How many times has it happened to you, that you are talking to someone, and that person takes too long to respond and your mind begins to awaken the monsters of insecurities, dependencies and all the red flags that you can imagine.

I know that it can be something that can make you desperate to the point of driving you crazy, especially if you know that it is at a time when they usually talk or worse yet, you see the famous "Online" every time you enter their chat.

It usually leaves a big lump in the throat and you begin to imagine great scenarios where everything has already died.

But wait...

I will give you some tips that may work for you if you do not want the aforementioned to happen to you, everything has a solution and you can put it to the test right now.

This goes for both men and women, so don't hesitate to read me to the end.

Try to change the mood

Immediately you start to have or fill yourself with negative emotions, it is the perfect time to quickly change the mood you have.

But María Fernanda, that is not easy, there is no magic button to do it.

I know, dear reader, but you can try to do something that makes you happy or gives you peace at that moment.

You need to change your mood almost immediately, because our brain works aggressively when it comes to negative emotions, so look for something like meditating to lower your anxiety level, reading a good book to distract yourself, watching a series that enjoy, watch a stand up online to laugh, take photos, just do something you like, so you kill any negative emotion that it gives you when that message you long for doesn't reach you.

Meet several people:

When you are single you have the opportunity to meet all the people you want under your own criteria and values.

It is not bad to meet several people when you are starting to look for your better half, because first you have to know the pros and cons of the people you date in order to know which is the best option or the indicated one.

Besides, it will help a lot so that you do not despair if that person does not appear, because go, you have other options which will be there for when one is not there.

Mathematically, meeting and dating multiple people will make you choose smarter and less likely to fail.

When your level of preference is already reduced, it will be easier to realize which person is the most worthwhile, do not be afraid, be free to choose and let them choose you freely.

Finally I contribute to this tip, I advise you to focus more on who likes you than who doesn't like you, many times you can't do anything to make that person like you, so don't waste time.

Focus on you:

It is what really matters, a person who is focused on his goals, objectives, in being disciplined with the habits that give him more productivity, dreaming, aspiring or thinking about his future, does not get depressed if the person he likes is slow to respond or does not respond.

Focusing on you will make you feel individual, if you are individual, you know that you have your routine to fulfill, your priorities and productive habits and perhaps that person also has them.

So focusing on yourself will not only make you think little about what that other person does, it will also make you understand when you analyze that we all have priorities and goals to achieve, so we will not be 100% for that other person all the time.

Conclusion:

Everything is in you, in thinking of you, in first you.

Life can't stop the day you don't talk to that person you're with.

Get used to your healthy habits, the ones that help you meet your goals every time you work hard at it or for it.

It's not worth losing focus for anything or anyone, believe me it's better to spend your life working hard for your goals than spending all day waiting on whether that person is online or uploaded a story and hasn't seen your message.

There are no solutions for that person to respond to you when you want, but there are solutions so that you do not go crazy or go into despair.

Happy friday to everyone...