At what age do you discover that you want to be?
If you know the answer, feel free to tell many of us in the comments, which I'm sure is completely difficult exactly what is the perfect age to discover what we want in our lives.
It is something very relative, for some it is a long road, for others it is shorter, some never get it and others realize that it was not what they really wanted.
If you think that in this article you will find a magic formula to achieve it, I am sorry to tell you that unfortunately I do not have the solution to it, but I will tell you many things that can make you see your path in a different way.
Don't you know who you are?
Me neither, the truth is not what I'm looking for either.
I am not going to deny that years ago, I had a great obsession with wanting to be a doctor, graduate at 23, and from then on pursue my career.
But the truth is that not even half of all that happened, since I didn't even finish my medical degree.
Then I lost interest in university studies, since I did not stay in bioanalysis, nor in cardiovascular.
But you know what?
About two years later, I found out that I want to be a psychologist, yes, that's right, and it's not that I want to study psychology because there are no other options, it's because right now it's what I love to be.
However, it is uphill, since the race is completely paid, and it will not be easy to finish it, but it is definitely something that I want to do 100%.
How do I define myself?
Well, basically at this moment I define myself as a person who passionately does everything he sets out to do.
That is, my goal always in every area of my life is to do things with passion.
Many times we are very square and we think that we have to be exactly the same all the time, but the answer is that it is not like that, we can be good at many things, things that we cannot even imagine.
So why be the same all your life?
If we can evolve whenever we want?
I'm random:
Yes, before it filled me with insecurity to be like that, because I saw some people being really good in one field, and well, it was very random.
After graduating from high school, I started studying at the university a career called Health Records and Statistics, I didn't like it at all, since it was studying to be a doctor's secretary, and it's not that I judged it, it just wasn't Own.
Then I worked in an ice cream parlor, where the first year I had a great time since I started to have a salary, so I earned a lot of money, I was only 18 years old, my parents were in a good situation and all that money could be spent on me.
Then the next year, I realized that I didn't want that in my life, my boss wasn't treating me that well so I had to quit.
I started working at my dad's hardware store, and well you know how difficult it is, working with your dad, I think they demand twice as much of you, however I love doing it since that will be my hardware store.
Then the pandemic came and we had to close the hardware store for 6 months, and it was there that I discovered that I loved psychology, since I spent too many months suffering from anxiety, at 20 years old I thought that my life had passed.
But in that 2020 that everyone hated, I discovered that I was good at listening to people, not only listening, but that I was really interested in their problems and also committed to helping them.
That year I saved a friend from committing suicide and also many people said that I was a light in their lives so I decided to be that in the lives of others.
Then the doubt began as to how I would be able to pay for my degree, so I decided to invest in my dad's hardware store, but of course with little investment and in a short time, nothing is easy.
Then my job came online, which opened up a great world of possibilities for me, where I could work with my own boss and work at my own pace.
But working online is not easy at all, however I have been evolving in such a way that I started when I advertised on ptc pages, to later work on micro-task pages, then Noise, which I earned by making posts, then making more elaborate articles here in Read .Cash and finally I started trading thanks to the profits generated here.
Moral:
If you still haven't got what you want, you don't identify with anything, you feel like you don't know who you are, don't worry, it's part of life.
Just because your path is different doesn't mean it's bad to be, allow yourself to experiment and be what you really want to be no matter what you do with passion.
Most of us get to know who we are and where are heading to, on the process of struggles and difficulties of life. Those processes became eye openers