need to constantly engage people in heartfelt discussions, know about their welfare and be as reassuring as possible, a listening ear can do more than we think. You also need a listening ear in your life, how lucky are those whose partners are their closest friends, how lucky are those kids whose parents are their friends, because friendship is the real basis for heartfelt discussions. Families is a solid bond but how many families have their brothers, sisters or parents engaged in their every day life, not much for real. The people who we do the most with is that person who has little ties with you, whom you could do crazy things with and feel like no one would know about it, or your parents would find out at least, so unless our family can fit into that friendship shoe, they may not be able to offer the listening ear needed. People go through a lot, really the world though magical really isn't a friendly place, because its more affected by human decisions and actions and many of this actions are mostly out of greed and selfishness, therefore other people are bound to bear the consequences for this actions. Just like a government taking decisions to steal money which would lead to inflation or recession, all this directly proportional to the poor masses suffering more, or a guy lying about his feelings for a girl, only for her to be fooled, slept with and left alone, or the regular theft of the streets, even a disappointment of something that looked certain, all this puts someone in a depressed state. Because we are silent doesn't mean all is well, because one is in a cafeteria eating doesn't mean he is having the best time of his or her life. Only true friends should be able to relate and encourage accordingly. I've seen crazy personalities, almost like the comic Joker, even with their world falling apart, they would still appear alright and jovial, as though all is perfect, so good a acting you couldn't guess, as much as I am against such attitude, but you really can't blame them, they probably have experienced a lot of betrayal and back stabbing. You might need to prove beyond doubt before they let you in into their space. Someone would ask, why should I be so concerned about someone else's matter? Well it's hard to care about just anybody's personal issues, but when it's about someone you deeply care about then you'll find it easier to care, that's why It's said as find someone, you don't just find anyone cause everybody is anyone, but that friend who would listen and probably talk you through the process may not be easy to locate, but hopefully we find them and they find us too, cause they too go through their lot and they sure do need someone to listen to them ranting and pouring out those deep emotions. In other words we also need to build capacity to be confidants ourselves, we need to be trusted and valued even to our close pals. Good we found someone emotionally intelligent enough to accept us in our downtime but are we likewise, can they come running to us also when need be, they need not be the only ones we could help out, someone else's might need to talk to you someday based on how hospitable you appear, might be a complete stranger which I find odd by the way, but you can never tell how situations present themselves, could be on a train home, could be on a rescue mission, just remain emotionally intelligent. The good of this is numerous, people sometimes need to get reassurance. people sometimes need to know there is a second chance to correct the wrong, people sometimes need to know life is only just beginning and they must not let the current issue weigh them down. Sometimes our words help people see clearly what their emotions have been blinding them to see, sometimes people need to see things on a different view, so much lies in we offering a listening hear or we talking to someone, learn to engage people in heartfelt discussions. Really let's learn to engage people in heartfelt discussions, we never know who needs us even when they don't think they need anyone. Talk to someone and build capacity to help others. I really appreciate your time spent reading. Stay blessed, it's going to be an awesome week.

When You See Your Old Classmates Again Understand This Somethings are just so sensitive, we can't afford to get it wrong at that point because the effect it builds can last for a longer time, without knowing when another opportunity would arise to correct it. So for some kinds of meeting its paramount we know what to expect and how to respond because we want to leave there guilt free. Today am talking about running into an old Classmates, well I'm assuming like me, many of us had long left high school and a lot has been going on in our personal lives till date, so it'll be more of an encounter running into someone you'd once shared a memorable experience with, but then how do we react. Full of joy I would, we should be joyful, first off I say no one should be scared of running into an old Classmates or friend, no matter their character or how the last experience was it is still important we see them and be happy, it's enough joy to be alive, everyday everyone stands a high risk of being hurt and the worst case scenario being dead, but the fact that you all are still alive and living, shows that God has been faithful. And these is enough ground to start your complimentaries from, before anything it's good we start off from a neutral ground, a ground of both victories which is being alive. Health is another footing to stand on. Don't be scared to jump into the area of jobs or finances, the both of you are probably scared of that side of the discussion, no matter how wealthy you've gotten, you may be scared of the other doing so much more that it downgrades you, remember you both are just meeting so it's best the both of you get comfortable with each other again before sensitive matters can be discussed. Issues of relationships and family can sometimes be safe as well as very dangerous, remember we are really trying not to break someone emotionally as well as knowing more about them. Someone may ask, but if I don't ask all of these, then how would I know where I can be of help to him, true, the exchange of information is key, you'd never know who would be of help to the other, maybe the meeting was divinely program by the heavens to help you, however they aren't coming void of emotions, so it'll be best to help each other stay happy enough to remember that this person was my friend and is still my friend and has my best interest at heart before they can start spilling. Do you know the numbers of people who lie when they see and old time pal, it doesn't make them bad people, they felt attacked and was only trying to preserve their little dignity left. So in order not to make them lie to you, which is on you cause you made them so uncomfortable and maybe boastful, so you see the need to get everyone happy and feeling loved, loved enough to want to share all that's really happening with them, cause they know you're a true friend, a shoulder to cry on. On the other side, don't feel jealous or embarrassed when you meet a boastful friend, this is now on you to guard your heart. Not everyone would be sensitive to make you happy, some people strive in seeing other people intimidated by them, they prow in it, it doesn't mean you have to lie, rather it's a nice time to teach them that there is joy in contentment. What is life if we can't positively impact, people just need to see different, characters are shaped off believe, a bad man would keep doing wrong until when his believe is changed, more reason why the government takes the young crime perpetrators through rejuvenation, because they can still be worked on. In other words people need to see different. By virtue of our early start, we owe our old time friends a helping hand to standing as well as they do us, we all knew the early starting of this life journey, when nothing else mattered by fun, we all made memories, there should be no shyness still, we help each other. In the comfort comes the deep discussion, not discussing from a state of who does it better nor who has it more, but in a state of what can we do now, how can we both assist each other to get up higher, it's more beautiful when it's your old time friends or high school classmate, you all had seen your downtime, probably seen each other cry, there are many memories that can easily make one laugh and get him humble and settled, we are almost like family, more like a distant relation, the love never dies but never from a place of pride or lies, it's all Love when we meet again. Do better when you meet any again, life isn't sweet to all in similar proportions, some has it more than others, let's understand this and try to make our old pals happier after their encounter with us rather than making them more depressed or comfortable with lying. Thank you for reading today, hope your weekend is going smooth. Remember One love always.