Unable to hate them despite what they did.

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We tend to hate people who did bad things right without knowing what the real reason why they commit that kind of thing. This is true in the real world and some of us curse them to the bone. Disrespecting them to the extent of even their family will be involve. That's not right especially the young generations in their families. Whatever crime those old people did, they have nothing do with it, if they did nothing about it so they are innocent about it.

I hope that kind of act will not be normalize because as I can see now if one member of the family committed a crime, other people already see the whole family as bad people. It's just too much. Toxic branding of the society.

Cancelling someone without any connection to what happened is something unacceptable we humans do just to please those people who only thinks of themselves. Can we not just ignore those gossips about them and just mind our own business. It's not that hard to do but many refuse to do it. They want to be marites, waiting for the latest issue they can throw to people's back.

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I had a classmate in highschool wherein his rights was being violated even by the teachers just because his father killed someone but he didn't want that to happen. It's just a self defence but the family of the deceased one has a power in the society. They pinned him down blaming him for the crime.

He was so quiet in the classroom and he only stays at one corner of the room. Others were afraid to approach him and others are making fun of him by sticking those unpleasant words in his back or in his bag. One of them was "Son of a murderer". For heavens sake, is it pleasant in their eyes to see words like that.

We had a group project back then by pair of two. Everyone avoided him but not me. I know what is right and wrong so I partnered with him. At first he was silent but when I said "Can't you speak? Your saliva in your mouth will be spoiled na." Ofcourse I said that in tagalog haha. There's no way I can talk in english with a friend.

From that moment I heard his voice and it's not that loud lol. But when we get along each other and I got this trust, he's so talkative. So he told me their story about his father and it's just sad that since elementary he was being discriminated. He said that it doesn't matter to him what they say and he's right.

I advice him also to be more lively because he's being a weirdo inside the class. Maybe others can understand him better if he become more sociable. I know that not everyones mind is close to understand something especially those kind of matters.

At the end of the semester he made some friends other than me who choose to respect him and not to brand him like his father. I'm happy for him and they already transfered to Santiago city, Isabela but we have communication.


Another one is the siblings from Kimetsu no yaiba or demon slayer anime. Those siblings who done something very bad to the people in the area. I hate them at first but when I watched their back story, my hate was dominated by pity.

Those siblings suffered a lot of discrimination from the people there so when they were helped by someone who's a demon, they accepted the offer because they were sick of humans already. They promise to themselves that they will devore every human in that place.

From that point you can already guess what's the lesson there. We are not born with the nature of being bad guys, we were innocent and good in nature but because of the sick society we are living in, it turns us to be bad. I wish this society we are living in will create more good humans than bad humans in order for everyone to be happy and not just those people who's selfish.

Author's note

Please open up your mind to something you can fully understand. Don't be childish and selfish about things like what I discussed above. You'll just regret it in the end.

Also stop that toxic branding of people, it will only add more hate and you're not helping the person at all. Also you're just wasting your energy and saliva sticking your nose in their business. I hope you understand the things I want to convey in this article. I hope that everyone is able to enjoy life. We must not judge people's shoes if we are not ready to try their shoes.

This is my article for today and I thank you for being with me til this part. Your support,comments and likes are much appreciated. See you next time friends, a peaceful sunday to all.

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I have watched Demon Slayer before and I even read the manga. All I can say is that, the demons may be bad, but their back story will make us pity for them. We realized that they enter the world of evilness because of those experiences.

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2 years ago

That is really a toxic mindset of a lot of people. I mean it is our nature to judge and criticize other people by the mistakes of the people related to them. Unkonwingly, the people we judge undergo a difficult time because who wouldn't? They are judge unfairly. Sometimes they even fall into depression. Those teachers need to do better. They are teachers already. They know better in handling those cases. They should be the one to promote anti- bullying programs. And they should be the very people who will try to be compassionate.

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2 years ago

Other's can't see it and even if they see it or know it, they pretend they didn't...I agree on the teachers part ..they are the makers of successful person and not the destroyers..

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2 years ago

We really should be more understanding and treat each other with kindness. Everyone deserves chances. Also, we should not blame others for the fault they did not commit. Who are we to judge? Are we all perfect? We turn people into monsters with the way we treat them and when they do, we blame them. Kudos to you for seeing the goodness in others. Your family should be proud of that.

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2 years ago

That's the saddest part po ..if they turn into their rebellious state ..we hate them more ..we cancel them more without realizing that we made them.. It's just too easy to see ourselves in a mirror but others just can't do it ..hayyst

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2 years ago

That's a kind gesture of yours, this society designed people to judge so easily without knowing what's the real deal of that person, yet Imgad that there's still people who's like you that gives color and bring back the confidence and help people like him to go through and move forward again with life like a simple act of yours gives him another light in the darkness.

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2 years ago

That simple act can save someone .though ...I can't just stand what they're doing at him ...I know what's right for everyone so I can't turn a blind eye to it.. If I hadn't done it who knows what might happened... There's a time that a person will overflow also..

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2 years ago

Well said, bro. I have a distant relative that has the same case as your friend. We were classmates back then in elementary and some of our classmates are teasing her. Even other teachers look down on her. I'm the only one who is been by her side until the moved to another city.

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2 years ago

Awwshii.. Teachers are involved also. What a sad thing. I have high respect for teachers out there but maybe some of them need to re-educate theirselves in moral values.. some of them lack of it.

I hope she's alright..

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2 years ago

Yeah, she's fine now and she becomes friends again with our classmates.

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2 years ago

Ayunn..so happy for her po ..☺

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2 years ago

I feel so sorry of what his been through. Probably, he was experiencing discrimination that will be turn to depression. It's so sad that most people in this country is very inconsiderate.

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2 years ago

Imaginine mo ganyan rin ako HAHAAHAH, ang ingay konsa social media pero sa personal wala kang maririnig na kahit ano o matatanggap na slaita saken. Maingay langa ko kpaag close ko yung tao

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2 years ago

Meron talagang ganyan jher. I judge lang agad kahit di pa alam kung anong totoong nangyari. Yung iba napaka bully pa talaga. Dapat alamin din natin yung side nila hindi yung agad na bibitaw nalang ng salitang hindi maganda. Sobrang bait mo Jher. Malaking tulong yun sa kanya nung nakipagpartner ka sa kanya.

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2 years ago

Libre lang naman po maging open sa lahat ngunit tila di kayang gawin ng nakararami... May mga ibang kaklase kopa po siguro na may gusto makipagfriend sa kaniya pero dahil sa takot na baka mabrand din na kaibigan ng mamatay tao ..di nila magawa....which is a sad fact even now..

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2 years ago

Can we have just a moment here for respect? I loved what you said here and what's the point of your article. From being good in nature transform into bad guys because of how the society treated them.

A sad reality of truth. The sin of the father converted and passed to their children. Truly unacceptable reason of branding to someone's soul.

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2 years ago

It's like those kind of people make the sin of the father a heridetary disease...I hope they will not do that to the next generations of their family..

They made a judgement already to the whole family which is a taboo.

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2 years ago

In this kind of sick society some unsocial culture is spreading and making those thing more bad. I am really sad to say that in every class of people there are some people like that who takes their business as disturbing others. I am glad that your friend was calm to accept all those bad behaviours but it could be changed if he was too much angry on them. We should not punish all just for one.

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2 years ago

I'm glad also that those very means of actions didn't bother him at all.. He used to be treated like that..Some people out there suffers the same thing and I hope that someone has to stop their suffering..

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2 years ago

I appreciate your thoughts. We don't have right to say something about anyone without know their real story. Before judgment we need to sure that what is the actual matter, and who did wrong.

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2 years ago

They think highly of themselves that's why they act like that...they have money and they think they are god theirselves.. Can't understand what's going on in their minds..

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2 years ago

You are always kind in your acts. you are a very mature person. And yes, in this generation the sad thing is when we see the kids doing those things which can be termed as bullying. it is very bad.

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2 years ago

It's always free to be kind my friend..that's why I have no reason not to do it if it can save someone from the dark ..why not..

Yeah ..it's more than a bullying anymore. I hope the kids of these kind of children will be responsible also.

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2 years ago

I agree with this, society can make us change according to how they are treated us. It's so sad there's a people who keeps on judging others by the mistakes of their relatives or parents.

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2 years ago

I'm being puzzled all the time I see those kind of people.. are they getting pleasure from doing that.. I can't understand them sometimes that's why I just ignored them.

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