Hello beautiful souls!
A very special morning (day) to you, hope you're doing good? The week has been a wonderful one for me, I've been jumping from one Platform to another trying out how they look, like going around tasting different soups, and I won't lie some soups are bitter like pure bitter leaf. Lol🤣.
Thank you sponsors ✌️🥰Yesterday I posted something on my WhatsApp status about the struggles to be in a good relationship and I got a lot of reactions but one really caught my attention because he went down to give me a gist about his relationship life.
But come to think of it, don't you think people are giving too much attention to this relationship stuff, like don't People think of eating good food? As for me, if you'll be giving me goat meat and say I shouldn't near a relationship for a year, omo I'll gladly jump on the offer. I love goat meat and can't trade it for anything. Lol.
In a more sense, it's better to be in good health with food than to be battling with relationship saga every now and then.
Alright, so when this guy reacted to my post, he said he prefers food to anything relationship and I laughed so loud because I know a bit about his relationship status. The guy has seen "pepper"(He has seen a lot) in the hands of Ladies. I've seen pepper oo! But his own is the Yoruba type of pepper. Lol.
Based on relationship coach that i am🤪, I began to counsel him to find the love of his life regardless of what he's seen in the past. He said he has a problem with love.
He quoted a Bible scripture;
Songs Of Solomon 8:6 "Set me as a seal upon thine heart, as a seal upon thine arm: for love [is] strong as death; jealousy [is] cruel as the grave: the coals thereof [are] coals of fire, [which hath a] most vehement flame"
He said when he loves, he loves with all his might, spirit and soul. "Haaaa! In this era!" I exclaimed. Please don't get me wrong, I'm heading to somewhere.
He went further to tell me that his ex left him because he was showing too much affection, in a clearer note, let's use BEING TOO CLINGY.
This is the point I'd like to analyzed. There's nothing wrong to love to the fullest infact that's the idea love. But modern days relationship has jeopardized this Patten of love. Now you're seen as a clingy person when you show much affection and to most people, it's not a welcome approach to their Patten of relationship.
I like saying it the way it is, relationship life is no longer how it used to before, the things that used to be valued before have been replaced with alot of things.
Examples;
Love used to be the uttermost interest in relationship but now, money has taken over. I know a lot of people would say this is not their pattern but let's go for a survey, you'll see that a lot of people put finance first in relationship before love. Like me now, I don't have a babe because I don't have money 🤣. Who want to date a broke guy? 🤣.
A sound Relationship used to be the target of relationship those days even though it's not gonna lead to marriage but now, the major focus has been turned to a typical pleasure.
With all these happening, breakup and divorce here and there, I still recommend that someone shouldn't be out to commit 100% to relationship. Do you know why? Once you're seen on that level, you becomes somehow cheap and prone to easy Heartbreak. I'm not saying you shouldn't love or show love to your partner but bro, please reduce your affection to 60% in order to avoid "see finish".
Like my friend I talked about, he was all out for love, giving too much attention to be point that he became clingy, what did the lady did? She served him breakfast(Heartbreak) and left. It sounds unserious but that's the situation we've found ourselves today.
Honestly, if you give me mic to preach about relationship in churchy, I'm sure I'd be pursued to leave because I won't minced word, I like to say it as it's real.
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By the way, I was glad when I got a notification of Rusty's visitation on one of my old Articles yesterday, finally I'm still valued. Lol.
Thank youuuu!
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28th July 2022
I believe that there are those who are meant to be single and to be left alone and yes, rice is life lol!