Date: 15th May, 2022. Sunday

When people around you start giving you a reason to ignore them, just accept it. Never try to find out the reason. Because they want you to find out that one. They want you to put the pressure on yourself. They want to see you in trouble, hesitation, broken. In spite of your passionate love, care and tremendous help, they will hate you or be angry on you for no reason. Their face and attitude will explain it more perfectly. Suddenly out of nowhere you will find their change. Your mind will force you to figure out the reason. You will be looking for answers and for that you may approach to them. Surprisingly, they will not show the intense moment or that desired conversation which can actually fix it. They will ignore. What will you do then? Will you approach again to find out the reason? Will you wait for the perfect moment to catch up that broken chain? Will you be the needle to stich that thing together?

Well, ding dong! Here is the advice and that is 'Stop'. Yes, you have heard it right. I am asking you to stop doing it. They are looking for your worst feelings. They want it. Just do not give them what they are desiring. This is the only way to stop them. Stand once with this attitude and you will find out their sad faces. Just give it back to them. Why should you take that pressure on your head? After doing all these things for them, it is not necessary to act according to their wills. Better you should stay away from their greed. Their ungrateful vibes will only hurt you and this thing you actually do not deserve.

Worry less my friend. Human beings have good vibes and their moral values are trust worthy. But they do have some qualities which they feel it in their own ways. In their point of view, this is good for them. But actually not. Their jealous feelings are just making things awkward. Who to make them believe that? Better you should step forward to do that. Just start giving no attention to them. Show them that you have no interest in them. It will lower their over confident nature. Let us break the bridge that they are building to make us down. Because once they win over one of us, they will never bring that down. They will start pulling down more people. Then the positive thinkers will be drowned and the rise of negativity will fire the heat.

Let them know that we do not care anymore. Let them understand that we are not giving them what they want. From now, start taking your life seriously. You have done enough for them. So it is quite unnecessary to redo the same magic for them again. They didn’t believe you then and they will not believe you in near future. That's why I'm asking you to stop caring. If you are at least 10% sure that they don’t like, make them believe 90% that you do not care about them. Don’t let their feelings ruin your life which is marching towards success. Their jealous, mean looks will never change. Then be it.

You may have jealousy for someone's success but that will not decrease their confidence. They are worthy of it. Why would we become the obstacles of their life? Does it suit? No dear. Let not spread the negativity. Let us learn from them. We can be a good person. Tell me, how will you feel when someone react the same with you? I know it will hurt you. Then stop doing it. Or maybe you can follow the procedure that I have told you already. Ignore their feelings and move on. Don't pay heed what others think. You are from the new generation and you know better that in this competitive world, emotions are less valued. Let them know that you just don't care what others think.

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