Secrets to be happy
Happiness is a choice. Will you believe it? Choosing to be happy depends on you, depends on how you think and how you react.
Sometimes most of us depends our happiness on our money,on our job, on our business, on our children, on our spouse, on our family, on our friends or to anyone that can contribute happiness. But how about if all of them are missing? Can you still find happiness?
I want to share to you some secrets on how to be happy:
1. Love yourself
First and foremost loving ourself is the most important thing to be happy. If you don't love yourself and just left it to others you cannot be happy as always. Love others to be happy but love yourself more to be more happier.
Love yourself more than others.
2. Put your past to rest
Sometimes we keep on thinking about our sad past. It will keep us on crying. It will keep us on hurting ourselves again and again. It will keep us hate other person and sometimes we could say bad words towards other. This will give us pain not just mentally but also physically because our body will be affected what our mind thinks.
You cannot change what had happened in the past but you can always start a new and better beginning. Don't focus on your past, but look forward to the future.
3. Recognize that you are unique
Yes! we are unique. Even twins don't have the same finger prints, don't have the same attitude, don't have the same face and don't have the same thinking. So, recognize that you are unique and accept who you are.
4. Identify your strength
As I mentioned above, you are unique and you have your own strengths. Don't compare yourself to others so you won't end up having a self pity.
Try to identify your strength. List it down if possible and you will found out that you have enough strengths to be happy.
Look and work with your strength instead of being sad over your weaknesses.
5. Think positively
Being optimistic will make you happy too. Why? Because thinking positively will give you good vibes, will make you happy even just thinking that you can do something.
Always say to yourself "I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength"
6. Be contented and thankful
Be contented on what you have and have a thankful heart. List all your blessings from smallest to biggest, from simpliest to greatest and you will find out how blessed you are and start to thank God for having it.
Being contented on what you have will make you happy.
7. Remember that God loves you
In times that you think no one loves you, always remember that God loves you more than anyone else.
God says in Jeremiah 31:3 "I have love you with an everlasting love"
Thank you for reading and I hope you
will be more happy.
That's right, and even if you are in the worsts situation, you shouldn't forget to love, love makes your heart soften even everyone hates your existence but you don't have to hate them at all, just having a soft heart doesn't mean that you're weak, you are strong actually. Even if everyone makes you miserable don't forget to love them still and forgive them. There was a saying past is past you cannot change it after all but you can change your future; and oh being contented as well. That's what the true essence of being happy :)