Marriage is honourable, but when you marry wrong, it will be catastrophically be dishonoured. In our societies today, we find some good girl falling into the hands of bad guys who never deserved having them, and we begin to reason what the cause could be. Here today, i bring to you the four reasons why good girls marry wrong.

1. Marrying a guy all because he has money. 

Some girls ended up in bad marriage because all they wanted was money! This reminds me of a girl called Titilope, who would always say she must marry a very rich guy, she would say it in pidgin that "if the guy no get money, make e hide him face, no be me go marry am".At last she found a guy who had money, who was very rich, but she didn't know the source of his money, she was just spending as she liked, today shopping in Dubai, tomorrow in London, she drove expensive cars and was living big in money, not knowing the rich guy did money ritual. The next person the guy would use for his money ritual was the lady. He killed her and used her blood for money ritual, for more money, not minding she was his wife. Can you see how badly she died because all she wanted was a guy who has money?

2. Marrying a guy all because of emotion!

When you allow your emotions take over your discretion, the result may not be good. When emotion has taken over, you're seeing that the guy is stingy now but because you are under the influence of emotion, you closed your eyes to it. A stingy fiance will be a stingy husband! Note that!  All the things that cause problems in marriage, they were present when people were dating, but emotions blinded their eyes. You have seen he is a toxic person, he has slapped you once, twice or many times, and you kept saying you were the one that provoked him, that he would change. Change i hear? Change my foot! A guy that doesn't change when you're dating will not change in marriage! Do not ignore the red Flags! I repeat, do not ignore the red Flags.

3. Just so desperate to marry.

Some good Ladies married the wrong guys because of desperation. I have discovered over the years that everything that is done in desperation is never a good decision, and it's never done well. Just be patient! Ask God for the strength to be patient. Do not enter one chance! I repeat, do not enter one chance, all because you can't wait anymore! Your parents are putting you under pressure, your friends are putting you under pressure, you are still a teenager but putting yourself under pressure because you just want to taste marriage. Calm down!

4. Having the wrong believe that all marriages are problematic and bad.

There are some girls that have the wrong believe that you can't find a good man, that you can't have a good marriage, they will say all marriages are problematic, let me just choose my own problem. They would easily forget that marriage is a long life journey. 

I could remember a lady, she was our neighbour back then, she would tell her friends that "do not follow all those things they tell you about good marriage, there are no good marriage anywhere, just marry anybody you see, because if you're waiting for good marriage, it'll never happen". Some people have the wrong believe that there is no need to first know the person better, just marry him. Those wrong believes are what you should erase from your mind, you can have a good and beautiful marriage, you deserve a good marriage.

It's better you to take it with somebody you will enjoy it with, somebody you will love genuinely, and will love you truly, make up your mind to look for the best available for you. Look for the basic qualities in him that will make you joyous in the marriage.  

Do not marry the wrong guy, don't let anyone put you under pressure, take your time to choose the best for yourself. Don't marry him only because he has money, try and see if the source of his money is legit, and you too, work hard, the real guy will come for you and respect you.

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