I have written about Positive Thoughts and Affirmations in the previous days and it seems to me that the articles have gone well with people who read my articles. Today I will write a little about self-confidence, which, I would say, is lacking in many people, and I hope that you are not one of them :)
Self-confidence is the key to success. Faith in ourselves and our qualities are the basis of our relationship with other people and in business, and how much self-confidence we have directly reflects on how much enthusiasm and motivation we will go through every day of our lives. That is why it is necessary to continuously work on self-satisfaction and building self-confidence. There are countless ways to strengthen your personality, and today is always the only and right time to start a fight. Here are some ways to deal with your insecurities.
Constant self-improvement
A strong personality is almost always a personality that does not give up on continuous work on itself. Whether you are doing education by gaining knowledge in personal interests such as history or art, or training in the industries in which you work, the results will not be missed and you will appreciate yourself more when you realize that you are good at a field.
Think about ways you can educate yourself. The Internet is available to everyone, and we have a lot of content that we can use. If you like to socialize and be surrounded by people, ask about conferences and seminars that are organized in your city.
Take care of your own appearance
Concern for appearance serves not only that others perceive us in a certain way, but also that we come into contact with other people with much more self-confidence. Our appearance is often a reflection of our health and mental state, so taking care of our diet and daily physical activity are very important.
Sometimes we are not satisfied with the characteristics of our own face or body and it is perfectly okay to do something about it, change the color of our hair, get a haircut, undergo some cosmetic treatment.
Attitude towards others
Character and self-confidence are not built in loneliness. It is also important for self-confidence to surround ourselves with people who see us as we really are and love us for it. Therefore, it is an important step on the path from an insecure to a strong personality to constantly work on our social life and relationship with others, to meet different people, try to understand them and through them get to know ourselves.
Affirmations
And when we do everything right by working on valuing ourselves, sometimes it happens that the subconscious mind hinders us in building self-confidence. One unkind sentence sent to us in our teenage years can follow us and determine our whole life, if we do not work on overcoming our inner insecurities. That is why it is sometimes important to repeat affirmations to yourself every day.
You can read all about positive thoughts and affirmations in my previous articles.
Education, care for one's physical appearance, self-knowledge, but also a relationship with other people are the foundations of self-confidence and personality empowerment. That is why it is important not to skip any of these steps and work on self-improvement every day, but also to repeat to ourselves every day how much we value and why we should not determine ourselves based on current trends, prejudices or opinions of others about us. Only when we fight with these steps will we become a strong person and face with dignity all the obstacles that come our way. Don't forget my mother's magic sentence: "I want it, I can do it, I can do it."
I would love to hear your opinion on this article. Hello to all of you @Jigglyspy
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Predhodnih dana sam pisala o Pozitivnim mislima i afirmacijama i cini mi se da su clanci dobro prosli kod ljudi koji citaju moje clanke. Danas cu vam pisati malo i o samopozdanju koje, rekla bih, manjka kod dosta osoba, a ja se nadam da vi niste jedna od njih :)
Samopouzdanje je kljuc uspeha. Vera u sebe i svoje kvalitete osnova su naseg odnosa i prema drugim ljudima i u poslu, a to koliko samopouzdanja imamo direktno se odrazava na to sa koliko cemo entuzijazma i motivacije prolaziti kroz svaki dan svog zivota. Zbog toga je potrebno kontinuirano raditi na zadovoljstvu samim sobom i gradnji samopouzdanja. Postoji bezbroj nacina da osnazite svoju licnost, a danas je uvek jedini i pravi trenutak da krenete u borbu. Evo nekoliko nacina da se izborite sa svojim nesigurnostima.
Stalno samousavrsavanje
Jaka licnost je gotovo uvek ona licnost koja ne odustaje od kontinuiranog rada na sebi. Bilo da radite naedukaciji tako sto cete sticati znanja iz oblasti licnih interesovanja poput istorije ili umetnosti, ili da se strucno usavrsavate u oblastima industrije u kojoj radite, rezultati nece izostati i vise cete ceniti sebe kada shvatite da se dobro snalazite na nekom polju.
Razmislite na koje nacine mozete da se edukujete. Internet je svima dostupan, a tu imamo mnogo sadrzaja koja mozemo da upotrebimo. Ukoliko volite da se druzite i budete okruzeni ljudima raspitajte se o konferencijama i seminarima koji se organizuju u vasem gradu.
Briga o sopstvenom izgledu
Briga o izgledu ne sluzi samo tome da nas drugi percipiraju na odredjen nacin vec i tome da sa mnogo vise samopouzdanja ulazimo u kontakt sa drugim ljudima. Nas izgled cesto je odraz naseg zdravstvenog i mentalnog stanja, pa su briga o ishrani i svakodnevna fizicka aktivnost veoma bitni.
Ponekad nismo zadovoljni karakteristikama sopstvenog lica ili tela i sasvim je u redu uraditi nesto povodom toga, promeniti boju kose, osisati se, podvrgnuti se nekom kozmetickom tretmanu.
Odnos prema drugima
Karakter i samopouzdanje se ne grade u usamljenistvu. Za samopouzdanje je vazno i okruziti se ljudima koji nas vide onakvima kakvi zapravo jesmo i vole nas zbog toga. Zbog toga je vazan korak na putu od nesigurne do jake licnosti da konstanto radimo na svom drustvenom zivotu i odnosu sa drugima, da upoznajemo razlicite ljude, pokusamo da ih razumemo i kroz njih spoznajemo sebe.
Afirmacije
I kada sve ispravno uradimo radeci na tome da vrednujemo sebe, ponekad se desava da nas podsvest koci u izgradnji samopouzdanja. Jedna neljubazna recenica koja nam je upucena u tinejdzerskim godinama moze nas pratiti i odredjivati ceo zivot, ukoliko ne poradimo na tome da se izborimo sa unutrasnjim nesigurnostima. Zbog toga je ponekad vazno svakodnevno sebi ponavljati afirmacije.
Sve o pozitivnim mislima i afirmacijama mozete procitati u mojim predhodnim clancima.
Obrazovanje, briga o sopstvenom fizickom izgledu, samospoznaja ali i odnos sa drugim ljudima temelji su samopouzdanja i osnazivanja licnosti. Zbog toga je vazno ne preskociti ni jedan od ovih koraka i svakodnevno raditi na samousavrsavanju, ali i ponavljati samom sebi svakodnevno koliko vrednimo i zbog cega ne treba da se odredjujemo na osnovu trenutnih trendova, predrasuda ili misljenja drugih o nama. Tek kada se izborimo sa ovim koracima postacemo jaka osoba i dostojanstveno se suociti sa svim preprekama koje nam se nadju na putu. Ne zaboravite carobnu recenicu moje majke: "Ja to hocu, ja to mogu, ja to umem".
Volela bih da cujem vase misljenje o ovom clanku. Pozdrav za sve vas @Jigglyspy
Zdravo samopouzdanje je nesto sto je neophodno da ima svako od nas. Licno, nemam problem sa tim, ali znam da to nije nest sa cim se radjamo nego je potrebno mnogo raditi na sebi ( ako mozete sami, a ako ne uz profesionalnu pomoc). Ukoliko ga nemamo, zivot stvarno meoze d nam bude krajnje tezak komplokovan.