"The Difference of Having a Brother and Sister".
Siblings were indeed a blessing. I know some friends who happened to be an only child that expressed their thoughts of not having a sibling. As they say they might be an advantage as for sure all the love of their parents yet they felt sad sometimes. They don't have someone with them whom they can really trust. I mean nowadays? Even a close friend will betray you.
The reason why I consider myself lucky for having brothers and sisters whom I know would always be on my back no matter what will happen. That's how our parents raised us.
To those who don't have a brother might ask how does it feel to have one? For me? It was great! You always felt safe. Though siblings fighting was normal.
I think I had mentioned in my previous post that I grew up always tailing my older brother. My sister who is next to me was so brat that is why we don't get along when we are kids until the teenage stage.
My brother was my savior especially during those days that I experienced bullying. Every time someone would hurt me either verbally or physically the first word I would say is " I will tell my brother about this". Of course I am confident my brother will be on my side and will fight for me. He has never failed me so far.
I remembered the first time I experienced a heartbreak. He was so mad to my ex for making me cry. He was supposed to go to my ex school as he really wanted to punch him,,lol! Good thing I was able to persuade him as I don't want him involved in a mess.
That's it, having a brother you will always feel safe and always have someone to run too.
What about having a sister (s)?
Hehe, I only have two brothers and five sisters. Yep we are a big family, lol!
I don't have a favorite among all my sisters, I treated them all the same. We are all close and we treated each other as friends. That's when we are no longer teenagers. What about when we are kids? Of course we fight too.
So was it having one? Well all I can do is be prepared and expect that your closet will always be " RAID". Most of us have the same body figures and sizes. Oftentimes my sisters, especially when I am staying with them, would always check my things, clothes, shoes, bags and other girly things. You know the feeling that you sleep already, picture out what to wear the next day only to be disappointed. Why? My sister already took it. Yes I don rant sometimes but they just laughed at me.
I even experienced one time when I bought a dress and you know what happened? I wasn't able to wear it as my sister wore it first. " Ako bumili iba nagsuot".
Even up to now when I go home for vacation I always go back to the city with only a few things with me. You know what happened. Yes it was annoying sometimes but I can't say no to them. I think that's the disadvantage of having sisters. Anyone can relate?
Before I forget of course you have your bestfriend, a critic and an adviser.
Friends may sugarcoat if you ask for advice sometimes but believe me a sister won't. Most of the time they would slap you with the truth! Am I right? They won't stop until you wake up from reality.
What about you? How does it feel having a bother and sister?
Hello everyone, how's your weekend so far? Pardon me for not visiting your article since last night. I felt sick again. Yeah I noticed that too I always got sick this year. I don't know why I drink vitamins and always eat on time.
I was thinking maybe because of the vaccine against Covid. Seriously since I got my booster shots I am always sick. Now some were already having their second booster and me? I don't have a plan as long as it won't be required. It will take me I think two weeks before I fully recover. How about you?
08:26 PM
06/18/2022_Manila_ Philippines
Firstly, get well soon My dear. You spoke so beautifully of the advantages of having a sibling. I agree with everything you said