Things you Should Remember After Break up

We are not always the kid we used to be in the past. We will grow up, we will mature, we will realize things, we will make friends, we will lose friends, we will fall in love, and even we will experience heartbreak. That is life, that is the natural cycle of living.

Some of you may be confused about why I come up with this topic today even if I don't have any experience when it comes to love. I have never been in the situation of being in love as well as being in a painful heartbreak. So why wrote this? Even if I didn't experience it 'yet', I have friends who were in this situation and I saw how love makes them happy and sad at the same time.

In addition, I want people here to realize the things you shouldn't or shouldn't consider doing after you have been separated from your short or long-term partner.

Don't Post or Shae Negative Posts on social media about your ex just to seek validation and sympathy from others

I know someone who did this after being in a separation. He often shared a lot of negative posts on his social media accounts about his ex. I don't know if that is his coping mechanism to move forward but I can see that he is making fun of it like being in a relationship with that person is a kind of a joke.

We should always be mindful of the things we are sharing on social media, according to a well-known quote"Think before you click". Before posting, know what is your purpose. If your purpose is just to embarrass the person publicly or seek sympathy from others who don't know the whole story, then don't do it.

People tend to say something bad even if they don't know the true reason behind the separation.

Don't make any assumptions about the reason behind the separation

I didn't expect to be involved in their breakup. I was suspected that I am the reason for their separation as well as the circle of friends that my girl friend belongs to. He has some posts about me which tell a message indirectly. The message is like this...

"Akala ko boy best friend lang talaga"

"Jowa mo tinropa ng kaibigan mo"

As you can see he is making his assumptions without confronting the person which can add to the confusion. If you have any issues or questions in your mind, it is better to ask the person frankly and directly.

Assumptions can lead to misinformation.

What happened in your relationship should be kept private

What happened in the relationship should stay inside the relationship. Experiencing a breakup doesn't give you a right to expose the things you two did or the secrets you had shared. If you still respect the person, you will not do it for your revenge and satisfaction.

Exposing the secrets you know about the person doesn't excuse you to be a bad person. That kind of act doesn't make you cool too, you are just proving to everyone that you are not worthy to trust.

Hi everyone! This is it for now. I was absent for the previous days because of my final exams and activities so I need to set aside other things and focus more on the most important ones. Have a great night ahead!

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