4 Signs That Someone is Lying to You
Realizing that someone is lying to you is easier than you can imagine.
We must first be aware that people are lying. They lie more than is necessary for their normal functioning. It seems that a world without lies could not exist. One lie will easily create another, then another and another... They will multiply very quickly. So fast that you will be tempted to believe.
A lie is everywhere around us. The grandmother will lie to her grandson that the police will come to take him to prison if he does not eat a snack. Children will lie to their parents that they ate only one bar of chocolate, and in fact they ate much more. The husband will lie to his wife that he was in a meeting with important partners, and in fact he will be in bed with another woman. A lie is on the street, in the market, at work, everywhere. Sometimes we lie to ourselves, sometimes to others. Sometimes others lie to us. The hardest thing is when someone believes in their lies. In that case, it takes a lot of effort to turn to the truth. If you suspect that someone is lying to you, pay attention to the following signs and everything will be much clearer.
A storm of emotions
When a lie is told, imagine a black sky above you, full of thick clouds and suddenly a storm begins. A storm of emotions that will be visible on the face of a lying person. The face may turn red due to the feeling of shame that in most cases accompanies a lie. Fear will soon join in, and then look straight in the eye. You will see raised upper eyelids and tensed lower eyelids. In fear and shame, liars talk louder to sound more confident because they have to overcome their thoughts that know the truth. A person who lies does not always have to show enthusiasm. Sometimes it could be very calm, but you will feel discomfort. The discomfort is hard to hide. Discomfort creates pressure and information comes out under pressure. Get ready for a rush of information.
A rush of information
When a lie starts to flow, words are chosen carefully because they are easy to manage. It is true that we are the ones who control what is said, but a lie will lead us to a story full of details so that we sound more convincing and the details are easily forgotten. One forgotten detail leads to the revelation of lie. Remember what they tell you, because they will forget. Prepare to listen carefully before the rush of information.
Uncontrolled body movements and hiding
It is very likely that people who lie will try to hide their face with their hands or will scratch and touch their face. It is possible that they will not stand or sit still. You will notice a frequent change of position. Those who are experienced in lying will very often successfully control their hands, but make sure one part of the body never lies and that are the legs.
Um... Ah... Pause...
Using crutch words like "um", "ah" does not have to be a reliable indicator of lying. Many people use these words in their speech and it does not mean that they are lying. But if you notice frequent breaks, which can last a long time or be repeated, it could be a lie. However, be careful when you hear "um", "ah" ... It is possible that nervousness leads to the use of these words, which can be accompanied by sighs, sweating and anxiety. Fear is the basis of every lie, because a lie mostly arises as a consequence of fear of the truth.
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Lies can be easily forgotten it happens to be because am not good in it but some people are so experience