How do you wish to be remember?

October 11, 2021 | 6th of 10th month

Hello hello there my fellow readers and writers Its me again your Lazy writer lazysnail. I'm so sorry kinda being inactive yesterday I cannot log in to read.cash and noise.cash properly because of internet connection. And also we attended a birthday celebration of one of my friends. It's his 17th birthday.

How do you wish to be remember?

Jumping back 2 years ago, my professor in purposive communication gave us an activity named how do you wish to be remember. He instruct us to draw a grave in which we will put our name, birthday , death of birth we think of and how we wish to be remember. At first we thought it's just a simple game he gave us to burn some time of us. But then in the middle of the activity I then reflect to myself. What's the story I wanna left to everyone when I die. What's the thing they will remember on me? How do I wish to be remember?

Dying is one of the scariest and worst thing can happen to a man. There are some people who wish to committ suicide but when you put him in the middle of the sea you'll see them trying their best to swim it means everyone is scared of dying. We don't know what lies after death, are we going to purgatory to be judge? We will be transfer to next dimensions? Or just nothingness after death?

But when do people die? Do they die when they're shot? When stabbed? When poisoned? Dr hilluk of one piece once said people only die when they're forgotten.

Did you all watch the cartoon movie named coco? It is a story of miguel who loves singing and performing, he stumble to the land of the dead where he meet his dead elderly. And learn about his great great grandfather's identity.

In the story, their culture is to have a celebration for the dead people to make the dead people feel that someone remember them. Because in the story those dead people that was forgotten by their relatives was hing vanished in the land of the dead and become a lost soul.

How do you wish to be remember?

As I remember I put in my activity that: I dan(my nickname) a good man who helps others in their needs.

Its simple I know, I don't wanna be important to someone's life. I just want to be a commoners, a chapter on their book of life that the only role is to give them advice leading the to right path. I'm not important person, I can be your friends but not enemy I swear I don't hold grudge to anyone I just forget your whole existence when I'm mad at you.

There are people that was very well known that even though how many generations will pass their name is written in the history, like Einstein, Galilei , Da vinci , Mandela, shakespeare, and many more people that put contribution to the development of the world and society. You can be like them if you wanted to and when you pursue your dream.

And there are people who doesn't care how they wanted to be remember, what they just do is to enjoy every single second of their life. They have this Quotes "YOLO" You Only Live Once so try all things. They are so adventure and risk takers because why not? Aren't they right? We will die soon and how we will be remember is not that important.

And here's the rest of the population, who still doesn't know what to do. But don't be mistaken, there's no need to rush, you're still on process trust your heart. We don't need to prove things to others just be happy and have no regrets in life that's one important things too.

Closing Thoughts

How do you wish to be remember is still your choice, no one will gonna dictate it for you. It is what you'll gonna leave them before leaving this world. So until we are breathing let's try to make good things to others. For every single days have passed should be a one help to other person per day.but don't forget to still love yourself, put yourself first before others because it us who must enjoy ourselves and nor other people.