You're an Open Book

Hello hello there my fellow readers and Writers it's me once again your lazy writer lazysnail. Time check it is 8:05 in the morning. It is a sunny Thursday in the 14th day of april 2022. Yesterday I made an article about the things of why you're still in constant pain in which I say that. The first reason is that we are not learning from the pain we have experience, second is that we are trusting everyone very easily, like a gullible type of person. And lastly is that, we care too much with everything. I told yesterday that I will going to make a continuation of yesterday's Article because those 3 reason took the whole four minutes of reading time. Thus, I still have some reason that I observe on why we are in Constant pain.

Overthinking is the one main reason why we can't get out from the suffering and pain that we are experiencing. Thinking about stuffs over and over is exhausting and draining. Overthinking hit us in two ways. First is that, from overthinking we will going to create problem, we will think of things that haven't been existing in the first place. Just like caring too much, overthinking too much is thinking of everything that we shouldn't need to think of, this unnecessary things are the one that hurt us. The second way on how overthinking hurt us is that, after the problem is created we will constantly think of the problem that we are having.

I don't say that we shouldn't think of the problem, but thinking of it as a big deal will lead us to nothing but making the problem bigger and heavier. I know from my experience that overthinking is a bad traits that we can't rid off. No matter how we wanted to stop overthinking, we can't stop ourselves from thinking of everything. But we must be aware, and have someone to understand and listen to us.

Do you know what is the one thing the predator looks in choosing for their prey? It is the weakest one, and someone who doesn't have a shield and doesn't have protection. YOU'RE AN OPEN BOOK is another's reason on why you're being hurt by other people most of the time. You always let yourself exposed to other people's advantage. You're very easy to read and that they will know what kind of person you are and on how they will going to used you. In the end you will be the person crying and being in pain. There are lot of people who loves to talks about their sides and even the small detail of their lives. Thus, other people can use this as a weapon against you.

You think you deserve it, I just wanted to mention this writer of ours @Lovelyfaith I don't usually reply to others comment but I constantly reading those. I mentioned this woman because of her comment yesterday "Yes and how i wish i am like those dead ones, who cannot feel pain." I just wanted to tell you that no matter what happen, no matter how big the problem is. Please Don't ever think that being dead is the solution to everything. There's no great on being dead for we can't be with the people we love and love us when we stop breathing. Even though we can't see things, there's still a bunch of ways and solutions to deal with the problem you're currently facing. You may not find it today but you will going to see what tomorrow lies when you survive this day. So stay alive! You can do everything!.

As I said people think we deserve the problem we are currently facing. We think that why we are in that situation is that we deserve to be on it. Remember, no one deserve to be in Constant pain except for those inhumane person. Those who made a terrible crime for their sake deserve every bit of pain. But as long as you're still humane you deserve to be happy.

Everyone in this world is suffering from pain. No matter how heavy the pain is or how painful it is, pain is still a pain that hurt us. So even though we are having a hard time dealing with our pain don't hesitate when someone ask for a hands or when they want your ears to be on them.

Stop putting very high standards on yourself, sure standards are great but we didn't know that we are putting our standards very hard to the point that it reach the perfection level. No one is perfect, even the master still has a flaws and commiting a mistake on what they're pro at. Remember that everything has a steps to climb don't skip your steps. People tend to overestimate on what they can do in a month or a year. We are looking at those people who are successful one. That little did we know it took them a decade to reach that succession. And then here's us who wanted to be ok their level in just a month and will be in pain when we found out we are failing.