Irresponsible Husband!

I never imagined that she told me her experiences before. Why she is suffering right now of her husband. She even shared to me on how her husband treat her physically and most especially mentally, it makes her bothered day by day because of her not so good husband.

As I listened to her,

I feel sad and hurt...

Ate Jul one of my colleague started our companion when we were get together in some activities. When I started visiting her that is the time that her heart already in me where she shared some secrets in me. I don't know why she trust me in a sudden time even she doesn't know me yet. Well, she can trust me and I will not spill the beans anywhere. I don't want her putting in some instances that will make her suffered again and again. So, better don't let the cat out of the bag!

One day, when I got a chance to pass by their house because I have something to talk an important matter to Ate jul but my timing is a blessing wherein they were preparing food because her husband celebrating his natal. They don't want me to go home because I have to eat the dinner with them. Hehe see a blessing indeed, I attended an unexpected birthday celebration. What do I observed that time her husband is cool there's no any problem at all but then when they wanted to take a family picture he reacted so bad unexpectedly. He said, why there's a lot of unnecessary things to do. He is already mad as he blows his candle while his daughters & wife was speechless and pretended like to be happy. In my part I was shocked the way he treated his family so bad. The birthday went well even I was the only one visitor.

When we got a chance to talk with Ate Jul, she speaks with heavy heart. She tried to hold her tears the way she express herself with me.

Me: Why both of you became a couple Ate Jul?

Her: He is my boyfriend before and because there's something happen with us, I got pregnant. Actually, we made it because he force me. We got married not because of Love but because of the happenings.

Me: ohh, that is already rape!

Her: I don't want my child grow without a father. I need to understand him deeply and I need to sacrifice.

As I got all the answered coming from Ate Jul, I never imagined that it was all an accident experience by her. As I asking her like that I was so curious it's because Ate Jul is quite demure while his husband is bad boy, rowdy and naughty. They were totally opposite. Her husband l already known him by being so naughty in the street but then I thought he is different when it comes to their house and family. My expectations is really different from the reality because he is more high by treating his own family so bad.

Ate Jul added that his husband always shouting towards her, keep blaming her and she even received a physical abuse.

One time when Ate Jul called me that she wants me to come in their house because she wants me to teach her how to use the Microsoft word and Excel because with the technological gap of her it's hard for her to cope up those things. She will have an exam about manipulating the computer as she applied for non-teaching (To tell you honestly, Ate jul is quite a braver one wherein she took the board exam for almost 13 times before she passed the Licensure Examination) Right after the exam of her application she again shared to me what happen that day. The way she talks about it crumpled her heart again. She told me that when the exam is done she is approaching hurriedly her husband because it is waiting to her. Do you know what her husband yelled?

He said that, why you keep applying? How many times you will apply when you know you didn't still passed. Ate Jul broke her heart into pieces when he heard those things. As she said, it is so painful that I did all my best to be stronger then why this my husband always dragging me down.

I feel pity on her as her husband treating him so bad. Her husband has no work to provide their necessities. Unfortunately, his husband always asking money for the card games, definitely it was his bad habit. There were no good things been done of Ate jul husband. It always give them a hard life.

Sometimes our life might be in a struggle when we don't have any decision for ourselves. It will lead us to sacrifice day by day.

But then with the consideration to the innocent children of every family might serve as priority to make the family complete. Ughhh sad🥺