Law of Romantic attraction

18 December 2021

If you are a person like me that usually surf the web for random things to read about or random videos to watch mostly on YouTube, you must have come across one of those videos where most content creators title “how to make yourself more attractive to the opposite sex”. I have seen a bunch of such videos and honestly I don’t think there is one particular formula or one particular way to make yourself more attractive to the opposite sex.

I think it’s all in the way we act and react to certain situations when the person or persons we are trying to attract are around us. Especially if you are a guy trying to get the attention of a lady, you need more than just mere reaction, action and calculation, you need luck to be on your side if you are going to get a lady’s attention 😂😂because my ladies ehn .. I respect y’all so much.

Let me see if I can explain the law of attraction according to my own philosophy.. I hope this makes sense.

TO GUYS

I Think ladies are generally attracted to a man who shows strength, confidence and power. Wealth might be secondary, looks too but I think once you can show a lady that she is safe with you in every way you are one step close to winning her heart.

In the case of confidence my friends and I once carried out a little experiment on how to approach a girl with confidence. This is what we did

We went to locations where nobody knew us and we asked one of our friends who is very shy when talking to girls to speak to a number of girls we saw on the way.

We discovered that because he had nothing to loose seeing that we might never see these girls ever again in our life, it was kind of easy for him to talk to them and even get their number. His confidence shot higher and it reflected in his speech and movement.

So in comparison to how ladies responded to him on the past because he didn’t show confidence when taking to them we were able to deduce that when you show confidence or act like you don’t care if they respond or not, 90% of the time ladies would respond to you in an appropriate manner

So the next you approach a girl you like show confidence bro.

Money is essential too, once she notices that you have enough money to take good care of her you are one step closer to stealing her heart. Looks are also good because they are the first thing she sees before you engage her in a conversation but if there is one thing I have noticed it is that looks aren’t everything what counts when it comes to physical appearance is dressings, physique, body scent and general hygiene.

Now I don’t know these things for sure I am only speaking from personal research and experiences.

TO GIRLS

As a guy I would tell you this my ladies, don’t make yourself seem un-approachable it might scare us guys. Also don’t make yourself seem too accessible. 😂😂 wait let me try to explain some guys like a challenge that is when you make it hard for them to get to you. They see it as a challenge and as such they are motivated to try all their tricks to make sure they win you over.

Well personally I am not like that, please don’t stress me if you like me once I tell you that I like you just say you like me back or else I would leave you alone in peace. I don’t like to humiliate myself twice.

In my years as a male person on the earth I have discovered that the most attractive ladies are the independent ones. Not just financially but in every other aspect of life. Guys are easily attracted to a woman who seem like she doesn’t need a man but mind you ladies, don’t over do it know when to draw the line. If you start acting like you can do it all or like you don’t need us for. Sh**t then we guys will run away from you.

To everyone in general

I feel like the main way to attract anyone you admire is it work on yourself, love yourself and invest in yourself. Be the best version of yourself, once you are able to do that constantly it will automatically show on the outside and before you know it everybody would want to be close to you because trust me, we as human beings will can identify a person who shines brightly. So in conclusion just be yourself and do your thing your own way. Take corrections when you are wrong. Listen to people, be kind and help people when they are in need. That is all I have for now

“it’s not jazz or anything special it’s just the law of romantic attraction”

Thank you for your time as always and merry Christmas in advance friends.

©2021 jumper