Arrgh!! What’s the point

28 December 2021

When I like them they don’t like me, when they like me I don’t like them.

So I was having a casual conversation with my dad this evening and for some weird reason we started taking about marriage. I explained to him that I would only get married when I find the right girl. A girl that wouldn’t confuse me with games and stuff but for now I am single to stupor ( I didn’t tell him these exact words to be honest). .. okay I might have exaggerated a little bit I have some prospects but my point is I don’t think I understand women enough to get married .. let me explain.. this is a very delicate topic so I would try as much as possible not to step on any of all my Amazon’s foots( my female audiences).

Story story .. this is My real life story ..

In my first year in school, I had a best friend let’s call him K for privacy reasons. K had a female friend. They knew each other from secondary school. I got to know her the day he was on a call with her, she asked who was the guy in the background while they were talking. I spoke to her afterwards after which she agreed to let me get her number from my friend.

She was the cutest, and considering the fact that I just broke up with my then ex. I wasn’t looking for another relationship whatsoever but damn!! She was so cool. We vibed and all, in just a few weeks I was already catching feelings.

K and I loved to talk about sports and stuff but after I got E’s number things changed( let’s call her E for privacy reasons). Whenever we met they only thing we talked about was E. I asked him what she liked?, who she has dated? What are favorite things were? .. you know all that stupid love stuff( sorry love is not stupid forgive my words). I even learnt a bit of edo language just because I wanted to impress her.😂 i funny gan.

After about 3 months of texting back and forth ( mind you i have never seen her in real life before) I decided to make my move. I told her I liked her a lot and that I understand that circumstances might not allow us to meet in person for the time being but I didn’t want to waste anymore time with her and so I wanted her to be mine. Maybe not my girlfriend per say but I just wanted to be sure she felt the same way I felt for her. ( Awwn I was so sweet and innocent and stuff). Long story short she said she didn’t like me like that because she likes someone else. One of the saddest day of my life😂 I can’t even lie.

Anyways I took my L like a man and moved on. We stop texting and talking because it became awkward. Only for me to find a text from her to my friend “K” where she was angry at him because he didn’t say “ I love you” back to her when she said “I love you” to him. I became upset immediately deleted all my chats with her and even her number. I had nothing to say to her.

I didn’t talk to “K” for about 2 days not because I was angry at him. I was angry for sure but at “E” for not telling me it was my friend she liked from the start. I mean we “virtual kissed” a lot of times , that should mean something to her right.? Right guys ?

Anyways I was mostly angry at myself for falling so stupidly for her. I felt really stupid, I knew she couldn’t be mine yet I still fell like a goat. Fast forward to like 2 months later “K” and I was over that episode and honestly I was cool with him dating her or even wanting to marry her. I honestly didn’t care anymore. He would sometimes tell me she asked about me but I didn’t pay attention to anything that has to do with her.

Finally on my birthday, I got a text from a strange number wishing me happy birthday and saying “I miss you a lot and I want you back”. I didn’t pay attention to it because you know how birthdays can be you get so much text from a lot of people, you can barely keep up with people saved on your phone talk more of people texting you again for the first time or strange numbers texting you.

K sent me a screenshot of the epistle she wrote on my picture asking me if I saw what she uploaded on WhatsApp. I lied and said yes so he could stop talking about her.

The next thing i saw was a text from the same strange number Saying she missed me, she was sorry for not accepting my proposal and that she actually liked me then she was just afraid. I asked her what she was afraid of ? Guess what she said ?..

Leave a comment on what you think happened next .. and I would be posting the rest of the story tomorrow…

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