I just want to express my feeling or my rant about to those person who borrowed money to my mother and they are the one whose angry to my mother ( how idiot they are). This is happened to my Mother, this isn't happened one time but many times.
I've read the article of Miss @Jinifer Neighbor's Blah Blah Blah , it's about ranting to their neighbors unmannered behavior (Pardon for the mention). So I realized that I want to makes mine. This article is a rant to those people whoever is in debt, yet they are the one still angry when it's time of payment.
So here's the Story.
___________________________Oneday there is one couple chatted to my mother's messenger that they are about to borrowed money because they needed it for the process of their papers, because they are Japanese Descendants (have a blood of Japanese) means they are eligible to live in Japan and have a Job in there. As they go in our house, (as I remember) they have so many promises they promise. I think the first money they borrowed is 25k. And my mother allowed them to borrow because they promise that if they will finish process their papers and have a work in Japan they will Pay it. Involved to their conversation the 10% interest.
Months passed, they are borrowed again a 25k money and my mother to add the expenses for the process. The mother of the husband of this couple is my Mother's bestfriend way back in their childhood, As my mother's story they are very best friend, sharing viand and food to each other. That's the one reason why my mother allowed them to borrowed that large money.
The descendants here is the family of my mother's bestfriends. After 3 months the son and daughter of my mother's best friend finally fly to Japan and have a Job their. In 1 year of their borrowing money, have no problem, they pay and borrowed together with deal of 10% interest.
After that one year, my mother wondered there are months they not pay exact amount and sometimes there are months they aren't paying. To those one year they borrowed money some of them is for theirs house renovation and to buy groceries. And my mother thought that it is her best friend there is no reason not to pay what they borrowed.
My Mother chatted the daughter of my mother's Best friend in messenger that why they aren't paying their debts it's been a months that they are not paying. She said that for now I don't have money to pay, so my mother is understandable person, and accept her reason.
But there is one time my mother is chatted again to the daughter of my mother's best friend. Let us call her Nicole ( not her true name)
My Mother: Hi nicole! Good Evening, Can I have the payment of yours because it's been 2 months you're not paying it.
Nicole: Just wait when I want to pay you! I will not running your money!
My mother: Nicole I just collecting the money that you borrowed, years and months ago.
Nicole: You want the payment? then Wait!
That's one of the hurtful words throw to my mother, Nicole is one of my mothers disciple our in church, way back the time she is in here in the Philippines. After Church service, all of my mother's disciple is together with us in our house having a lunch together.
One time, I see my mother is crying then I ask my sister why mama is crying? Then she said it's because to those people who borrowed money, chatted to her hurtful words. So I can open my mother's Facebook account because I am the one created it to her, I have the access. I read their conversations. I can't believe what she said to my mother, throwing hurtful words to my mother, she is angry why my mother always chatting to collect their payment.
Siya na nga ang nangutang siya pa ang may karapatan magalit? (What a stup*d person). Sila na nga ang nakinabang sa pera, sila na nga tinulungan, tapos ganyan pa gagawin nila?.
In 3 years of borrowing money to my mother, the daughter has been paid, but my mother's best friend and her husband hasn't paid yet, I think they have almost hundred thousand debt in my mother. My mother's best friend relationship has been done ruined.
Lending money can ruin relationship, there are so many relations has been ruined and destroyed. If possible, avoid lending money especially if you can't pay it. Don't make many promises instead do it. You don't have the rights to be angry especially when it is your fault. The damage has been done, only we can do is to forgive. This happened many times, this happened not just only in my mother but in many people. It's ugly to see that you are posting many foods and travelling to different places but haven't paid your debt. (You must called social climber). The truth hurts and only the truth can set us free.
If this happened or will happen to you? What will you do? How you deal this kind of People? May I know thoughts? Just drop yours down
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