Ocean and Land Separates, One Notification Connected

I have recently read some topics about online love, or let us say those couples having Long Distance Relationship in which the online world set as a bridge for their communication. To wrap up those insight, all agreed that there is a big possibility that online love can turns to a marriage, but still it is up for the couples, on how they want to work their relationship.

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Have you tried to fall in love to someone whom you haven't met or seen even the pictures of him/her?

I think I was in first year highschool when I enter the world of texting, Facebook that time is not so common, as we only have keypad phones and it's rear for it to access Facebook's site. I've observed that some of my friends are having fun of texting to strangers. They said that they only do GM(Group Message) and by one click they can have chatmates. I stated in my previous article, Tyl, Text You Later, the common reason why I like the system to texting before, specifically about GM

Why I came up with the GM? Because it was was the time when there's no judgement at all. You are going to talk to someone by texting; to listen his/her opinion anonymously, that you are talking to an unknown friend. Asking for your picture or meet up is not in vocabulary, as the only intention is to have someone to talk heartedly.

- (Ling, 2021)

It is common for a group of friends, especially with the same gender to ask, "who is your crush?", and to my surprise some of my friends stated name which is not familiar to some of us, then we found out that those names that they are sharing are their textmates. They don't know how it looks like; it says where they live, but since we're having no knowledge about places we only conclude that it's far; they stated some information about themselves without a proof if they said the truth or not. But these, possible reason for them not to like a person is not on my friend's concern, what they focus is the happiness that a particular textmate give to them.

If you're fun watching videos online, you might have seen a lot of couples having different nationalities end up with marriage and having their own family. Most of them started at online, maybe in Facebook while some tried their luck in online dating.

While there are people who don't believe in online love, they said that it's just wasting of time, nothings will work out if the couples are in Long Distance Relationship, but we can't judge then, because in most cases temptation occurs more when the couples are far with each other, or maybe these people who don't believe in online love came into being broken hearted having a Long Distance Relationship in the past.

On the other hand, there are also people who don't like to enter LDR. It doesn't mean that they don't believe in love starting online, but within themselves they can't take to be far to whom they love. Those persons is when they know that their relationship will turns for separation physically then don't go for it.

We can't deny that the use of internet in today's situation really gives a good impact not only about our economy, different job sectors, studies, this pandemic and many more but also in terms of love. But then, still we must be careful as in online, there are scams, cyberbullying, fakenews, and other pages/apps/site that can bring negativity to our life. As what a saying is "Think Before you Click".

What are your side about online love? Are you agree about it?

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April 2, 2022

-Ling