Your Actions Correlate Directly With Your Self Image

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It's natural for you to believe any thing but the thing about these labels we put on our self is, it is just a mental framework that we set up which isn't the permanent reality of who you're going to be for the rest of your life. This woke me to be conscious of the labels we subconsciously put on ourselves we'd realize how many things in our day-to-day life that we just automatically do or assume that we can do which causes a limit to our potential...

It may sound weird but its the reality, coz most people don't look deep enough inside themselves to figure out what these labels are, so what if I challenge you today to check through the labels you put on your self if they are actually pushing you forward or holding you back and that's a reflection of your self image..

Every experience we encounter creates a mental image and it's perfectly inline with your self image which the brain is always going to try to get us in line with what we created already as a self image... let's look at it this way, what if you where somewhere who had this special way of communicating to people and everybody has known you for that and then you're called some one with a good accent... you'd notice that you've learnt that all your life, and everytime you go outside and speak with people you'd expect that to be said to you...

If you can continue to push through all of that, then you can go against the years of self image you've created and if you can continue to push through all of that you can be better at creating what is right... if you are being controlled by what the environment say you are and you constantly make efforts to break that you will always feel the breakthrough. If you can take action and see success you can break the initial tag and labels and be a better you..

"So what interesting thing from your past have you overcome?"

Do you feel it controlled you for long and changed your perspective on a lot of things or just few things.. And lastly "are you still called that?" It's not easy to be let loose out of all of that but consistently we shine through cause of the willingness to be free...

If you show good actions, then you'd be tagged a good name.. that's juat how we tend to call every one that has maybe been a mentor or an icon... So let your life style be one that attracts good name, something you always want to be called all the time... Show goodness to people, do things beyond normal, change your life style and growth mindset...

Thank you reading through... happy weekend and always stay happy with a smile too...

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Life has brought too many battles to my doorstep... I simply don't think about fighting back most times because I believe what will be will be... Writings like this make me think though...

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2 years ago

Very well said, just like in work if your mindset was not to get the high position or you wanted to be same as you are now. What is the purpose of that, I believe, that in every work there some point that we learn something and that something can be used to be a great ang not to stay on what you are. Try to grow and grow, grind and grind until you succeed. We had a lot of opportunities to make us grow, don't make yourself be behind the chances to have a great life and great mind.

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3 years ago

To be honest something that we do is base off of what people regard us as and it limits our productivity even at work.. we must choose the growth lifestyle and make sure we work towards being better…

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2 years ago

Yes we must do that. And don't mind the toxic workmates or toxic people. And we must focus to be a better one.

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2 years ago

Exactly neglect those that come our way just to ruin the process… thank you

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2 years ago

You're welcome dear.💚

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2 years ago

In my case, I used to store good memories. I think this helps me a lot to build a good thoughts in my mind, and fortunately a good image to the people around me:)

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3 years ago

That’s nice and this is new… indeed people around us will still say what they want… thank you dear

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2 years ago

Whether you actually show good or bad action, people will really tag you with whatever they want. That is why for me, it will depend us on how and what we really tag ourselves with.

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3 years ago

Thank you MissJo… the only thing that should stand is what we believe about our lives and no one else… take care dear

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2 years ago

Very well said King. You take care too.

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2 years ago

Thank you dear 💛

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2 years ago

Your reflections are very accurate, and you are right, our actions define us and show us how we really are, from a small gesture I can tell you how a person's behavior is.

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3 years ago

That’s true… as little as that is one’s behavior can be identified with… truly what we do have a lot on our physical appearance

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2 years ago

You are very good at reflections :) Thank you for this article, I will consider this as a reminder to myself.

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3 years ago

Thank you for stopping by as well… you’ve been amazing

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2 years ago

We keep on receiving and absorbing the labels that this cruel world is throwing towards us, without realizing that we are not born to be judge by them.

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3 years ago

That’s right Seq… we accept a lot of things and you’d see it affecting us deeply.. we must not give in to every description or tag the World has placed on us..

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2 years ago

Our actions definitely correlates with our image. Very agreeable terms. It's incredible how this writeup is so insightful. Good work!

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3 years ago

Thank you Dear… I’m glad you came through.

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2 years ago

This believe can change many things. Our behaviours glorify our ideologies, beliefs, characters and idols. One can understand through it. The reflection will enlarge the glow.

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3 years ago

That’s true, the character within us…is it ready to accept the change and does it good effect on what you reflect.., this is a good write up

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2 years ago

Our reputation and what we think of ourselves matters a lot. We need to start looking at ourselves with respect and greatness, because us lies great potential

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3 years ago

Our reputation must be protected because it is what defines who we are… indeed we can do much ch more and be better

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2 years ago

Society knows you on the base of your behaviour and action. Most of time we recognized by our action and behaviour. People easily judge you by your way of talking, walking and hosting. But sometimes people think over like me, in my first impressions they consider me a rude and bad one. Because i don't give chance to people yo judge me.
Stay pure and do whatever you want. Don't think what people think about you.

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3 years ago

I agree with you and we get misjudged and just like you’ve said no matter what tag we get it’s an individual thing to live to the expectation of that tag of to be different… lovely contribution

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2 years ago

Thanks you so much mate.

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2 years ago

You’re welcome 🤗🤗

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2 years ago

Our actions and behaviours are the reflection of our self. 💗

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3 years ago

Exactly… that’s the truth

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2 years ago

Our mindset really tell us who we are. How we think and how we take actions reflect the real us.

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3 years ago

You are right dear… we know deeply the kind of person we are and we have to be responsible for the consequences but if we want to be better self evaluation is key..

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2 years ago

"A good name is better than the best perfume" that's what i was thought while growing up. My Dad values his reputation a lot and the best way to keep it intact is to be good at all time to everyone.

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3 years ago

I agree with you Happyboy… if we want to be called good we must show it.. God bless you

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2 years ago

This is what I believe and accept. Our work paints a picture of us. Recognition as a reflection of what we do, do not do, is presented to all. And if you want to hold on to your reputation, you must do a good job. Must be good people.

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3 years ago

Our behaviors are important in reflecting our personality, exhibiting behaviors that will be accepted by the society and that will give a good impression play an important role in reflecting our personality and establishing our character.

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3 years ago

Truly our behaviors are important because we get tagged by them in the community or any where we find ourselves in… so we must always move with a positive Trend…

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3 years ago

Coz that's how we are being known to others. Through our actions. Let's just have q positive mindset so our actions would be positive as well.

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3 years ago

Very true…our mindset should be positive and that’s the image we would always want to settle with… thank you ate Jane.. you’ve an amazing friend 💛

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3 years ago

Yes this is true sir Gozie. Our behaviors reflect into our self image. The actions you shows describe being who you are. The way you talk, perform and others. You will be judge through your actions.

It's important that we choose and apply the good morals and behaviours through ourselves. Apply it yourself. It will help you a lot. It will shows the way who you are.

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