Howdy folks π€ how are you all doing? I did something weird today: I published my introduction post on hive! π You want to know why I said it's weird? Because introduction posts are usually for newbies who newly joined the platform but I have been on hive for about a year and I have NEVER done my introduction, so I just decided to do it today and I'm glad I did
Be yourself!
There's a meme that says, "Being different is better than being like everyone els" and I totally agree with it. And I know that it can be hard to keep up with everybody when you're different but the truth is, you don't need to be like everyone else to be successful. In fact, doing things your own way may actually make you more successful in the long run.
The truth is that no one is ever really like anyone else, even twins aren't exactly the same, It's just not possible. So why do we feel the need to try? The answer is simple: people want to be accepted. They want to be seen as good people and feel like they belong in society. And when you try to fit in with everyone else, you're going to lose yourself and the things that make you unique and special.
If you are someone who has found yourself in this situation before, then I'm sure that you probably know how it feels when you try so hard to fit in with others that it ends up making you feel like less of a person. You become insecure around your friends and family members because they have accepted your flaws better than you do.
You start thinking "if only I had their looks or talent" or "if only they had my personality" But at some point along the way, those thoughts can start making you feel like a fake or less than worthy of being loved by those closest to you. The only real way to be happy is by living your life on your own terms not by trying to conform to someone else's standards.
That's one of the reasons why being different is better than being like everyone else: because it allows you to be at peace with yourself instead of constantly comparing yourself to others and feeling like something is wrong with you because you're not having the same or higher achievements than them.
When you be yourself and do something unique and special, people will notice and maybe even appreciate it! But if all you're doing is trying to fit in with other people, then eventually they will get bored with what they see as "boring" or "inauthentic" about who you are. And then they'll stop noticing you at all!
We all have our own weird quirks that we're used to. These quirks can sometimes make us less popular because they're different from what other people do. But this doesn't mean that we should change. Everybody is unique and special in their own way, so listen to your instincts and do what you think is right, you will appreciate it in the end
Always try to embrace your uniqueness and own your individuality. You might find yourself standing out in a crowd of people who are all the same but that doesn't matter because you're still unique! You have your own story to tell, and no one can take that away from you or make it less valuable just because they don't understand what makes it special.
Conclusion
The basis of this article is that everyone should be comfortable with who they are and the decisions they make, no matter how different they are from the majority. We should appreciate what makes us unique because that's what makes us awesome. This goes for anything, no matter who it affects; from hair color to hobbies to a person's sense of fashion. So while it may seem like everyone you know is starting to follow a trend, I hope this inspires you to be yourself and not worry about how you βdon't fit in.β
Thanks for reading πππ
Thursday August 18, 2022
That's right kush, it's just feel so great not forcing yourself to fit in to the trends, it is not being different but it's being unique, it's your life, you live it the way you wanted.