Have you ever been dumped? A random prompt! Hello everyone, how are you today? It's the last day of the month and tomorrow ushers in a new month; June! I remembered wishing and praying for May to be a good month for all of us, did it turn out that way? It depends on how you look at it; if you choose to look at it from the angle of cryptocurrency (lol), then no, it didn't come out pretty. My entire schedule was disrupted today because I used up my morning working on a task but I won't be going into much detail about that. I ended up doing my regular morning errands in the afternoon and before evening, I didn't have the time or mental strength to come up with an article (I am even feeling sleepy while typing this π) but luckily for me, I came across **jumper-01 article** with these set of questions. It's a set of "have you ever..." questions, so it's definitely going to be fun. https://read.cash/@Jumper-01/have-you-ever-e0d775bf
**Image source** https://www.freepik.com/free-vector/organic-flat-people-asking-questions_13186454.htm?query=Questions ...been in love? I seriously don't know if I am, to be honest. Sometimes I might think I am in love but after a while, I will just be like "Nah, this can't be it". I think that's the mistake most people make a lot, they tend to confuse love with a lot of other emotions without knowing what love is. Do I even know the meaning of love? I guess not, what about you? ...Felt lonely? Yes! Most people think I always like being on my own and yes, they are actually right but I also like having someone around to maybe show something funny on my phone or just talk about something I came across recently. I always love having someone to share a joke with, it's depressing to always be laughing alone, jokes hit differently when you're laughing about it with someone that has a good sense of humor. ...Trip to overseas? Yep, in my dreams actually π© but I would love to make that a reality one day. Most of us in my country is all about relocating abroad and I am part of those that want to run away from the country. Am I working towards achieving that? Of course, that's one of the reasons why I am focusing on acquiring a digital skill (graphics design, programming, just name it) Many people don't know it's actually very easy to get a working visa abroad if you're very skilled in one of these high-demand tech areas. I know a lot of people that are now working overseas (although some are doing it remotely) because they are very good programmers, UI/UX designers, and graphics designers. It's easier than most of the other jobs except jobs in the medical field, but it pays as high as them! β¦Talk to a stranger? I actually did last Sunday, but I hardly talk first unless the person approaches me π (I am a shy person). ...Ate a lot of ice cream? I am not really a super fan of ice cream, I tend to take them once in a while and I take them in small quantities. I bought a small cup of ice cream a few weeks ago and I got tired just halfway through it but maybe it's because I wasn't really in the mood for ice cream that day. ...Siblings fighting? We had just a few fights when we were younger. Most of my siblings are quite gentle and we can tolerate a lot, except for just one who is very hotheaded π but at least she knows better than to cause any trouble when I or my immediate younger sister is around. ...Been dumped? Not really. One thing I have observed with the opposite gender is that they are usually the ones that get more attached when it comes to a relationship (or maybe I am just the one that is abnormally less attached?). But the main reason why I haven't experienced being dumped is because of the next question.
**Image source** https://www.freepik.com/free-photo/sad-depressed-thoughtful-young-woman-feeling-bad-home_21127976.htm#query=Heartbreak&position=3&from_view=search ...Dumped someone? A lot! Most of my relationship ended with my just getting bored one day and cutting off ties with my partner. Yes I know it's very cruel but back then I didn't really care and just moved on as if nothing happened. ...Make a joke? I find this question funny because most people that know me very well know I love to laugh a lot and this usually involves making people laugh (seeing people laugh makes me laugh as well π). It's because of this that I always come up with jokes and also add a few mischiefs along with it. One of my friends even called me Loki (the god of mischief) because I am always up to no good. ...Unplanned stuff? Ever been in an unplanned relationship? π It has happened to me twice in the past. So yeah, I have done unplanned stuff in the past but I think this question is not even supposed to be part of this because I am pretty sure everyone has done a couple of things there didn't plan for at one point or the other. ..Watched a movie alone? I actually prefer watching a movie alone because I have observed that some people don't know how to watch movies and I am speaking from my experience when watching a movie with a girl. Most of them tend to fast-forward the part where there's no action (maybe a scene where two people are talking), how did you then get the full story? I once watched a movie with a girl that went straight to the end to see how it ended before going back to the beginning to start watching it π. ...Felt confused with life? Who hasn't been here before? π I did this at one point during the COVID-19 lockdown of 2020 when I suddenly got tired of my boring daily routine and I started thinking about my future, that was what pushed me to start learning a graphics design. And that's a wrap! I said it from the start that this prompt is going to be fun and it truly was fun, I enjoyed answering every question and I encourage you to do your version of this anytime writer's block comes knocking π **Thanks for reading πππ** **Tuesday May 31, 2022**
39 comments
Hahha laughing alone is a bad thing Kπ
Lol, it's more fun when we laugh with others π
Haha right π
The man that rides from London to lagos should drop off the map for people that want to leave the country, maybe Keke go dey faster π
That man try o, I just dey wonder how he take run am
Oh you are dumping your past relationships? Oh my! What a heartthrob you are bro.
π I guess you can call me that
Save more so you could visit overseas someday π
That's definitely the plan Ate Jane π
It's a long time have been in lows like that, and this question reminded me of a really bad experience I had promised to never recollect. I can't believe you've never been served before guy... Wow.. BTW, we all are tired of Nigeria and we just wanna move, I think I hear at least one person say this everyday, it's like a trend, and why shouldn't it be..??, even the most optimistic Nigerians have lost hope. Damn
I have never been served because I usually get tired and bored of the relationship before the girl even notice what's going on π
Ouch, like for realπ±π±. Bossπ
I have never been attracted by any random prompt. Maybe, the time is ripe to try some random thinking without harming others!
There's no harm in trying, these prompts are very fun π
Yeah, random prompt to impromptu blogging.
" The goal is to remain abroad and pray for nails from there. May Naija not happen to your children. * sighs*
Amen o. Make all of us leave the country for people that are enjoying it
I mostly talk to strangers when I need something and from there we begin to talk but to just walk up to them and start talking Omo it's kinda hard
Same here bro, it's only when I need something that I can just talk to one, but people have walked up to me and strike up a conversation for no reason, I wonder how they do that π
That second question, just say you miss me π. Never been in love. Hmmmm. Wahala for *'my girlfriend'*
It is what it is π
Y'all are always dumping girls in your relationships. Whereas I have never been in one. Life is so unfair, man. π©
Be careful what you wish for o π relationship isn't all bed of roses
Haha. I know. I hear a lot. ππ
Wait, is this dumping the real one, like you just ghost and never talk again or later check back in few months? Breakfast Fisher, you Supposed get awardπ₯
It's the real one. I just woke up one day and ghosted them, till now I never talk to any of them π
God have mercy. Make them no swear for you one day π€
I have never been dumped, but just ghosted. I mean, we are talking and then he was suddenly gone. No more texts, messages, and calls. JUST GONE. Lol. I think that's worst than getting dumped, right? At least they have told you something wrong, instead of just walking away.
That's the same thing I used to do in the past, I just suddenly disappear with no closure for the other person π
Getting bored one day and you just dump them hahahaha. I guess you just haven't found that one you connected with. They are too regular, you need a 'pusher'... Someone spontaneous...out of the ordinary... It's worth waiting for.
Someone that finally gets it π All the relationships I have been in has always been too similar and after a while I realize there's really no connection
I feel you... I've been there too... It's worth waiting for...when it comes, you will know.
Heart breaker!!!! Be hurting me fellow females. I'll deal with you. Well I'm shocked to hear that you're not in love kush. I really find it absurd because I for one know that I am head over heels in love and its a nice feeling to have. I hope you find love soon Sha...somehow I think it's you who won't let yourself.
Lol, that's true sha. I might probably be in love but won't realise it becsuse I can't even recognize love if it hits me in the face π or maybe I am just overthinking things sha
Just let it come cos it will...
I'm always the social butterfly where I talk to stranger and befriend with them haha gosh but not literally considering them as a friend but an acquaintance haha same kush I really don't know the meaning of love, I think I'm just in love to the idea of being inlove.
Exactly, that's what I think too, I probably just love the idea of being in love not necessarily mean that I am really in love
You are not a fan of ice-cream?? that's it.. I'm breaking up with you.. your love is fake
Oh no π I am a fan, not just a big one π