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"The Person You Think Of As Yourself Exist Only In Your Mind"
Something that I find super helpful is to stop caring about what other people think within reasons and for the most part I really don't care about what other people think about me.. you've got to appreciate the good comments towards you but the one that are really stubby never stress about that, they really can do better than hating on you everyday. The chances are you're never going to see this person ever in your life and if that's not re-assuring here's another way to practically think about this which is a little more explanatory.. ***There is a different version of you that exists in the mind of every single person that you know, and the person that you think of as yourself exists only within your mind. Every single person that you have met or will meet, maybe had a relationship with or make eye contact or done businesses with or went to the same school all have a different version of you in their heads.*** You will be amazed that you are a different person entirely to your parents, your siblings, your co-workers, your neighbors, your partners and even your close friends. So you really do exist in several you's or let me express it as several versions and if you come to a conclusion you're not really just what you think. In the end you have to do what makes you happy in a moment as long as it does not negatively impact someone else life. If you want to be a content creator, a singer or a poet you have the free will to do that as long as it doesn't affect anybody.i think the meaning of life is to simply live it and enjoy living life. We can really get dragged into working our butts off with lots of sacrifices towards future goals... when we take life as a journey that only starts at one end and ends at the other, one representing your struggles and the other happiness then you and I will give room for people to keep saying what they say about us. Just take time to listen to the sounds and just dance and be happy. Start now to shake off your unfriendly friends that come as though they are helpers and meaningful people in your life. It's bad for you to still keep them because all they do is torment you either with words or messages. People who do love you will always have something good to say about you and always want you to be better. I had a little thought of what to share today and this came up immediately... I really do appreciate my readers and every upvotes and comments too. You all are the reason I'm still here, God bless.. ***October 2021***
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True. Some of your so-called friends will pull you down instead of lifting you. I always believe I am unique and other people cannot define who I am. They don't have the right to judge us. No one is.
That is the truth they don't have any right to define what we are... thank you Fyangzee
That's why we should be careful about who we befriend because some people will just break us. We don't please everyone so thanks to those who stay true to us.
When you believe in you and what you represent, what they say wouldn't bother you anymore.. and that's how we should live our lives and don't get too attached..
Yes, life is hard itself than there is no room for friends who don't accept and appreciate you. Let's do ourselves a favor of blocking the negatives and keeping the positives for our mental health's sake. It doesn't matter how long the friendship is, if that friend is not helpful in your mental health, cut her off.
True.. people look at us in many different ways.
Yes, a lot of people have different facts about us and you will be surprised when you hear them...
You can't please everybody. Just do what makes you happy.
Exactly, find that happiness within... thanks Bossben
I don't really care what other people think about me right from the day I have got to know that e can't please everyone, so I just left them to their dumb head. Everyone truly has a personal version of us, it is the way they see us that the version will be.
Exactly brother, we just have to move on, those people will always say a lot... the best version is what we should believe in..
That's absolutely true. One you have just met has already an impression of you. Everyone around infact. Some good, some bad. But we don't need to care about everything. What matters is what we believe we are :)
True Farmy... what we believe outweighs every opinion.. and we are happy cause we choose to..
You are right. Some friends are better shaken off, so that they won't be a stumbling block to ones life. And as much as possible we should try not to be moved by what people think of us. We are who we think or proclaim we are. Not what others think.
Very true... very well explained even much better... we shouldn't be moved by the opinion of others..
Absolutely true...some friends just come around because of what we have at hand they never loved us genuinely from their heart rather they tend to hurt us by speaking bad about us.
No one will love us except ourselves, friends are there to loved us but not how me love ourself
But I feel it brother. I feel the existence.
True, some friends just come to us for some benefits and will make our life messy so that's why it's better to stay off to them. Whatever they say or whatever opinion they have towards us don't matter, what matters is how we carry ourselves and believe for who we are.
Same here, I really don't care what other people think of me or talk behind my back, I will do whatever I want as long as I am not hurting anyone :>
That is why, we are always told to avoid people who doesn't help us grow. We should surround ourselves with people who supports and love us. Indeed, I agree that we have different version of ourselves in everyone's mind.
Staying away for negative friends and colleagues is a big step to success, because negative people can easily destroy plans.
Exactly, we can attain success through staying from people like that... I've had an experience before and It took time for me to realize that..
The best version of ourself exist within us and what others think of us doesn't matter; that's their own perspective
It's really theirs and shouldn't be what we hear and accept.. we are unique and special if only we could tell ourselves that.
All down to removing negativity from your life, no matter what it or who they may be.
Very true.... those factors don't make us grow, we only succumb to it cause we have no other way out.. thank you for coming by...