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Is love truly the same?

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Written by   316
1 month ago

Monday 16th of may 2022.

I wrote once about something I saw online…

A guy who was heartbroken because his girlfriend cheated on him so he decided to give a visual representation of how he felt what she has done to him meant.

He asked her to take a ceramic plate, which she did. Told her to throw the plate on the floor. She did and immediately the plate broke into a several piece. He then took the plate and glued each piece back. And surprisingly enough the plate could be used for eating seeing as he glued it so well.

He then said to her “this plate is glued and can function again but you can see that something is different about it. Those lines from where I glued the pieces together are still very much visible. And it would be so forever”.

The point I'm attempting to make with the short narrative above is whether or not love remains the same when things happen to individuals in love. Do couples that have a falling out because of particular situations come back stronger or better? Or they simply revert to their previous state.

Time.

Time is a very big factor. There is a saying “you can never know for sure if you love a person for sure unless you live with them a week or travel with them to foreign destination”.

Most people tell themselves that with time they will eventually forget the past and all will be great again. And honestly, it probably always is like that but what if it’s not, is that okay too?.

Here is something totally unrelated, do you find it easy to not miss your spouse or partner when you spend too much time with them?(for those of us in a relationship not for the single Pringles like me on here hehehe). I am asking because the term “love” has evolved over the years. It is not what it use to be.

In the past people married for love and it was okay if they didn’t have enough money love was all that matter but now that is not mostly the case you hear people tell you things like “Marry him because he is financially capable with time you would fall in love with him”. ( and as much as it is not a bad thing to marry a person who you feel protected with in every way we have to agree that it wasn’t always like this in the past)— I guess we are woke now !!

In the past monogamy meant one man for one woman or one woman for one man but now it just simply means one man for one woman at a time or one woman for one man at a particular time meaning it is can change at any time.

It used to be “till death do us part” now it is more of “till love dies”Is love even reliable. I just feel like I would loose my sh**t if I woke up and a person I am so much in love with has fallen out of love with me.

I hate it sometimes when people say heartbreak is a journey that we must go through(it might be true or might just be something people say) be that as it may I don’t like to think it is a journey Because the honest truth is heartbreak is heartbreak. It is just pure, undiluted mountain of pains and hurting. So let’s not paint it like it is some ingredients or life’s way or building us ( and I know what you are thinking just let me be in my feelings right now 😂😂).


what I think ?

Love is truly a drug and once you get hooked you become addicted but if something happens that changes your life and hurts you badly you can cut yourself away from that “drug”. Don’t get me wrong it would be hard and scary. It will take time and sometimes you would want to wish that things were different but I guess what they say is real “time will tell and life would happen” and you would move on.

Some people are lucky they find their one true love early and that’s for life. Others? Well it takes them a life time to find their one true love. Either ways love freely, love with all your heart because what other options do you have. Hehehe.

Thank you for reading.✍️
Jumper.

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I was arguing with a girl a few months ago and she said if I caught my girlfriend cheating, what will I do? I simply told her that I will end the relationship but she said we can still continue having a good relationship because some people forgive their partner and still have a very good relationship.

The truth is that yes it's possible to still continue with the relationship but things will never be the same. I also made use of that broken ceramic plate analogy and I asked her if the plate will go back to its original perfect stage and she said no, and that's exactly the same thing with a relationship when trust has been broken, it can never go back to what it used to be

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1 month ago

Exactly and most women will argue this and say the reason it didn’t go back to it normal form was because the man never really loved the woman or the woman never really loved the man in whichever case it may be. I just feel like if you can trust a person 100% then what good is being in a relationship with them if at every point you are going to be doubting their every move

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1 month ago

That's just it, why still continue with the relationship when you can't even trust the person, and you will end up always paranoid and that itself is harmful to our mental health

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1 month ago

I have never come across this kind of love in my life.. Love always comes with terms and conditions.. Fairy tale love we watch on shows and movies never happen in real life.

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1 month ago

Exactly which makes me wonder why the media paints love like it has no hard parts like everything about love is flowers and rainbows

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1 month ago

Distance, like time, is a key factor. I may be vibing with you and all if I truly love you, but when I don't receive the same energy, I won't give up on you right away because I see you every day, but when we just distanced ourselves a little... Love will undoubtedly die.

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1 month ago

Yeah you are right and I even have proof of what you just said now thanks for being honest one cold beer for you

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1 month ago

I don't drink beer please

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1 month ago

Sharap stop lieing 😂

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1 month ago

I have always said that you guys cannot take what they do and I'm not saying that a girl should cheat. Naturally, I don't like it. And if the guy happens to be my brother, I won't let the relationship work any longer because if a girl should ever cheat on you it means that she fell in love with the person. Girls don't cheat if they don't love the other person

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1 month ago

Exactly my point but I don’t want it to look like I am only pointing at women because I want double standards I am saying in general once trust is broken it is hard to find back

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1 month ago

Love should be equal feelings and one shouldn't wait for the other to do all the work. It's pains me that love is no longer as it use to be n

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1 month ago

They don’t make love like they use to in the older days

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1 month ago

When a lover's heart is already broken, it can hardly hold the quantity of love it used to hold. The partners might come back together but the love in whose heart was broken would never remain the same, it would have dropped.

In this life, things aren't equal at all, some people are very fortunate to find their spouse within a few period of time, while for some it take years. No wonder they say this life is not balanced.

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1 month ago

Yeah you right .. some people it would take a life time to find their true love

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1 month ago

It is disappointing how people get into relationship for an entirely selfish reasons.

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1 month ago

Yeah that is what we call “relationship” these days

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1 month ago

My take is that if you love someone, do not do anything to hurt him or her

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1 month ago

What I think about bridge in relationship due to some faults(especially cheating) is that, there's possibility of coming back together and live well again but somehow, one the victim would still be seeing the partner as not trustworthy. Like, the thought would still be there and any spark can blow up things again

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1 month ago

Exactly my point because even if you try to forget when you remember how they might have like the cheating process you might flare up again

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1 month ago

Hmmm, after break up and coming back might be stronger for some while it might be weaker for some. Love is sweet but hmmm, difficult to understand.

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1 month ago

Oshey lover boy let’s get it 😂😂

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